The person who loves me and the person I love, how do you choose between two girls?

It is happy to be able to live with the person you love for a lifetime, because you love her, and you also let yourself understand how much it takes to love someone;

But living with someone who loves her for a lifetime is a kind of happiness, because she loves herself, no matter when, she will always be the first person in her heart to stand in an important position, no matter what she finds, she will always think about herself first, not herself.

Therefore, I personally think that if you want to choose, choose to love yourself!Because, I am a kind of happiness!

When I saw this, I couldn't help but burst into tears again I know that you love her, and you haven't told me the above words, if there is any big thing, you discuss it with her, yes, then what am I! We've been together for 7 years! I'm just a substitute who is wholeheartedly devoted to you and never thought of leaving you

You are clearly biased in her writing this, why don't you write about her shortcomings and only mine? Why didn't you say you gave me an abortion? Why don't you say I'm cooking, washing dishes, and washing clothes for you? Why don't you say that I have been with you for the past 7 years?

Caring too much only hurts in the end

Pick the first one. The one who truly loves you.

The second one has already been hurt by you, and she may not want to live in the shadow of the first.

If you're sure she's in love with you, of course it's the girl who loves you.

After all these years, you still have contact with your former friends! It shows that you are still thinking about her! She loves you too!

And your current girlfriend will help you pull it out of your loss! But look now! I often find clues from my mobile phone or QQ (because I thought there was nothing to see at the time, so I didn't want to hide it from her), so I often quarreled and broke up.

Can you absolutely do it??? Can such a girlfriend still get along?

Hello, I personally believe that the first choice should be the person you love, time is the best run-in, there will always be two people like each other, if it is not because you like him to be with him, then it is better to live alone in a chic way, after all, women are not only partners, they also have family and friends, there are many wonderful things in the world waiting for us to see, like a person is a kind of happiness, the decadent idea of choosing to love yourself will only make people aging from the inside out.

In other words, if you like a person, the initiative and control are yours, and if you don't like it, you can leave generously, simply and neatly. And being liked by a person will only make you restricted everywhere, if you like him, it's good that the two are happy, if you don't like it, being good to him will delay others, treating him badly and making people sad, and harmful to your reputation.

And if the person who likes you suddenly doesn't like you, it will only be you who is sad, and suddenly it will be you who is missing something. It's really uncomfortable to feel like the initiative is in someone else's hands.

I'm also a girl, of course I choose to be with the person I love, do you think, if you are with someone you love yourself, and he doesn't love you, do you think you will be happy? But if you are with someone who loves you, you will get more love, and finally tell you that it is better to be loved than to love.

At first, I chose to love myself, but then after I was exhausted, I began to think that I should choose to love myself, and then you will find that the person who loves you, you will slowly fall in love with him.

Hello, choose to love yourself will be very cared for! You will be happy to choose what you love! It's best to love each other!

It's best if both parties love each other, if only one person loves, I will choose the one I love!

It's up to personal choice. None of them are optimal.

It's a lifelong thing to be together, so no matter what you choose, it's good that the two of you can be happy in the future.

The ideal is to be in love.

Choosing A, you have to face pressure from all sides. One is from her parents, who are not particular about things, which makes you lose face. One is from your parents, whether they were good to your girlfriend after marriage.

If you choose B, you need to completely break off the relationship with A, otherwise it will hurt B and will not be good for your future marriage and family life.

Personally, I think: choose someone you love, otherwise you may regret it for a lifetime. Life can be created by two people. Discuss with your parents, take A to talk to your parents, how about a compromise at the man's family, and let the woman and the woman's parents also talk.

If there is true love, why compromise, to pursue your true love, it is not easy to come by.

This is a major life event, and it must not be sloppy. I don't think a happy marriage can be a marriage without the blessing of my parents, so I must ask for my parents' consent. My feeling is to give up A, because two people are together, the feeling is certain, but the feeling will become shallow with the passage of time, slowly fade, followed by trivial things in life, if you love someone again, but her way of doing things and communicating with people does not get along with you, it is bound to be a trouble in the future.

What's more, even if you are with A, your parents will not approve of her, which will cause her harm. But giving up A doesn't mean choosing B, anyway, it's best to get along with B, if you really think it's not good, forget it, after all, it's a lifelong thing. Anyway, marriage and love are not the same, it is not only the wind and snow, but also firewood, rice, oil and salt, but no matter what choice you make, you must stick to it and don't regret it.

Hope to enlighten you!

Personally, I think that if he really loves you, he will change everything for you.

He will feel that the world is wonderful because of you. will cherish the days with you, you often quarrel, maybe he cares too much about you.

In fact, if you are with someone you like, you would rather be with him for 2 years than with someone who likes you for 20 years!

In fact, there is such a saying: If you can't get someone you like, then let someone who likes you get me!

If you get married, find someone who is willing to pay for you, and who is of high quality (don't quarrel at every turn) who can understand you. You also care a little bit about him. The natural conditions are slightly better, otherwise it will really affect the next generation!

Don't hesitate to talk to the girl you like, or the girl who likes you! That's more correct than any of us would have given you!

Wish: Lovers will eventually become married!

To give you an example from one of my side: A and B fall in love with C at the same time, and C loves them too.

C loves A the most, and because he loves him very much, C will suffer from gains and losses when he is with him, and gradually feels that he has lost himself, so C begins to be at a loss;

C also feels very good about B, although I don't love him so much, but it's very comfortable to be with him, I don't have to speculate about his heart, I don't have to worry about that, I live a very comfortable life, and I can also supervise and help each other in my studies and work.

So, at the end of the day, C and B were together.

As the saying goes, it's easier to fall in love than to get along. The favorite doesn't have to be the one who goes to the end. Determine what you want in life, what the other party can give you, and then what suits you is the best.

Look at your own feelings, when you are most lonely and lonely, you want to be by your side the most, you choose.

Choose the person you fall in love with, because if you love the first one enough, there will be no second love.

In my opinion, you should still choose the one that will make you more comfortable when you are with you, and it is better to find someone who loves you more, so that he will care more about you because of the competitors.

Choose Anfen, you won't mess with flowers.

Meantime? There is no sequence. If so, please ask, I'll tell you.

First, I'm not the one who gives up lead hunger easily.

So I'll definitely work hard.

And try to make the people I love fall in love with me too.

After a lot of hard work, you may be impressed.

But if it's really Wu Ming's, it still doesn't work.

There's nothing to do about it.

Die for it. Put him in your heart.

Anyway, you worked hard.

No regrets. It's always good.

Hehe. Then be with the people who love you.

Try to love him. Maybe you weren't happy at first.

I believe it will be accepted in the future.

Don't let yourself regret it.

Loved. It's good to have tried.

I don't know how old you are? Well....Once.

I will choose the person I love without consideration, because at that time I was stupid and just wanted to be with him, even if I knew what the result was, I still wouldn't give up, my friends scolded me for being stupid, I wouldn't listen to persuasion, I felt that I had worked hard, I had paid, after a long time, he would definitely be moved, just like that, a few years later, I wasted a few years of youth, Huai Xun was for a person who made me heartbroken, until this year, after he said some words, so that Heng I suddenly hated this person very much, hurt again and again, I don't have that much patience anymore, and I'm starting to choose to forget about him, and for months, I think I've buried him in my heart. I felt that I must not have been awake at the time, carried away by love, and now, I feel.

As a girl, I should be proud, and I don't need to make myself so embarrassed for a man. Right now.

I will only accept people who love me, after all, the one who is not active will be less tired. Love, not hard work will definitely get, meaningless efforts, will only make yourself blame why you were so stupid many years later, if you are choosing these two people, as a girl, I will hope that you choose the former.