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Well, in fact, I have had such an experience before, but in fact, if you think about it carefully, in fact, we don't need to worry about these things at all, isn't Jay Chou's Daoxiang sung like this? "Success is not the goal, making yourself happy is called meaning. Not only should you not have low self-esteem, but also face it positively, you know, inferiority complex can not change anything, you can only give yourself pain, besides, people will evaluate it, go your own way and let others say it!
As long as you do everything you should do, communicate more with your classmates, and do a good job in interpersonal relationships, nothing will make you unsteady. Is that right? However, this is just my advice to you, whether you can get out of the shadows or not depends on yourself!
If there is any mental obstacle, you can ask me and I will help you! (*
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Try your best to give full play to your strengths, use your strengths in this area to attract others' attention to you, and let others affirm you! In this way, you will have a place in front of your classmates, and you will not always feel inferior or anything. In fact, everyone is not good at something, but try your best to do what you are good at!
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I'm also in my second year of high school, and I'm just as careful as you are, and I'm more scary than you before, I've been in elementary school, and I almost went to the infirmary once.
Actually, I don't think you have a psychological problem, most of the careful people are very sensitive, in fact, many people around you will be like you will not be able to sleep because of a look or action from others, they just don't say it.
I don't know if you have such an experience, when you were a child, you played with a group of friends, some children deliberately isolated you, you really want to be with them, when you have friends, you care a lot, and you are afraid of losing. Or you are too upright, straightforward, and have a sense of justice, and others feel that you can't be a little false in front of you, so they isolate you.
These are my experiences when I was a child, so I was very concerned about what others said and did, and I was afraid of losing my friends.
It's not surprising that a lot of people have this kind of mentality after work.
In short, after I went to high school, first, I had a lot of schoolwork and no time to think about it, and second, I thought about the old saying that those who don't have the intention to listen have a heart, maybe others don't mean that at all. Besides, if he really meant that, let him express it with his eyes. The second year of high school is very hard, and if you are too obsessed with these little things, you will regret it in the future, how can this become a stumbling block that stops you from moving forward?
When you pass by your ideals, the real inferiority complex will be manifested, and then you will really suffer for a long time for a look and an action for others.
It's not a bad thing, but it's to be able to restrain yourself.
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Brother, don't think deeper, these are all normal! ~
Everyone's starting line is different, now you can see it in adolescence, some are very good, but you can't, these are for a reason, don't doubt, remember that now is the time to know yourself, you have to grow, analyze yourself well, find shortcomings, to overcome corrections, will be perfect, life needs to be constantly improved, who can do it in the future, let's not take it to heart, than to see who can survive in this society better, come on, support you! ~
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Actually, it's better to be alone, you know, anyway, it's still scattered later. Also, what matters to you now is to study. When you look back, you realize that all of this is insignificant, and when you slowly see the world clearly, you will be very likely to stop caring about those things.
I am also in this stage, even worse than you, let, work together, go through this period, and then, look back on the past with a smile, and be glad that my choice was not wrong.
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I had it since I was in elementary school, and I had psychological problems.
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Summary. Hello, pick the second one.
Hello, pick the second one.
After thinking about it for half a minute, and being listless, it shows that he has no confidence in completing the goal, and the best thing to shout about is to tell the specific implementation steps he took to achieve the goal for Zheng Xingchi.
Teacher, what about this?
Hello, you have chosen this one correctly.
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Summary. The first one is all right, and the second one is right.
The first one is all right, and the second one is right.
Teacher, help me look at this question.
The second. Teacher!
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