The helpless entanglement of older women Older leftover women are very helpless in the face of feeli

Why is it so picky? Let's practice the stall. Nowadays, many young people are practicing stalls. If you have money, you will open a store, and if you don't have money, you will rent a small block, and if you don't have money, you will set up a stall. If you become bigger, you will be the boss in the future. It's a long-term career.

Those who have a will will do everything, there is a goal to have motivation, motivation must also have perseverance, if you do nothing to do it or retreat, then nothing can be done, young people should not be afraid of hardship and tiredness, insist on working hard, do anything can be successful, I have always believed in a sentence, there is nothing difficult in things, only afraid of people with hearts, come on, young is the best capital, do not hesitate, recognize the right to start, will succeed, good luck.

First of all, you should pay attention to what industry you are interested in, give yourself some time, and find your interests. Then, according to your interests, find a job related to your interests, study the job, and seek further development. If you can't find that you have obvious hobbies, then find a job first and study on the job, which is the most economical and cost-effective, you can study and make money.

There must be room for development in the work, for example, if you work hard to do this, you can be very successful, that is to say, you can "go from a slave to a general", and you have to find such a unit. Learning technology does not have to have obvious professional traces, or traditional majors, such as operating clothing, shoes and hats, etc., then there is no professional here, but it can be bigger and stronger. I hope my brief point of view can support you, and if you need any other help, you can send me a message and we will continue to talk.

Hope to be happy.

Will fall in love, will get married, life may be more difficult. Faced with the reality of having older women left behind, you may have to surrender and choose a similar one. This choice may be sorry for your persistence and pursuit, but you are more afraid that you will not have a chance to make up for it after a long time.

Love and marriage need a foundation. Without a foundation, any storm can destroy your marriage and will, from lifestyle habits to values. Only then will you realize that the marriage you were going to have is more terrible than a single marriage, and it may make your life worse than death.

Therefore, I would rather be an older woman than a short-term abandoned woman. Live with confidence and be your own queen. Life is all about how you treat it.

If you don't have a prince to put on beautiful crystal slippers for you, then earn money to buy a pair of crystal slippers to wear. Walk down the street with confidence, and you're still the queen of high returns. You are just short without support for the rest of your life.

It is your right for a woman to hold up half the sky, and to live beautifully.

Women are beautiful and shine for themselves. It is a woman's nature to love beauty, and the pursuit of beauty has never stopped. The one who lives well is the winner.

Beauty is not only about appearance, but also about the temperament and aura that emanates from the inside out at all ages. Even if you go out to take out the trash, put on a nice makeup so that you are worthy of the kind of man you have been after. Be careful.

It's shocking. It scares the good guys away. Say goodbye to the otaku and go out as a goddess.

Good people are not imaginary, nor are they daydreams.

You have to say goodbye to the housewife and meet a good man when you go out. Organize your inside and outside and go to crowded places. Gather with friends and classmates to expand your social circle.

Don't be afraid to communicate with strangers, in the future you will find it easy to take this step. I hope mine can help you, and I also hope you can help me**, like, support me more, and follow me more. If you have any questions and requests, you can leave a message in the comment area, and I will reply one by one.

When older leftover women face feelings, they must first stabilize their mentality, don't feel ashamed, and then see if they can find the right one, if they find the right one, they can consider getting married.

At this time, don't be too depressed, and you must believe in yourself, and don't be defeated by society or life, start a new life, and meet new people.

When you encounter an inappropriate relationship, you should decisively choose to break up, there is no need to choose your own feelings for the sake of compromise, and don't care about other people's opinions.

You should still be brave, and you should also actively face some emotional problems in life, although you are an older leftover girl, you should also be brave.

Although older leftover women are very satisfied with their lives, not getting married can always become something that people criticize in their mouths, but the older leftover women got married in a hurry in order to marry themselves, but they didn't know whether the personalities of the two people were suitable or not, so they got married hastily. Once you meet the wrong person, it will cause a lifetime of misery, unhappiness in life, unhappiness in work, and no happiness in the future.

Friend Xiao A is a 37-year-old independent woman, she got married last year and was stunned, a kind of person in the circle of friends, because the man's conditions are very average in all aspects, and the two got married after only getting along for more than half a month. When they first got married, the two of them often showed affection in the circle of friends, but in less than half a year, when we met Xiao A on the road, we were all taken aback.

The once flamboyant and beautiful girl is gone, and she has become a woman with a sad face and sloppy clothes, inquired about Xiao A's situation in the circle of friends, only to find that the two people did not agree on the three views. The man and the man's family think that Xiao A is already very old, so they ask Xiao A to get pregnant as soon as possible, put down her work, and return to the family, and it is best to be able to marry and teach children at home from now on.

However, the reason why Xiao A refuses to get married is because she works hard for her career, and she has always insisted on independence, how could she give up her career? What about returning to the family? So because of this issue, there was a great dispute between the two sidesThe man didn't consider the problem from Xiao A's point of view at all, but kept doing his duty Xiao A didn't understand people, and there was a little problem at work, and Xiao A's whole person became very bad.

The saddest thing is to be said by a cheap-mouthed idler...

I can't meet the right person, but I don't want to find someone to live with for the rest of my life, and I'd rather be single than suffer in the future.

There is no support, this is a fatal injury, that is, after working hard in the dead of night to an empty home, the feeling of loneliness you can't imagine.

The biggest sorrow of older leftover women is the enthusiasm and care from friends or relatives around them.

The saddest thing for older single women is lack of money! How sad can you get up if you have a lot of money! I have never seen a sad person with a lot of money, I have only seen a sad person who is short of money.

No one around me is sincere to himself, and he has a plan.

Who has lived a full life, saints are a group of independent women, who can support themselves without relying on men or parents.

The saddest thing is that others think that she should marry casually for the sake of others!

No one has ever understood me at work, and I have been criticized by my boss every time.

The saddest thing about older leftover women is that they have no self-knowledge, thinking that they are valuable thieves, and the bride price is sky-high, and in the end they are still alone.

The saddest thing is that the face is aging, the reproductive function is declining, the parents are getting older, they begin to need someone to take care of them, there are fewer and fewer suitors, and if you look beautiful, you can meet a few men who want to take advantage of you, but there are few suitors who can be trusted, and you are still immersed in the past that you have been pursued by many people.

The saddest thing about older leftover women is that there is a deviation in their evaluation of themselves, and using this deviation to measure the man they want to marry is not only a failure, but also a failure!

The three views are not right, the heart is higher than the sky, the life is thinner than paper, and I have missed a lot of good men, not because I will give in, but because I overestimate myself.

Overestimating oneself and underestimating others.

The saddest thing is that I was left!

The greatest sorrow comes from the excessive "care" of family and friends around them

Marry for your family, not for yourself.

The saddest thing is that I obviously don't want to get married in my heart, but the people around me think that how can a woman not get married, is it stupid, and finally he can't withstand the pressure and has to go against his will to become realistic.

Work has changed dramatically because of family.

At present, marriage is no longer a necessity of life, just live yourself.

The years are unforgiving, the flowers bloom, and she becomes an old girl.

The speculation of girlfriends, the distance of friends, and the forced marriage of parents.

The garbage is the saddest, the eats too much, and I don't look at what I am.

Poor, no house, no car, no deposit.

Parents and relatives desperately forced marriage.

In the past, it was you who picked others, but now it is others who pick you.

It's not good-looking, it's not good at work, and I want to find a man with a lot of money.

If I can't get married, I don't know what to do (o)!

Older leftover women have the distress of being urged to marry.

The older leftover women don't dare to go home for the New Year, the seven aunts and eight aunts, and the relatives and friends who can't beat the eight poles have seen it, and they all have to greet me if they are married, saying that they are not married and begin to educate me with a bitter heart, saying that if they don't get married, they won't find a good one, and if they don't get married, they will be older mothers, and the quality of the children they give birth to is not good, and they are also in danger. After the age of 25, the girl's appearance and figure will become lower and lower, and the one she will find in the future will definitely not be good. My head hurts when I hear it.

I'm not married at my age now, and I've been listed as an older leftover girl by my mother, and my mother will also euphemistically urge me, saying that I'm almost 30 years old, it's time to grow up, don't let others worry about it. She's worried about my marriage, and she doesn't want to worry about anything else. What makes me sad is that when I was a child in a foreign school, the memories of those people in the village are stuck in my elementary school, so they think that after a few years, I am still in junior high school, and every time I go back to my hometown, they will ask me if I am in high school.

More people have forgotten me, no one has introduced me to anyone, I talk to the object myself, my mother doesn't like it, and now seeing that I am overage, I actually agreed, saying that the person is your choice, you have to be responsible for others, hurry up and get married, I suspect that my mother is my boyfriend's real mother. Not only my mother urged me to get married, but my friends were more anxious than me, and every day they asked when they would get married, I would perfunctory them when they would make a lot of money, give me a big red envelope, and I would get married again, and they would laugh and laugh in the past, and wait until the next time they chatted and asked.

I sometimes have my own troubles, I think it's really not small, I should get married, but I'm very confused, I don't know if this person is suitable, whether it will be divorced not long after getting married, and it's not a way to keep it like this, and I'm very distressed.

After reaching this age, there will indeed be a certain amount of distress, for example, if you can't find a suitable partner, you will feel panicked in your heart, and you will think that it will be like this for the rest of your life.

The seven aunts and eight aunts are familiar with each other, and they all want to educate you to marry quickly. Distress comes from the outside, not from the inside. In their eyes, the older leftover women are miserable and pretend to be happy.

This is also more distressing. Why do you think I'm unhappy?

Of course, older leftover girls have troubles, and the biggest trouble is facing the urging of their parents and relatives to marry, but they can't find a suitable marriage partner, especially as they grow older, their parents sigh when they face themselves.

There are really a lot of troubles for older leftover women, there is no one they like, and they will be forced to marry by their parents during the New Year or from time to time, and it is not a way to be single like that every day.

The distress of older leftover women is that it is not easy to find a partner. When I was young and beautiful, I didn't find the other half I liked, and when I was older, I was less competitive than the little girl, and it was more difficult, so I was distressed.

There are a lot of troubles for older leftover women, the first is the urging of their parents to marry, and they urge themselves to be more anxious than themselves all the time, the second is their own distress, I am worried that I can't get married, and the third is to be paired with my friends and maybe even have children, so this comparison is even more distressing.

When a person reaches a certain age, he will indeed have a lot of troubles, and sometimes it is difficult to find the other half, etc., because when he is older, he will also encounter all kinds of marriage urgings.

There are many difficulties, such as being often urged to marry by parents at home, or always being treated differently by others when going out, which will make you feel very distressed.

The most important thing is to recognize yourself, you are just a very ordinary woman, no matter how beautiful you are, you will only depreciate more and more in the face of age. I can't find it when I'm young and in my prime, and when I'm old and decrepit, can I find a better one?

Why do women now seem to be wronged when they get married, and it is your Achilles' heel to prefer to miss rather than take the initiative. are all passively waiting, waiting for a prince charming to fall from the sky to take the initiative to pursue you, I really don't know if I watched too many movies or TV series, but I don't know that in the process of waiting, those high-quality men have already been snatched away.

There are too many women who think they are princesses, there are only a few princes, young women want to be princesses, and older leftover women still want to be princesses, do you think you can compete with other young sisters-in-law? Immersed in your own ideal world, the reality will definitely not be as good as you want.