What should I do if I fall in love with someone who is divorced and has two sons?

There is a fact to be thankful for in this world. That is, how you treat others, others will treat you. If you love and educate these two children as if they were your own children, they will treat you as if you were their own mother.

Even if their own mother comes, they won't give up on you. If you're always thinking that they're going to kick me out when they're older, then you're going to treat them the same way you would treat them the way you kicked them out. When you treat them with this attitude, how will they treat you in the future?

So I suggest you treat them like your own mother, and you will be rewarded. It's all about how you do it.

You are friendly to people, you are open-minded, even if you have children in the future, you will treat them the same, do you have to worry about anything? Children who grow up in a friendly environment do you think they will also be kind to others? I think their real mothers will feel ashamed to see you, and they will accept you from the bottom of their hearts.

So if you are open to yourself, you will get the happiness you deserve. Don't look ahead and be yourself.

If you really love someone, you should love everything about him, his parents, career, ideas, desires, ......This also includes his children. If you really love him, you should pay for him silently, even if others oppose it and don't understand, you should stick to it. As for the child, there will be a rejection reaction at first, after all, 8 years old (older) I think you can communicate with him first, time will change his opinion of you, after all, there will be feelings between people, don't be too anxious, give the child some space to adapt, I believe that the effort will always be rewarded!

Wishing you happiness!

Love is like that sometimes, and if you fall in love, you really can't do it, and I want you to think about it before you decide:

First, do you really, really love him?

Second, is he worthy of your love, and are you relieved to give him your happiness?

Third, does he really love you?

Fourth, think a little about the economy!

If you really understand these, then you know how to choose, if one of the three answers, then you'd better think about it, because this is a lifetime thing, if there is the power of love, then the problem after that is not a problem, the power of love is infinite, if there is no love, then the consequences are ......You can guess it!

Think about it, you need to be rational in the face of love! Wishing you happiness!

The road is chosen by yourself, you don't want any children and unmarried men outside, you think these divorced men are mature, there is no way to say it ugly, these tiredness are all found by yourself, and you can't complain about others!

For money, pull down, and for love.

If you want to divorce, it proves that there is no affection between you, don't think about how many children you have, people have a short life, and happiness is the most important thing.

If you want to divorce, you can divorce, what does it have to do with your sons?

Either one for one person, or both.

Either neither.

This needs to be resolved through negotiation.

Summary. Well, the teacher understands you, understands your feelings, you fall in love with your feelings. The teacher advises you, you are very young, well, don't worry.

It's okay to like someone, and you don't want to marry him right away, right? Falling in love, he is blind, but when you enter marriage, you must be sensible parents, relatives and friends, what about the people who suggest you let you marry, you can not marry, but all the people around your parents and relatives do not let you marry, you must listen to them. Think carefully and don't rush to make a decision.

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Good evening. What's wrong? Falling in love with an established relationship? You are single. Does the family disagree?

I am single and in love with a divorced man with two sons.

Well, the teacher understands you very much, and understands your entanglement. Reason tells you, if you fall in love with him, you will be very hard, but what about feelings, you can't help but invest again.

So what is the problem you are facing right now? What kind of help do you need from your teacher?

I really love him so much, my parents don't agree, all my relatives don't agree, I feel so uncomfortable, I want to die.

How old are you? What do you like about this man?

I'm 22 years old, and I don't know what I like about him, but I just love him.

Well, the teacher understands you, understands your feelings, you fall in love with your feelings. The teacher advises you, you are very young, well, don't worry. It's okay to like someone, and you don't want to marry him right away, right?

Falling in love, he is blind, but when you enter marriage, you must be sensible parents, relatives and friends, what about the people who suggest you let you marry, you can not marry, but all the people around your parents and relatives do not let you marry, you must listen to them. Think carefully and don't rush to make a decision.

Summary. Hello dear, what is the attitude of the other party now if you want to divorce, first of all, it is recommended that you can divorce by agreement if you can divorce by agreement with the other party, because this time is shorter. However, if the negotiation fails, the divorce can only be litigated, and the following preparations need to be made for litigated divorce:

1. Prepare a complaint. The pleadings need to contain the identity information of both parties, the claims, the facts and reasons, and briefly describe the basic facts. 2. Prepare evidence.

Evidence needs to be prepared marriage certificate, divorce agreement, property situation, etc. If you have these ready, you can sue, and you can choose to file a lawsuit in the court where the other party is located.

Hello dear, what is the attitude of the other party now if you want to divorce, first of all, it is recommended that if you can divorce by agreement with the other party, you can divorce by agreement, because the lack of imitation is shorter. However, if the negotiation fails, you can only file a lawsuit for divorce, and you need to make the following preparations for litigation divorce: 1. Prepare a complaint.

The pleadings need to contain the identity information of both parties, the claims, the facts and reasons, and briefly describe the basic facts. 2. Prepare evidence. Evidence needs to be prepared marriage certificate, divorce agreement, property situation, etc.

If you have these ready, you can sue, and you can choose to file a lawsuit in the court where the other party is located.

I have been married for five years and have two sons.

Are you trying to fight for custody of your child?

No. He had a temper and beat me, and at that time our family did not agree to our marriage, and later he did not agree to me going to my parents' house.

Did you keep the evidence when you hit you?

There is a **. He beat me before, and after that, I put up with it.

The other party does not agree to the divorce now.

After he hit me this time, he now admits his mistake and apologizes to me, but his nature is difficult to change.

If the other party does not agree to the divorce, you can choose to file for divorce.

However, the litigation divorce takes a long time, and if the other party beats you again, it is recommended that you keep the evidence.

If there is only **, it is not enough, it is best to call the police, so that the police record and the record of ** can also be used as a piece of evidence.

In this way, when you sue for divorce, you can strive to divorce at one time.

Summary. Hello dear, you have two sons who want to divorce, you can choose to divorce by lawsuit or agreement, and you can fight for child custody.

Hello dear, you have two sons who want to divorce, you can choose to divorce by lawsuit or agreement, and you can fight for child custody.

Specifically, with regard to the ownership of custody of two children, it is a principle that children under the age of two will be directly raised by the mother.

Legal basis: Article 1084 of the Civil Code The relationship between parents and children shall not be extinguished by the divorce of parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to provide for their children's maintenance, education, and protection. After the divorce, children under the age of two years shall be directly raised by their mother's socks. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child.

Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

Hello dear, do you have any specific demands for divorce, you can describe it in detail.

My two sons have been married for five years, and now he beats me several times, and I don't want to put up with him.

After he beat me, he apologized and admitted his mistakes, but his nature is difficult to change, and his family doesn't like me very much, so I kind of want to part with him.

Don't worry about this situation, he often has domestic violence, right?

Can you get a divorce by mutual agreement?

Domestic violence for four or five years, he beat me a lot of times, all of them are beating hard and the two parties agreed to divorce, I feel inseparable, because he is more than a bride price, so if he is married for four or five years, the two sons should not return much, and then I can only sue the court for divorce, who will the child belong to, in fact, I don't want to cover up the child, but I want to give him custody.

I don't have a relationship with him as well as saving money, I miss you for the sake of my two children, but I can't pay attention to it, I'm very entangled now.

In this case, if you really can't live with him, I suggest that you can negotiate and if you really can't live, then consider divorce.

I understand your feelings, because we deal with a lot of these kinds of things.

Are you worried about the impact on your child?

Yes, I'm very entangled, I'm afraid that the shadow brother book will ring up to the child, in the end, you or you will be better for the child, but if I really can't get along with him, it will hurt the child, I'm really entangled in the bridge, and I don't know how to make a choice.

I understand your feelings in this situation, in many cases, it is the mother who sacrifices a lot for the sake of the child.

How long has this been going on for both of you?

I had this idea every time he hit me, but I've been putting up with it for the sake of my child for about a year or two.

It is equivalent to his continuous domestic violence for a year, during which time you have not reported to the police.

I am very sympathetic to what you are going through.

Therefore, let's prepare for the worst now, if you are ready to divorce, do you have your own claims for child custody?

Summary. No matter who it is, everyone has the right to love, the last marriage may have made you have a sense of frustration, so in the process of taking children, when you meet a man who loves you and a man who is willing to accept your two children, you hesitate, you are confused, you are at a loss, in fact, how happy you are, there is a man who is willing to accept your children, don't mind that you have been divorced, there are many people who fail in the first relationship, But they will reap the happiness they want in their second relationship.

I am a divorced woman who met a man who loved me and my two children. What am I going to do.

No matter who it is, everyone has the right to love, the last marriage may have made you have a sense of frustration, so in the process of taking children, when you meet a man who loves you and a man who is willing to accept your two children, you hesitate, you are confused, you are at a loss, in fact, how happy you are, there is a man who is willing to accept your children, don't mind that you have been divorced, there are many people who fail in the first relationship, But they will reap the happiness they want in their second relationship.

Can you tell the teacher, how do you feel about this man? Is there something that makes you feel overwhelmed, what to do, or what are you afraid of? It is not easy to meet a man who loves himself, if you also like this man, you also love this man, the teacher is suggesting that you strive for happiness for yourself, if you have any doubts, you can talk to the teacher, and the teacher will help you analyze and analyze.