New employees refuse to drink leadership wine and are beaten, what are the deformed cultures at the

Wine culture can be said to be more widespread in our country, but with the passage of time, the wine culture is becoming more and more deformed, and even new employees are beaten because they refuse to drink the wine poured by the leader, which is really helpless, and the deformed culture on the wine table is not only theseI believe that many people have heard of the news of their own death due to excessive drinking, which also belongs to the deformed wine culture, so the most important thing for drinkers is to do what they can, otherwise once there is a problem, not only will they suffer, but even the people at the wine table will be implicated.

In addition to the deformed culture of the wine table just mentioned, there is also the psychology of face, because we all know that the best way to drink alcohol is moderation, drink as much as you can, and stop once you are drunkBut some people can't stop once they hold their glasses, because people think that the more they drink, the more refreshing they are, otherwise they will instigate others, and most Chinese have a better face, so they will drink in this self-harming way.

Secondly, because of the influence of feudal thinking, because some people always think that the wife and children at home must listen to me, so naturally when I toast you at the wine table, you must drink, like to impose your will on others, once the other party refuses, you will think that your authority has been provoked, so that the toast will become forced to drink; There are also some people who don't think it's a big deal to watch the excitement, because when someone at the wine table is drunk, maybe the parties are not clear, but the people at the same table will know, if they come forward to dissuade them at this time, then they can avoid the tragedy, but many people are more lively and less righteous, so there will be so many tragedies.

In the end, it is a kind of herd mentality, everyone's amount of alcohol is different, some people are not drunk with a thousand glasses, and some people basically can't stand it after drinking a little, but often in public, once someone raises a glass to invite, it is basically hard-headed,Because many people are worried that if they don't have the same as everyone else, then they will undoubtedly be abandoned, so it is precisely this that leads to more and more such deformed drinking table cultures.

If you die, you have to save face and suffer sin, and you have to hold on even if you can't drink it; If you come late, you need to punish yourself with three cups; Others drink themselves, and they don't know how to reject others, a typical herd mentality.

The deformed wine table culture also has the prevalence of self-punishment of three glasses and comparison, frantically pouring other people's wine, always persuading girls and women to drink, saying things like "if you don't drink, you won't give face, and if you don't drink, you're not a man" and so on.

Generally, there is someone to accompany the wine at the wine table, and it seems that the business can only be negotiated after drinking. There must also be a particularly expensive liquor on the wine table in order to be considered sincere. And there must be a lot of leftovers on the wine table to be considered face-saving, these behaviors are very extravagant and wasteful.

In fact, there are many deformed cultures at the wine table, for example, everyone will persuade them to drink, if they don't drink, everyone will feel very bad, and everyone basically drinks for the sake of drinking, and there is not a lot of emotional communication.

Don't move the chopsticks, eat and get off the table together. When eating, the boss can't move the chopsticks and everyone can't eat, and they are not allowed to leave the table when they are full.

First of all, it is easy to cause damage to the body. Ever since I was a child, I have heard the saying "I have to drink in the future", and my elders have said that when I work in the future, I will inevitably go to the wine table. The reality behind this is that the wine culture is now prevalent in work.

Sometimes it's really unavoidable, and drinking is a necessary skill. For example, the marketing department, sales department, purchasing department and other related practitioners are often talking about business by inviting guests to dinner, and drinking alcohol is necessary in this case. However, in many cases, they are forced to drink alcohol for entertainment, and drinking it every day causes serious harm to many people's bodies, and excessive alcohol intake leads to many hidden diseases.

At the same time, drunk driving, car accidents and other situations have also occurred repeatedly. <>

The second is that it is easy to breed bad habits. We have seen a lot of this whether it is from ** reports or film and television dramas. There is a lot of flattery, a lot of smuggling, a lot of gray interests, and even for many women, the wine culture has caused them great distress and helplessness. Therefore, the wine table culture has made the industry atmosphere muddy.

Finally, it is easy to cause a gap in people's psychology. Everyone hated the world when they were young, and they didn't want to be in the same league as hypocritical and snobbish people. But in fact, when you go to society, these things always surround yourself and you can't avoid them.

We're not strong enough to change the rules, and we're just going to have to laugh in this vanity fair. There is such a plot in "Thirty Only", Xu Huanshan scolded him because he couldn't bear the big customer, and then Gu Jia went to apologize, drank two pots of wine, and was harassed, and the result was that the customer faced bankruptcy once he lost Xu Huanshan's fireworks company. From here, we can see how many people are helpless, humble, and pretend behind the wine table culture.

Therefore, this is not conducive to the construction of social atmosphere and the improvement of personal happiness in life. <>

In our workplace, there is always a certain privilege in the leadership of the leader. At a company party, there was a slap in the face because the new employee did not drink the leader's toast.

From this incident, it can also be reflected that there are still many bad habits in our workplace and at the wine table. In my personal opinion, in addition to the leader's toast must be drunk, there are the following disadvantages at the wine table:

1. It is necessary to toast to the leader at the wine tableIn the process of the company's party, there will always be a speech by the leader. Under normal circumstances, the formal dinner will only start after the leader's speech.

And in the process of the meal, those subordinates who want to please the leader will compete to toast the leader. Many leaders also enjoy this process very much.

Because of this kind of behavior, the leader can have a sense of superiority, and at the same time reflect the leader's status in the company; You can also see which people are more respectful of yourself.

And many times, for those who are in the party, do not toast the leader; In the future work, I will also encounter cold treatment. Even if you don't wear small shoes for each other, you won't pay too much attention to this kind of people.

Second, when eating, the leader moves chopsticks first In the company's gathering, there are not only more rules for drinking, but also a lot of attention when eating. For example, before the leader is seated, everyone is not allowed to move chopsticks.

And at the moment when the leader enters, many people will stand up to show their respect for the leader. When a fish is served, the head of the fish will definitely face the leader and so on.

Through these small details and etiquette, when reflecting a person's cultivation and politeness, it also makes the company's party a careful dinner.

As long as there is a leader in the party, I think many of us will not be able to let go, and feel that the whole banquet is very restrained and depressing.

Of course, in the real workplace, only people who are well versed in these etiquettes can be appreciated by the leader and may be cared for by the leader.

Drinking alcohol is a habit in China for thousands of years, and the current wine table is a bad habit; Crazy persuasion of drinking, if you don't drink, you don't give face, it's not sincerity enough. If you don't drink, you can't talk about business, and you have to drink expensive to have sincerity.

The first bad habit on the wine table should be excessive persuasion, most of the wine tables have the behavior of persuading alcohol, it is okay to persuade alcohol in moderation, and it can also enliven the atmosphere on the wine table, but excessive persuasion of alcohol will sometimes make the scene embarrassing. The second is to speak loudly, loudly, sometimes drinking, talking, when it comes to excitement, the tone will be unnaturally raised, which may affect the guests at the same table, of course, most wine table habits are still relatively civilized.

I live in the Northeast, I am really hurt by the wine table culture, the first point is to persuade wine, elders, leaders, friends, no matter who it is, as long as you persuade to drink, drink! There is also a bad habit of drinking until you vomit, commonly known as drinking in place, otherwise you don't treat him as a friend, look down on him, and really can't understand the bad habit.

I think it should be too enthusiastic to toast, so that others are embarrassed to refuse, or the leader abuses his power to force employees to drink to oppress or sexually harass women.

Wine table culture, I think, is the social culture in society. Because of the vast land and resources of our country, so for some things, in fact, it is still a business negotiated at the wine table, so the general business activities generally need to drink, because from ancient times to the present, you can only be friends with me if you drink, and the other words at the wine table are that there is this kind of toast on the wine table itself, and the phenomenon of accompanying and drinking is also very reflected, this kind of business social culture on the wine table.

1. Why don't you get slapped if you don't drink, what exactly is the wine table culture? So because there is such a phenomenon now, then if we go to negotiate any business, then we must drink, because there are a lot of such business activities, all of which are fueled by wine, and in addition, it is general drinking, and he can promote the relationship between the two sides even more, so maybe the wine table culture came into being like this, and in addition, if we go to work or go to work, then there is actually such a culture. Because a department goes to a dinner party or a fraternal organization to drink, then there is a kind of commercial social culture in it, because if you can drink or you are at the wine table, like a fish in water, then in fact, you are not bad in life, so the wine table culture is equivalent to your social culture in society.

2. What kind of social phenomena can be reflected through such events? Because it is deep-rooted for the wine table culture, because of the culture of our country has a long history, because of the beginning of this kind of culture, that is, relatives and friends together or irrelevant heroes, drinking together, drinking happily, worshipping brothers, and then it is very okay, then with the development of the times, the rapid development of the economy, then this culture has gradually been introduced into commercial activities. In many large gatherings, or such small private clubs, if you can drink like that, then there must be a set of accompanying the wine and then toasting, this kind of wine table culture to claim this, social and social culture.

Wine table culture is to oppress others to do things they don't like, which is particularly barbaric. I think this kind of culture, to a certain extent, is illegal and hurts others.

The leader toast must be drunk all, you toast the leader, the leader is free, you drink it all. You must accompany the leader to drink until the end of the dinner or party, and accompany the wine and laughter throughout the whole process.

Wine table culture is a civilized way to promote friendship. The ancient wine table culture is a kind of chic behavior between friends, which can effectively promote the friendship between friends.

Table culture doesn't stop so easily. It's a lot harder to stop the table culture, because it's been a custom for a long time, and it's a little too unlikely that it will start to disappear when most people in society accept it. So don't think that the drinking table culture will stop at the initiative of young people, and it will only get worse, even to the point where you can't drink without drinking.

01, being slapped for not drinking, this incident is really unimaginable, who would have thought that he would be beaten by the company's leaders because he couldn't drink? This newcomer is probably also confused, and if he didn't run fast, he might have been beaten by his colleagues. Then the employee posted it online, and we all saw it.

It's so ridiculous that people forget about their anger for a while. Who would have thought that a superior leader could do such a thing?

02. The tradition of wine culture probably started from the Zhou Dynasty, in fact, the wine table culture was a kind of Zhou rite at the earliest, but with the development of time, people slowly forgot the original meaning of wine culture, and began to make the things on the wine table vulgar and unbearable, and lost the original cultural heritage. If you don't toast to your elders at the wine table, you're disrespectful. But many people don't think that some people really can't drink, which is really too difficult for strong people.

03, the people who force others to drink at the wine table are all Esby I am a very irritable person, so I want to say that the people who force others to drink at the wine table are Esby. No one has ever thought about how difficult it is for people with alcohol allergies to drink in this situation, and no one really cares about how dangerous it is for people who have just drunk cephalosporin to drink alcohol. It's just that for the sake of this tacit wine table rule, it is too tasteless to let others be forced to integrate into these invisible social rules.

Making people do what they don't want to do is rubbish.