Do I have to learn to smoke and drink for social interactions?

Whether or not you need to learn to smoke and drink in social interaction is entirely up to the individual's choice.

First of all, it must be made clear that neither smoking nor excessive alcohol consumption is a good habit, as they can be harmful to the body, and socializing with tobacco and alcohol can also be considered a bad habit in itself. Therefore, from a health point of view, it is not recommended to communicate through smoking and drinking in social interactions.

However, despite this, whether or not you need to smoke and drink alcohol depends on your personal choice. If you don't smoke or drink, then this can be entirely a personal choice for you. In social socializing, you can learn social skills, understand the culture of the drinking table, and use clever refusal to deal with smoking and drinking situations.

Overall, whether you smoke or drink or not, the key is to understand and respect your values and health needs. In social interactions, you can replace smoking and drinking by gradually developing and developing other communicative skills, such as listening, expressing, and understanding the intentions of others. So, the answer to whether you need to learn to smoke and drink in social interactions varies from person to person.

I don't think it's necessary. Smoking is not a good thing to like, and excessive drinking can also be harmful to the body, so smoking and drinking socialization itself is a bad habit.

Social socialization is not necessarily about eating and drinking, and there should be many ways to replace it. It's a pity that not everyone takes it so lightly at the moment, and in the environment of tobacco and alcohol socialization, if you go against this law and do things, it often makes people feel that you are not respectful enough and do not give face.

Therefore, rejecting alcohol and tobacco requires you to have better communication skills, and use your own language arts to replace the role of alcohol and tobacco in socializing, which is difficult but not impossible.

Cigarettes and alcohol, a man at least loves the same, if you don't like both, then how do you socialize? I really don't want to smoke, and it's okay to drink, but in moderation!

Hello friends, social entertainment does not necessarily have to learn to smoke, drinking and smoking are harmful to health, this is not necessary, must be learned, this should be combined with their actual situation and communicate with everyone well, communicate well, sincere communication can be.

Adults in the workplace are well aware of the importance of business dinners, and if they "eat well", they can not only achieve their own goals, but also have many unexpected gains. So here's the problem...

As a subordinate, how can you maintain decency and protect yourself in the drinking party?

Find your target customers.

The most prestigious person at the wine table is generally the one who is invited, and most of them are middle-aged and successful in their careers. The target of your boss or the party who treats him is him, and as for the other escorts, they are just foils. Your boss may be looking for you with the original intention of just a foil, but if you can have an unexpected effect, it will definitely be reused in the future.

If you drink with your guests, you can only be considered qualified at best, but if you drink with your target customers, that's what the boss wants.

Take the initiative to drink When you are at the wine table and others come to persuade you to drink, it is generally because your sense of presence is too weak or your performance is not up to standard. Since you have to drink it, it is better to drink it passively than to drink it actively. After the boss has finished toasting, you can drink directly with the target.

First, if you take the initiative, the other party must drink; Second, you take the initiative and have something to say first. For example, xx leader, I have been sick to my stomach recently, but you are here, I must drink this wine, but I can't drink too much, so I salute you first. In this way, I not only gave the leader enough face, but also told others that I would not drink much after today's glass of wine.

Many times I will chat, the leader will take people there, one is to accompany the wine, and the other is to hope to have a topic to talk about. This requires you to be able to talk very much, and you can talk about anything, the south and the north, astronomy and geography, real-time politics, gossip news, and parents, so that the wine table is lively. Generally speaking, when chatting like this, firstly, the leader is willing, and secondly, when he chats with you, the person next to him will not be uninteresting to persuade you to drink.

Infiltrate in advance. You can't drink this thing, in normal times slowly infiltrate the leader. The leader knows in his heart, and it is not difficult for you at the wine table, so when others talk about drinking every day, you interject "Eh! I just can't drink", everyone knows that if you can't drink, no one will be difficult for you, and there will be no occasion for drinking.

Who says that smoking and drinking alcohol is for entertainment, and that socializing is purely an excuse made by smokers and drinkers for the sake of two drug addictions, smoking and alcohol addiction, these two completely meaningless behaviors, and whether or not they make up lies. In fact, smoking in the workplace is only hated by women as well as male non-smokers. Even smokers themselves look down on smokers, and they have nothing to do with socializing.

Socializing means that you have to be able to smoke, and you have to breathe a mouthful of dirty smoke in front of the other person to be proper.

Socializing means that you have to smoke when you see someone, and the other person has to accept your cigarette and suck the dirty smoke down to be polite?

In fact, this is not the case at all, smoking and smoking for others are purely to create embarrassment, and it is good not to cause unnecessary conflicts, and to socialize.

Speaking of drinkers, drinking alcohol is to temporarily relieve the pain of alcohol addiction, and to form the illusion that drinking will make him comfortable, but in fact he is only temporarily relieved from that painful state, and he has nothing to be comfortable with. Moreover, alcohol addiction, like drug addiction, will soar every day, drink a small glass today, tomorrow you have to drink a big glass, the day after tomorrow you need to drink two glasses to feel "satisfied", and some people eventually develop alcoholism. The reason why many drinkers keep the same amount of alcohol every day is the result of bitter repression and "control".

To sum up, drinking is not enjoyment at all, but spending money to buy sin, and persuading to drink is an act that makes oneself and others uncomfortable at the same time.

Smoking and drinking alcohol is an act of ignorance, which not only has no communicative effect, but also brings harm.

It's your freedom to stick to your principles.

Personally, do I have to smoke and drink for socials? My answer is: cigarettes can not be smoked, but wine must be drunk, because entertainment is generally talked about at the dinner table, and there is a high probability of success at the dinner table, the Chinese people are particular about this kind of occasion, many things are discussed at the dinner table, so when eating at the dinner table, wine must be drunk, it is difficult to run business if you can't drink alcohol, go out to socialize, as for how much wine to drink, it depends on the occasion, but wine must be drunk, cigarettes can not be smoked, but not drinking is not in place.

When it comes to entertainment, everyone will think that entertainment will definitely smoke, drink, feel that these two things are simply the standard configuration of entertainment, generally speaking, entertainment is necessary to drink, on the one hand, drinking is the entertainment person must have, if you can't drink, sometimes the business is difficult to negotiate, on the one hand, drinking also makes customers less surprised, so that customers feel sincere, if customers love to drink very much, then they have to drink even more, although it is "entertainment", but more is sophistication, It's the "doorway" in business.

It's not that there is a saying, "smoke bridges, wine paves the way", this sentence is quite effective in entertainment, we have to think so, if in the process of entertainment, you just simply talk to each other about business, it seems too straightforward, sometimes the "doorway" in business needs to be slowly matched, drink some wine together and talk about the business slowly, sometimes it is in place, not to say a lot of wine, but wine must be indispensable in entertainment, but also a skill that must be known.

Cigarettes can not be smoked in entertainment, and you won't be surprised if you don't smoke the other party, but if you don't drink, the other party will feel that you don't give face, and drinking is what people who socialize must know, which is why those who socialize all year round either drink very badly or have a big stomach, which is all drunk in social occasions, so socializing must be drinking, not necessarily smoking.

If you don't smoke and drink during entertainment, others think that you don't respect him and don't give him face, and it is very likely that the business will not be negotiated.

I don't think you have to smoke or drink, you can change the content of the entertainment to drinking tea, which can also help you talk about a lot of important things.

I think that you should smoke and drink when you are social, and it is really difficult to talk about business with the other party if you don't smoke and drink, and only if you have a common hobby with the other party, it will be easier to talk about business.

Of course, it doesn't have to be smoked or drunk, but it's just an excuse because they can't quit at all.

Personally, I think it must be smoking and drinking, because I find that many friends are indispensable in their socializing, and this can bring the relationship between the two parties closer, so it is inevitable.

I think this is just an excuse, and socializing does not mean that you have to smoke and drink, and you can negotiate business without smoking and drinking.

The need for communication. In China, smoking has become a means of communication. Smoking is often a prelude to social interactions, which can shorten the psychological distance between people.

Mutual cigarette worship can communicate feelings, produce psychological closeness, and help solve problems. Many people start purely for social entertainment, before doing things, they first have to give each other a salute, and then order one for themselves; It is rude for others to give you a cigarette, and it is rude not to accept it. With this"Gifts are exchanged"Slowly, from being uncomfortable for half a day to being uncomfortable for half a day, and finally joining the ranks of smokers.

Drinking alcohol can tell whether you are a bold person in communication

Not necessarily, I have a boss here, one doesn't smoke and the other doesn't eat or drink, but I'm still very good in interpersonal relationships.

You can also look at the people around you, smoking and drinking are not necessarily good relationships! As long as you're good at other things, be sure to play to your strengths and avoid your weaknesses!

Or if you work hard in other areas, you will definitely be able to make good interpersonal relationships.

I feel that drinking alcohol can be liberating, and smoking can make you more inspired when you think about problems!