I used to be created by emotional dramas, but now my heart is very cold

Updated on psychology 2024-07-21
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Marriage directly you are not afraid of being hurt again, so why bother, so it is better to get along for a while, marriage is not as simple as you think, it is a matter of a lifetime, your ruthless performance now can only show that you have not come out of that emotional injury, how to go, when will it be good, you can only rely on yourself, no one can help you, you go to your own life as a joke for a person who makes you sad and doesn't care about you, is it worth it, if this person will return to you, Don't do anything meaningless for unworthy people, love yourself a little more, happiness is in your hands, it depends on whether you will catch it, one day you will open the door of your heart to accept a person, I hope you can come out as soon as possible, may you be happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    God gave life to a man and buried in his heart the desire to spend a life with another person in love.

    Love is not something you want to get. Enrich your life and pay attention to the people around you. Your thoughts are a bit negative, don't dwell on negativity, this will only make you miss out on a lot of happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I understand your feelings very well, when the feelings that have been sincerely paid have to finally bear the pain of hurt, that heart-wrenching feeling may be a memory that will never be forgotten for a lifetime. Losing confidence in your relationship is not only you, but also many people who have suffered the same thing. But I believe that maybe one day, you can still have your own happiness, time, although it brings us pain, but it is also the best medicine for our emotional wounds.

    Don't let your heart be so cold, you will feel the warmth of happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't know if it's your sister or sister, but you're about the same age as me anyway.

    That boy likes your class flower, probably because she has a bad temper. Forget it, don't talk about it, I think you're talking about me.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When you get older, you will feel that your current ideas are very childish and stupid!

    The immunity of young girls to Zhang Deshuai's boys is 0

    You don't know what love is.

    Hurry up and grow up! Stop being childish.

    Come back in 10 years to see my words!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Private for life, it's been a long time since I've heard such innocent words. It's a wonderful thing to like, and there's nothing wrong with liking people. But the lyrics of the song "Honey, That's Not Love" give us an idea of a more realistic problem.

    And you said that you were injured, so you picked a guy who judged people by their appearance, didn't you ask for your own hardship... You are still young, and there are still many good things waiting for you in life, why do you have to hang yourself from a tree? Think more about yourself, don't always think about others, don't you think that the envy when you say that many people in your class are privately determined for life is driving you to quickly find someone to make yourself have a face-saving component?

    Others are always others, do your best, do what you need to do most at the moment. Others will never be as careful as they cherish themselves, so cherishing yourself is the most important thing. I don't think the best thing for you at your age right now is to find someone to fall in love with and marry...

    If you want to become a popular girl, the necessary cultivation and knowledge are indispensable, and if you just have a face, you will eventually be abandoned. So it's normal to worry about it, but it's not worth it to be overly sad. You will have a lot of choices in the future, and you don't have to be so wronged now.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Know you won't listen! But if you treat him as a treasure, he may not necessarily treat you as a root! If you think he's more important than anything else, then it's useless for anyone else to say anything! I'm worried about you! You're too small!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you are a fan of the authorities, and we don't listen to what others say, then we can't do anything.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You're still young, you don't understand yet, but when you go to middle school, will you still like her?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Everyone has different feelings about feelings. For a girl who has suffered emotional setbacks, there will also be a different state of mind! Most girls will be hopeless in their relationship, no longer believe in love, think that love is unreliable, and money is the last word.

    There are also girls who will become stronger, and he who believes in her must be waiting for her at the next intersection, so she won't cry! There are also girls who become very different from before, their personalities become introverted, they are reluctant to have more contact with boys, and they learn to protect themselves, which is often a bit excessive.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then just wait and meet new people slowly.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There may be two tendencies: one is that once she is bitten by a snake, she is afraid of the well rope for ten years, and it may take a long time to believe you because she has been injured and is more careful; Another trend is to break the jar and break it, anyone can do it, and they may not believe you for half their lives.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Men will never understand women! (I'm a woman).

    My motto is that if you can't be a friend, you can't be an enemy, and there is no neutrality.

    From my point of view, I think she loves you, but she doesn't want to be hurt again, so she always takes the shelf and says something that she thinks others will envy.

    But I dare to assure with my personality that she is scared in her heart, and you men will never understand how deeply love hurts a woman!!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, emotional matters cannot be understood by outsiders, but the parties understand better. If you really love him, accept all her bad habits. If you think there is something wrong with her, try to take her to a psychiatrist because her relationship has been hurt, and 8 years of relationship is not short!!

    It's impossible for her to love her and try to change her

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The reason why she didn't care was because her heart had been so traumatized that she began to doubt love and didn't want to be hit hard.

    You should use your sincerity to move her, move her, and use your warmth to melt her frozen heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's dangerous! Put! Put! Put! I can already see that you don't really love her now, she just doesn't care emotionally, which means that she doesn't really love you yet! So it's better to put it early!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes She's hurt badly, don't let go of her hand, she longs for one of you to appear, but can't trust anyone because of the hurt, take your time, love her, she'll know.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    She no longer believes in love, but she will become more mature and sensible, and if you like her, you can be reliable and long-lasting with her.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't think that's always the case, but people who are emotionally hurt don't trust their feelings very much in the future.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's very simple, brother, I advise you, look at the Jade Guanyin, you will be enlightened, give points, how good !!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    See if she cherishes your feelings for her, her past should be indifferent to you, aren't you infatuated?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    She's been hurt, and of course there will be shadows! If you love her, you will heal her wounds, and if you don't love her, you will divide it!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you want to see a psychiatrist, don't forget to come to me! Hehe!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Look at the situation, you don't like her, then let it go.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't let go of true love, let it go if you don't love!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I've been in that relationship for 8 years.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The woman is venting.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Kindness. It's good for you and good for her.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Go to a strange place, go on a trip, let go of your heart, and let life start anew.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes. Because in order to make this wound heal emotionally, it is necessary to forget the reason for the formation of this wound. Thus experiencing the next break in the relationship.

    No. It's because some people don't want to go through the same thing again after they've been injured.

    So whether it can be depends on how you face it. What do you think.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes, we can be considerate of each other, so we will get along well.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Supplements, what is needed, in fact, you also know. Trust and courage.

    It's not that it's lonely, it's. The two of them did their best to maintain the relationship.

    Don't expect too much luxury, so that you get a long stream.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It depends on the common hobbies, and the heart is a little clear, but you can't be blind, and you understand it thoroughly.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It is possible to come together in the case of sameness!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Actually, it's not that hard. Just tell him I like you. Let's be in this together. And that's it.

    Don't think things are so complicated, sometimes making things simple and complicated can just mess things up.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    He should understand, you just say it.

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