What sufferings do you still remember?

In my memory, it was still more difficult to go to the countryside to cut in line. We all wanted boys, more than 30 boys, and lived in a dilapidated house built entirely of dirt. There was no glass in the windows, and the roof was leaking.

In the summer, there are many mosquitoes, and in the winter, the water in the house is completely frozen. One summer, when the rain was particularly heavy, the educated youth went to the commune many times to ask for a change of house, and the deputy secretary of the commune said that here the acute child grinds into a chronic child, and the chronic child grinds into a sexless child. The room just can't be changed.

One afternoon, when the educated youth went to the team to send work, they heard a loud noise. The house collapsed, but fortunately it didn't hit anyone.

I am a rural person, my father died at the age of fifteen, my mother died at the age of eighteen, I went to school to work at the age of fifteen, I worked in the cold water on May 3 or 4, after planting the rice and pulling the weeds, the summer was very hot, we were thirsty to drink the water in the canal, and when we cut the rice in the autumn, the waist was tired, I was really pitiful before, I found my own in-law's family, married and accompanied myself, (mattress, been), now I am good, both children and daughters, through my own efforts there are bungalows and buildings, and I also have a stable and satisfactory job.

Everyone thinks I'm just a three-book material, but I think I'll definitely be able to get one. I locked myself in my room and cried for three days, and then I started to work hard. I haven't watched TV for three years, and I study for more than ten hours a day, except for going to class and sleeping.

I didn't communicate much with my family, so I spent three years like this. From not knowing anything about math to being one of the best in the grade, from sitting in the last row to sitting wherever you want to do with your grades. From the bottom of the grade to the top five in the grade, and then to the top of the liberal arts.

Sometimes I didn't do well in the exam, and I was so stressed that I was going to die, so I secretly hid in the quilt and cried. In the third year of high school, I was under a lot of pressure and didn't play well, but I was also admitted to a key book.

I used to work in technology in the enterprise. The saddest days were in 1998 and 2000 before the bankruptcy of the enterprise, the factory was on vacation, only 380 yuan per month for living expenses, and the husband's salary was 1,500 yuan per month for mortgage and water and electricity bills. Every month when I get the money, I use several envelopes to pack milk money, breakfast money, fruit money, children's food expenses, pocket money, books and newspapers, ......Thanks to the elderly in the family, we refused to accept food money when we went home for dinner, and together with our previous savings, we survived a difficult few years.

Helping my dad with farm work is the hardest thing in my life, I can't imagine how hot the sun is, I can't imagine how heavy those jobs are.

At that time, the family was poor, and there was only 100 yuan a month for living expenses, and sometimes I had to buy a pair of shoes and socks or something, so many times the money for a month of food was less than 100. Junior high school is the time to grow up, and I eat a lot of food, but I don't dare to eat more, and I have a limited budget for each meal, so I can only choose cheap and sustainable things to eat.

When I went to the factory to work as a summer worker, I worked the night shift for half a month, went to work at 11 o'clock at night, and got off work at 11 o'clock at noon the next day.

Speaking from the heart, what is bitter and what is sweet, there is no absolute bitterness and no absolute happiness in life, I went to the countryside to be a young man, tempered my ambition, and the hard life tempered my habit of diligence and simplicity, and I know how to be content.

When I was in junior high school, the school was not allowed to use high-power electrical appliances, and I slept in the morning after washing my hair without drying.

Everyone will experience a lot of suffering in their lives, and we must learn to face it with a grateful heart.

I just want to say that my family is very poor, and I still remember it.

I remember that when I was in school in the city, every meal I had was a good meal, and sometimes, just a baked cake and a bowl of soup and water were a meal. Use an electric stove and add an aluminum lunch box to cook, not to mention eating meat, soybean oil, which is very economical. Of course, it was the 80s, and I couldn't pay attention to food and drink, and the family conditions were there!

If you have suffered hardship, you will understand today's sweetness. Contentment, there is no burden now, if you don't think about your children, the house will have a bigger one long ago, and you can even buy a house in the provincial capital and retire to retire. Now, you can buy whatever you want and whatever you like.

It's just that the age is there, and the heart is more than enough but the strength is insufficient.