How to learn to be a human being? How can I learn to be human?

Live your life and face reality.

Go for what you want.

Usually honest and trustworthy and down-to-earth life.

Be positive, optimistic, and cheerful every day.

People come to life for nothing, nothing more than two things: one is to be a person, and the other is to do things. Although there are no certain rules and standards for being a human being, there are certain general rules for it, and there must be its skills and laws. Here can only be said in a few small truths, big tips.

1. Be an ambitious person.

A bright future comes from self-improvement, self-reliance, self-confidence, do not stop until the goal is reached, insist that Qingshan does not relax, it is often not others but yourself who cross yourself, do not regard a failure as the final judgment of life. Fleeing is cowardly, avoiding is passive, and retreating is even more incompetent. The road to success has to be broken by yourself, there are confusions in life, there are difficulties in doing things, there is no smooth sailing in the world, only strong confidence and perseverance.

Men are born in the world, make decisions by themselves, are not afraid of failure, and do not give up.

When you succeed, don't get drunk, when you fail, don't be discouraged, don't complain about others, and face the level of "mountains and rivers", only to move forward bravely, persevere, and overcome all difficulties with confidence. If you want to achieve a career, you must be willing to do big things, take on difficult things, set an ambition, set a goal, and only then can you have a direction to walk in life.

2. Be a kind person.

At the beginning of man, nature is good". Kindness is the warmest, most beautiful, and most touching ray of human brilliance. The so-called kindness is nothing more than having a great heart of love and compassion, not harming others, not talking to others, and not deceiving others.

With a kind character, there is the foundation and possibility to truly love parents, others, and nature. A kind person is like a beacon, which not only illuminates the people around him, but also warms himself, kindness does not need to be instilled and forced, but only infects and spreads to each other.

3. Be a cultured person.

China is a nation that attaches great importance to self-cultivation and morality. Over the past 5,000 years, no matter how the world has changed, diligence and thrift, loyalty, humility, and filial piety have been eternal virtues, and many ancient sages have regarded them as family heirlooms. The success of a small cause depends on opportunity, the success of a medium cause depends on ability, and the success of a large cause depends entirely on character and ethics.

Successful people are often virtuous people. The so-called upbringing means that we should know the depths, respect and humility, understand the high and low, know the importance of the severity, and should stress the rules and abide by morality. Educated people often do not use skill but virtue, often do not seek but morality, and often do not use power but courtesy.

A cultured person is detached from nature when he is alone, and will manage his own heart, and when he gets along with others, he will think about others, be kind to others, be calm and calm, and control his own mouth. Fang Yuan is a man, Yuantong does things, quiet and far-reaching, self-reflection, everything is at ease and smooth. Therefore, you have to ask yourself whether you are educated.

In fact, the main thing is that the stage of the school is the same, and the moral, intellectual, physical and aesthetic development is multifaceted.

Usually, you have to study harder, keep improving, you have to persevere, and you will learn after a long time.

Since I was a child, I have been taught to learn to be a human being, but now I understand that being a human being is really not easy.

I used to be young and simple, and I felt that being a man was nothing more than being kind-hearted, treating people sincerely, and doing things ...... down-to-earth

But when I really stepped out of society, I realized how simple and ignorant I was.

Maybe people have to learn to see a little more openly, a little more freely, but when I look open, when I am free, it brings more trouble to myself. One thing after another, one relationship after another, seems to be very attractive, but it is difficult to get rid of it when you are involved with these things.

A friend said that it looks like I have a good partnership with a certain one, and I said yes, I seem to be very good with everyone, and my friend replied, yes, you are very good with everyone, and you can talk to everyone.

But in fact, I am a person who is not easy to get along with people, maybe I am just good at getting along with people, and this kind of relationship is only harmless, not heart-to-heart. However, the people around me think that I am very good with my friends next to me, and sometimes I think that I am very good with someone when I get closer to someone or communicate with him a little more.

Maybe everyone's psychology is understandable, and I don't mean that this is just how bad. I just think that sometimes a lot of things that people see are just superficial, and how can they really see the real through the phenomenon so scarcely.