How to learn to behave and deal with things, how to exercise this aspect?

Be independent, it's better to take risks, life and death must be guaranteed, and the adventures of teamwork.

People have to practice, go to a strange place and do whatever they want, you can't let go of that face. If you're afraid of jokes, find a place where no one knows to play, and no one will know you even if you make a mistake, and then your heart will be open.

It is recommended that you buy some communication books on the Internet and read them, which will help you, if you lack perseverance, you can find a summer job to exercise your ability to persist in this area, and you can better adapt to this society.

You have to face some things on your own! Don't be afraid of getting hurt, you need to learn to grow in pain!

If you think about it, you have action, and you can. Just do as much as you want. No shortcuts.

If you want to have an idea, start by trying to do what you are most afraid of.

The one on the first floor is right.

Lack of decisiveness of the volitional qualities.

Actually, I'm also lacking.

Decisiveness is a sign of willpower. Decisiveness is the ability to distinguish between truth and falsehood, seize the opportunity, be good at dealing with complex situations, and deal with contradictions quickly and reasonably.

You should cultivate the qualities of boldness, decisiveness, composure and patience.

Take a few days to do nothing, take a good rest, and then set yourself a medium and long-term goal, and then divide the goal into a small part specific to a certain day or a certain number of hours, write it on paper, read it once a day in the morning, look at it once in the evening, and if you can take it on your body, you can keep reminding yourself that you can complete it little by little a day

Do something to hone your will, and it is very rewarding to insist on doing one thing for a long time, and with a sense of accomplishment, it will stimulate your potential even more.

You have selective incurability, this thing can be overcome. It doesn't matter.

Not being assertive means that you lack decisiveness. Specifically, there are a few points:

1. You are too casual with yourself, and you don't care about everything. This kind of personality is often the main force that goes with the flow. You can't say whether your personality is good or bad, but at least, the result of your overdoing is that the quality of life is often low, and it is easy to suffer in an environment where egoism is rampant.

2. You need more learning and knowledge to make you look like a person who can express your views clearly. It may not be right or wrong, but at least any of your choices and opinions have sufficient theoretical support and basis. This will make you look wise.

But this is a long-term accumulation process. Fortunately, it's never too late to start.

3. You need to have your own independent thinking. Don't follow the crowd, and don't listen to the wind and rain. In this way, it is easy to be used and bewitched, and become cannon fodder in various contradictions. No one wants their man to be that type.

Reading more books and studying, and being with capable people will give you a lot of inspiration and help.

Not assertive? One is undecided, and the other is undecided.

If you really just don't have an opinion (no way......Then you might as well improve other aspects, your girlfriend will see your strengths elsewhere, and you won't kick if you don't have an opinion, which is no way.

Of course, it's better to have opinions, men, if you can't make up your mind at home, you still have no status.

Getting to the Roots: Why Not Be Assertive? Mainly because the accumulation of life is relatively small, and there is no better than good or bad right or wrong.

Therefore, pay more attention to observing life, pay more attention to the practices and results of others, read more books to absorb the experience and wisdom of predecessors, make more friends, expand your social circle, and increase your own knowledge.

How to practice: If you don't have an idea, take the idea yourself, or think of a good idea first, then ask for others' opinions, and finally decide for yourself. If you can't make up your mind, don't ask others, decide for yourself, it's not bad to get a "stubborn" title, overkill is always too correct.

Wrong, I admit it when I suffer a loss, I eat a trench and grow a wisdom, and I understand it after a few times.

I wish you a speedy success!

Assertiveness stems from your goals and perceptions, your assertiveness at work proves that your work is purposeful, and your lack of assertiveness in life means that you are not focused on these and you are not willing to participate in these suggestions. If you want to be assertive, then I suggest that you think about your life values, and do one or two principles according to these, then you will naturally be assertive. Doing things is all about your own principles, not destroying it, not changing it.

You think too much when you do things, you do things decisively when you want to do them, don't think too much, and don't always think about the consequences. I'm talking about it! You start small and take your time!

Many people have asked the question of men not having opinions, but in fact, it is not that they are not assertive, but that there may be some aspects that you don't want to have, or your knowledge level is not enough to provide you with the right choice, and you hesitate. It's easy to do, just do it with your heart. For example, if you are with your girlfriend, you are willing to ask her what she eats or likes regularly in order to please her, which is a sign of lack of opinion.

Because she will want to be with you for so long, you should know what I like, why do you have to ask me, so it is recommended that you take the idea of what you understand and what she likes, and you also decide what you don't understand based on experience, it doesn't matter if she is wrong, she doesn't like it, and generally won't say that you observe the next correction, unless she doesn't like it very much, she will tell you directly, and you will also explain your point of view, but show that you love him or listen to her.

Believe in your own wisdom and believe in your own abilities.

It's also a good idea to play games and exercise yourself in the virtual world

You don't have an assertive opinion to hide, like pretending to be cool.

This is determined by a person's personality, one is due to your genetic factors; The second is because of the environment you are in. Over time, you will develop such a habit, so you become less assertive, but this is not impossible to change, but it depends on your own actions, I suggest that you better set your own goals first, and then selectively go to some goals that you are willing to develop in certain directions; On the other hand, you can also choose another job and environment, which will make your previous things no longer habitual, and you may want to develop in other aspects.

It's better not to be a man if you don't have an opinion.

Don't keep asking others when you encounter problems, you must have your own opinions first.

Even if you make a wrong decision, it's an afterthought. Learn from this.

It's better for you to go through more!

Do what you want to do, but hopefully you're thinking the right route.

I also kicked my boyfriend because of this.

In fact, it may be your own thinking, which may not be as responsive and thoughtful as the people around you. Decisions are made by others, often better than yours, and in the long run, you will not be able to assert yourself.

Pavilion night (Du Fu) heard that the official army received Henan, Hebei (Du Fu) ascended (Du Fu).

The friend upstairs said it really well, I'll keep it for a good time.

The landlord and I just walked in the same society, I was not good at doing anything, and the popularity was not good, these things still have to be experienced by themselves before you know how to do it, as long as you work more attentively, there is "silence is golden" less speech is definitely good for yourself, I hope it will help you.

We can't be too simple, the current society is not a simple world.

You can't just say what you see and what you understand, which may cause people to resent you, try to change yourself, learn to speak, pay attention to the occasion, and the time. I recommend you a ** bar "36 Ways to Do Things".

It will be of great help after you read it!

Think a little more before you speak, think a little more before you do something, and you just watch "How Steel is Made" and good luck

Learn to be tolerant and understand others.

Don't care too much about what others say.

The most important thing is to be yourself.

Be a low-key person, even if you are very good, don't be aggressive, you should be kind to others, help others when you can help people, do things to be high-profile, if you do a good job, after all, you will be found by the leader, and your friends will also look at you differently.

See, listen, think, and think more, these three points are enough.

Look at Nan Huaijin's "Analects".

All of the above are said to be people and do things.

How do you learn to be a human being? How to learn to make money?

It is a well-known truth that success depends on real strength. du but, the so-called.

zhi"Strength"It's not money, it's relationships, it's academic qualifications, it's what people think. People.

When looking at successful people, they often only see the surface, focusing on people's temporary luck and the objective conditions for doing business, but ignoring the internal reasons for people to achieve great things, and ignoring the efforts and years of hard work behind success.

Li Ka-shing, a Hong Kong business superman, is a successful example to study. This simple and honest Chinese, who started as a tea house junior and did not even have a primary school education, was able to build a prosperous and powerful wealth empire in a few decades, becoming the first in Hong Kong's history"Billionaires"。Today, his fortune is still growing exponentially, and his every move in the business field is of great concern to the world.

For his extraordinary business achievements, he was named one of the world's most influential business leaders by Time magazine, and Hong Kong's Capital magazine named Li Ka-shing the top 10 most powerful financial figures in Hong Kong. The miracle of success created by Li Ka-shing has been admired and amazed by people all over the world.

After 70 years of life, Li Ka-shing began to sum up his business career and revealed the secret of his success to the world. The remarks he made on many occasions about being a man, doing things, and doing business often made people feel like they were drinking alcohol, and their mouths were suddenly opened; It makes people wake up like a dream, refreshing and refreshing.

Being a man is very simple: willing + sincere.

Do things: serious + hard-working.

Do business: any business can make money but you have to understand, and then don't be afraid of losses, analyze the reasons and continue to do it, don't change careers, just stick to it.

It's okay to keep asking yourself why you don't have an opinion, and you can give yourself a small judgment of confidence if you don't have an opinion, how they all came out......Gradually, you will find that the reasons for your lack of opinion are actually fairly simple questions, and you will find more and more reasons for clear judgment, and these reasons will become more and more nuanced and persuasive, close to the facts, and more and more reasonable ......

Your own ideas are always the best, but your own understanding is never comprehensive. The "best" is based on one's own understanding, conditions, goals, positions, and so on, but this is not the case with anyone else. So your decision is not the best in the eyes of others.

Share the reasons for each other's judgments, and both parties will be confident in their words

Be confident and always think: I am right.

Do what you want.

If I didn't have an idea, it wouldn't have worked.

How to say this, since you don't have an opinion, then watch more and learn more, at least when you listen to other people's commands, you can also judge in your heart whether it is right or wrong.

Life experience needs to be sharpened to gain.

Everyone knows how to be a person, but they don't understand it.

A classic forever.

Be a person first, then do things. Be a good person and do good deeds.

This is what no one else says you will be, and life will have a different style if you experience it yourself.

First of all, you must have your own ideas when doing things, because with your own ideas, you will have a direction when you choose;

Second, after clarifying the direction, when there is a choice, we must be brave enough to make a choice. Of course, a lot of things are about taking care of other people's ideas. But if it's something that you initiate, or you lead, you have to make a decision.

Third, when others propose a choice, they learn to decide, and perhaps the person making the proposal does not know what to choose. Appropriately oppose the opinions of others and put forward your own ideas.

These are all opinions, and you also need to pay attention to them slowly in your own life, and find self-confidence in them, which can definitely be changed.

Hope it helps.

You will oppose what others say.

Hesitation: This topic is not just you, I'm sure everyone will have it - as long as you can separate the good from the bad, it's OK.