Why do I always associate the misfortunes of those around me with myself?

Maybe you have a bit of an inferiority complex inside. But you can see that you care a lot about the friends around you.

This feeling is normal.

You don't have to think like this anymore when you encounter this kind of problem in the future. You have to think about how to change this bad situation.

To be a man, we must work hard in a good direction. Don't get caught up in the predicament around you.

I remember that there is a saying in "Soldier Assault" that says it very well.

You have to eat one bite at a time, and you have to do things one by one. As long as today is better than yesterday. Isn't that hope! ”

Maintain an optimistic attitude. A positive mindset to go in. Put aside the trivial distractions. You will find out. Life is actually very happy.

This is determined by your sensitivity and your own personality You must be a delicate girl, think a lot, and are particularly prone to sadness Nothing, this should not be considered a serious illness Participate in more sports and smile more often, and communicate with people more

Of course, if your reaction is particularly strong, see a psychiatrist, this is necessary.

Remember, don't think of yourself as a god, you're just a human being

Delusion, illusion only

I'm like this sometimes, but in hindsight, maybe I thought too much at the time, but in fact, it was nothing, and I talked to friends for a day.

Everyone has their own destiny, you are just an ordinary person, what influence can you have on them?

Are you the legendary broomstick star? (Just kidding).

The public should learn from Mengde! You can't learn the virtues.

There are many happy marriages, but you just haven't met them. Don't lose confidence in your married life because of the unhappy marriage of your friends and loved ones, after all, you are not them, so you will not be like them.

Confused people are always the happiest, and marriage just needs your Hutu, rationality is only to treat objective things, sensibility is to treat feelings, don't get confused, in other words, marriage is sometimes unreasonable, if you are serious, you will lose.

There are many happy ones, and there are many unfortunate ones. There is a run-in phase during the marriage, where the husband and wife quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed. It's just a spice of life. In your eyes, it may be misfortune. Of course, there are many two people who go to extremes. Hope to adopt, thank you!

Whoever told you to quarrel is not happy. That's life. Give points.

The so-called marriage happiness is to face things in life together, negotiate together, do not quarrel, do not be impulsive, understand each other, tolerate each other, and be considerate of each other. Marriage is not just a matter of two people, but also the parents and children. The marriage of two people is a major event that affects three generations, and it is by no means child's play.

And three generations are at least seven people, and it is not easy to unify the opinions and psychology of seven people, so this is a factor of disharmony in many families.

Fortunately and unfortunate, the main thing is not to be weak in front of your in-laws and husbands, and listen to them in everything.

Not every marriage is unhappy, and there are happy ones, but only you can feel the taste of each.

Marriage is sometimes a grave, sometimes a paradise. They need to operate independently, and happiness depends on whether they are good or bad.

Getting married is like a business! If it is well managed, it will naturally be good, and if it is bad, it will be like this!

There are 90 more people who are happily married than unhappy! You wear tinted glasses??

A happy marriage is hard to come by. First of all, marriage is not only a matter of two people, it involves the integration of the two families, if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well, it can lead to unhappiness in marriage. Of course, don't talk about the problems of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Although it is a secondary reason for the failure of marriage, it can also affect the happiness of marriage, in fact, everyone's marriage is chosen by themselves, and there are fewer conflicts at the beginning, and they can communicate. With the passage of time, it gradually becomes a family conflict, and the middle is exposed, especially if the woman has to have a child and maintain the livelihood of the family, if the elderly on both sides can help take care of the child, the woman is still lucky, she can have her own career and family can also have a strong backing, but. If there is no help from both old people, especially modern women are pampered and grow up, you can't change your role in time, being a mother is selfless and has to spend all her time taking care of the baby, so the man comes home and sees a woman who is embarrassed and grumpy.

It is inevitable that there will be some resistance to the psychology of time and over time will be bored with this woman, most men see that they are still at home housework, but the credit of children dislikes women who are gradually separated from society, so if you want to have a happy marriage, first of all, women should be strong themselves, not rely on men to live, and men should be consistent. Treat wives who bear children for themselves. Mutual tolerance, of course, the happiness of a family mainly depends on the husband's tolerance and love, even if the marriage has a piece of chicken feathers, it should be sorted out by two people.

Do it and cherish it.

Not much, but the most people in general.

Not all people are happy.

The marriage is maintained by 2 people

I think there are more people who are unhappy in marriage

Marriage is happier than others, too selfish, help other people's love.

What is unfortunate is that something happens that you don't want to happen. As long as you are born in this world, there will always be times of misfortune. Then, if you meet someone unfortunate, you should not laugh at him, you should not stay away from him, but you should help him.

Because you have to think that in the near future, you yourself may encounter unfortunate things, and if others do the same to you when you are unlucky, what kind of mood will you have, what kind of thoughts will you have? Therefore, if we are surrounded by unfortunate people, we should do our best to help them, even if we can't help them, we should never laugh at his misfortune. I can't guarantee that others will do this, I just need to do it myself.

Although I know that in this era, such people are rare, and they can even be said to be rare. But how beautiful the world would be if everyone could do that.

Put yourself in your shoes, dedicate love, lend a hand, and be wholehearted.

Lend a helping hand, not mocking, not belittling.

Life is inherently unpredictable, some people are lucky, some people are unlucky. But since it has happened, only by solving it can we live a good future. Sometimes it's really hard to bear, but keep gritting your teeth.

Tired. .If you want to open something, what's too much to overcome? There are more unfortunate people in this world than us...Because the people around you don't know you...I don't know and can't answer why you are alive.

You're right about that. No one can control you? The clouds go straight ahead.

You have to work hard. Make a career out of it. Don't be criticized by others.

And stagnate. So. From now on.

Points to note. Only those who work hard are worth it, others. respected.

Because there will be contrasts, and you will think that you are much happier than that unfortunate person. But if you see someone else unfortunate enough to lend a hand, you still have to help.

You too can create happiness! Let others see and envy you! Then you will be happy too!

Because when we see the misfortune of others, we will know how to cherish all the good things around us.

Because it's a miserable world!

It means that you were not cursed when you were born!

Don't be so inferior.

Actually, that's a coincidence.

There are no such coincidental things in the world.

The one who bears you. He may have been carried away for a moment.

Didn't notice what was going on around you.

Caused misfortune.

Everyone always has a friend you can trust for life.

It's up to you.

Can you pick the one that you can trust?

Someone who deserves you to be friends with.

The friends I make will also fail me.

But this kind of thing is very rare.

Learn to look at other people's faces.

That's called cowardice. You look for those who speak your language.

Compatible with you.

Personality relative.

This kind of friend is your solid backing.

Why do you attribute all the misfortunes of those who have lost you to the bad of you?

for they have all taken you ...

Because there are always people around us who don't want us to be happy. Don't worry about that, it's important to be happy.