Which man to choose and which one not to choose?

If I were you. I'm going to be very hesitant, too. But I'll definitely choose the first one.

I'm just because my family is not good. My girlfriend just ran away with someone else. I hate women who love money the most.

The most important thing is to be happy together. Everything else is secondary. And money is the foundation that lays the foundation of love.

If you don't have money, you're not qualified to fall in love. After all, you don't want your love to be busy with how to make money, right? But you're college students.

It is possible to have a stable income. It is possible to be free from the burden of the family. In that case, why not choose someone who will relax your mind.

Is the depressing life what you want? Of course.. The one who has both is the best. Hehe.

I see you're still a child! Hehe. Adults who haven't grown up!

I suggest you, don't bother with the two of them for the time being, go back to your career and study, and wait until your career and studies are successful, and when you go into society, I think you can make a decision that will surprise you! Scold! Go!

Still in their own natural treatment! Naturally thought! Good luck with troubles!

I think it's important for you to be happy. If I were you, I would choose the first one, thinking that people would be happy all their lives. There are some things that cannot be compensated for materially. Oh, I personally think.

The latter in real life, sometimes love is very small.

Needless to say? The answer is already in your words. You feel better than me, you will choose the latter one.

Then you must choose 2 pulls.

As long as it's a good husband, it's worth anything.

Follow your own heart.

When you feel happy, happy, relaxed, you are the happiest.

No one knows what the future holds.

Only pursue the happiness of the present.

Women try not to look for the following kinds of men when they are in love, the first is a man who does not seek to be motivated in life, this kind of man's sense of responsibility is relatively weak, and the other is relatively lazy, and we know that we find the other half, in fact, the other half has a relatively large influence on us, if you find this kind of lazy, not motivated man, over time, he may also make you lazy, and like this kind of unmotivated person, you may also accuse you, think you are not diligent enough, In the process of getting along with such a man, in fact, you will not have a good feeling of love.

In addition, there is a kind of male who likes to belittle you in the process of falling in love, and at the same time elevates himself, wanting to achieve a psychological feeling that you worship him, but this is actually a kind of suppressive love, and suppressive love is not advisable for women, because we both men and women prefer our other half to find our advantages in daily life and give us praise, so that our love will flow with each other and our feelings will be sublimated.

But if you meet a partner who often suppresses you or likes to ridicule you, and when you make progress, he doesn't praise you, and often speaks to you in a disdainful tone, this kind of man will not do you any good, but will make your self-confidence become weaker and weaker, and even inferior, making you begin to doubt yourself, and your evaluation of yourself will be more negative.

Another is not to look for the kind of people who don't know how to pay and blindly let you pay, and once you have any other requirements, he will evaluate you as a material woman, such a man actually has to pay more attention, because we are in the process of falling in love, of course, we like each other to be able to pay for each other, whether it is to pay for the time of companionship, or to create a sense of ritual for love, if you encounter this kind of boy who does not understand to pay, and also requires you, it is worth the loss for you.

1. Selfish men.

He cares more about whether he is comfortable than for you, as if he will always press you down, talking arrogantly, thinking that you will listen to his arrangement.

2. A man who is seriously suspicious.

A man who is too suspicious will be suspicious of you. Thinking about spying on you all the time: "Who are you fighting with?" "Who are you shopping with?" "What are you going to do when you go out?"

3. Men with violent tendencies.

Needless to say, such a man must not choose to be together. As long as he does it the first time, there will be a second, a third, and even a thousand times.

Maybe after hitting you, he will apologize and tell you that it is because he loves you too much and doesn't want to lose you, but he can't control his emotions. Of course, he will still not be able to control his emotions next time.

4. People who only say but don't do.

This type of boy will always talk about it when he is in love, deceive you and make you tremble, why wait for the money to accompany you to complete all kinds of dreams, let you be in a false bubble, and create an illusion that you are very happy.

After a long time, you will find that he will always just say, he has not done any practical actions, and he always boasts about Haikou and does not fulfill it, and this kind of thing should be kept away, because happiness is not by words, but by actual actions.

5. People who are good at calculation.

Their biggest characteristic is that they are "too calculating, unhuman", they will be calculating, good at manipulating, and the biggest characteristic is that they are not empathetic.

Such people are very good at romance, but in essence, they are cold-blooded animals.

6. **Air conditioner-type warm man.

This kind of boy is similar to a girl's green tea, he will not refuse others' overtures to him, and he will also treat everyone he likes warmly.

Being with such a boy is like raising a horse with a grassland overhead.

Some people think that what kind of man they choose will lead to what kind of life they have. Indeed, choosing the right man will make our future life happier.

If you choose a different man to marry, you will have a different married life, it is impossible for everyone to find a perfect partner, and not all results can be as desired.

In the past, I thought that I was very powerful, I could take charge of myself, overcome obstacles, and no matter how the outside world changed, I could take root in my heart and continue to climb up. Provided that I'm alone. Later I found out that it is really easy for a person to get tired and give up easily.

Only when you are surrounded by the same people can you climb up better, on the contrary, if someone drags you back, you will fall faster.

Marriage, too, is the same for such a long road in life, you should choose someone who can move forward with you, not someone who makes you decadent. Don't say that it's the same as marrying anyone, because meeting different people will have different lives and wonderful. 

Marriage is the fruit of love, married life is a mode of getting along with love, but the object of marriage determines the quality of your marriage, although marriage is never the whole of a person, and should not be tied to the happiness of a lifetime on marriage.

But I have to admit that for most people, who they marry will probably determine whether the future days will be stormy or sunny.

If you meet the wrong person in your marriage, small things in the family, such as firewood, rice, oil and salt, can become the fuse of quarrels.

There is a saying that marriage is not the same as love, love can afford to lose, marriage cannot afford to lose. That's true.

If you meet someone unladylike in love, you can also get away; But when it comes to garbage marriages, how many people are helpless to spend the rest of their lives.

A bad marriage can not only turn a high-spirited teenager into a frustrated person with a long sigh, but also boil a girl with ten fingers who don't touch the spring water into a deep resentful woman. Men and women in the world are the same, and those who make a mistake are mistaken for life.