I got married, but my wife never forgave me for my betrayal

It's hard to say, at least not for me. Just to change the perspective, if your wife is now repeating what you did before, if you can let go, then it's OK

Kindness... Anyway, you have also broken her heart, and she will inevitably get angry if you talk to other women about topics that should not be talked about now, but it is too trivial to make a divorce. You better have a good talk with your wife.

If you can't talk about it, just leave. This stingy woman is away from pulling down--

It's your fault and you have no reason for him to forgive!

your wife every night and she'll love you very much.

I agree with the view of the first floor, if you want to live a good life with your current wife, please thoroughly reflect on your own practices. If it's me, a good horse doesn't eat back grass. It can be seen that your wife cares about you a lot.

What husband and wife are most afraid of is not communicating, have you talked about it well and calmly? I think it's necessary that if you can't communicate on your own and you want to save your marriage, then I recommend that you go to a marriage counselor. They are all professional people who specialize in solving marital problems.

I believe this is the fastest and best way. I wish you and your wife a speedy reconciliation.

Women also need security, you always chat with the opposite sex, and you have such a history, how can you believe you? There is a limit to what men are not bad and what women don't love. If you want to keep the current habit all the time, it will be impossible to gain your wife's trust.

Only if you stop having unnecessary contact with other women and are honest with her about everything that happens, will she slowly start to believe in you. How can a person who is not single-minded ask others to be single-minded about you? If your wife is okay to talk to other men about topics that shouldn't be talked about, and don't tell you, and later let you know, will you still believe her?

If you don't even have trust, love. It's impossible.

Think about it from another perspective, if your wife gets along with someone else, abandons you, and comes back to reconcile with you because of a bad life, will you still love her as much as before?

Once a woman's heart is broken, it is impossible to recover! You can't do anything when she's heartbroken! Even if she continues to live with you, her heart doesn't love you as much as it used to.

While asking others to do something to you, please look at yourself.

Those who steal are also stolen! So that's true!

I'm sure I'm not going to forgive my wife, because it makes me feel like a very warm man, and I also have a spiritual cleanliness fetish.

I won't forgive, because since I chose to get married, I should be loyal to each other and can't betray the marriage, so I won't forgive her.

I will forgive her, but I will not forgive the helpless fate, because I am a man.

The author is right, I am an example, the first betrayal, for the sake of the child, I chose to forgive, but within a few years, she intensified, betrayed again, abandoned her husband and children, and ran away with others.

This mainly depends on your own attitude, if you feel that this relationship is broken and broken, and you are betrayed by the other party, then there is no need for this marriage to continue, because before the betrayal, the other party has already thought of such a result, since you choose to betray this relationship, then there is no chance to turn back. <>

One. If you choose the feelings of betrayal, there will be a lot of estrangement when you are together again.

Whether it is marriage or love, many people don't like betrayal, when they encounter betrayal, they feel that they are the worst person in the world, so that their beloved will like someone else, every time they think of this moment, they will make themselves feel extremely painful in their hearts, when they encounter emotional betrayal, they will not choose to forgive, everyone has a moment of happiness, not because they forgive again and again, and let the other party hurt themselves even more, everyone should consider themselves. <>

Two. There was no turning back from the bow.

When the other party betrays the feelings, he must have thought of such a result, this poem chooses to separate, it will make the other party reflect on himself, the past feelings have become the past, and there is no longer the possibility of opening again, because this is a scar in his heart, and when he is together again, it is nothing more than sprinkling salt on his wounds, and he will also make himself insecure in love. Marriage is based on the mutual pleasure of two people, since both people have no feelings, it is better to separate as soon as possible to make each other feel relieved.

Three. People who are not responsible for love can also imagine their attitude in life.

Betrayal is a manifestation of irresponsibility for love, you can't accept such a result, and you will continue to quarrel and betray because of the same thing in the future, maybe it's like domestic violence, only zero and countless times, forgive again and again, you will only let yourself go through a lot of psychological tribulation, since you think of such a result, you should be fully prepared, don't want to give the other party a chance to forgive. <>

Different people will have different answers to this question, and stubborn people may not choose to forgive.

I don't think you should forgive him, since he has betrayed you, then you have to bear the consequences of the betrayal, if you forgive him once, he may have a second time.

If you are betrayed by your husband for six years, you will choose to give up the relationship, and there are several six years in your life that can withstand the toss like this, and once you betray you, you will have a second time.

Since the wife betrayed, the feelings must have been hurt, and the heart hurts a lot, right? To forgive or not to forgive, is a reasonable course of action. After all, no one is a saint, and there is no absolute right or wrong for ordinary people to solve problems with subjective emotions in the face of ordinary feelings.

As for whether you are ruthless, the key depends on whether the relationship between you and your wife is deep enough. If your previous relationship was very deep, and the two even had the experience of enduring hardships and hardships together, life was going smoothly, and there were no special contradictions. Then, in the face of her betrayal, you don't care about any feelings and refuse to forgive, that may seem a little ruthless.

And, relative to a happy and fulfilled life, it may be a little unworthwhile. After all, everything has changed dramatically, and it can be devastating, both for individuals and families.

If the relationship between the two of you is not particularly good, there are even some disputes or sorry for both parties. Moreover, betrayal is not an act of one or two times, she has long been premeditated, or commonplace, then there is no need to forgive, and the decisive disposal must be decisive. Otherwise, the longer it drags on, it will not be a good thing for both the family and each other.

In general, whether you are ruthless or not does not depend only on whether you forgive, but on what kind of relationship between the two of you is. Whether it is worthy of forgiveness or not is fundamental. At the same time, it is also necessary to find out whether the wife's betrayal was intentional or forced.

If it is deliberate, it means that she does not attach so much importance to marriage, and you can only win good happiness if you deal with it ruthlessly. If it is a forced act or a wrong act, as a husband, you should help her solve the problem.

When a man treats feelings, he should have a tender side and a brave side. When encountering problems, find out the root cause of their occurrence and prescribe the right medicine to solve them properly. Conflicts between husband and wife should not be treated in isolation, but should be looked at each other's feelings and the impact on the family.

Weighing the pros and cons is also an ability in itself.

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Of course it's not ruthless, after all, there are only one and countless times like this, this time I choose to forgive, do I choose to forgive next time it happens? After all, people's patience is limited, blindly forbearance, will only make the other party gain an inch, and then you will be in your heart, after all, you have been with others, in addition, many forgiveness will make you more and more undignified.

1. There is a gap in my heart. When a man is confronted with the betrayal of his wife, there is a serious gap in his heart. At any given time, they will have the sight of their wives betraying them.

They can't accept it, they feel miserable, they keep thinking about this kind of thing, and naturally they can't continue to live. Because of the estrangement in his heart, he must always think about such things in his future life, and his life with his wife will not be happy.

Therefore, they will choose to divorce, after all, this is their own salvation, such a choice is a good thing for the marriage of the two, and they can free each other. Therefore, the inner estrangement makes a man unwilling to forgive his wife and unable to accept his wife's betrayal, which is an important reason why two people would rather go to strangers.

2. There is no dignity. When a man's wife betrays the marriage of two people, then the man feels that he has no dignity. They felt that his wife had betrayed the relationship between the two people, and they felt that the marriage between the two people could not last.

For a long time, they felt that their wives had never seriously loved them, so the man chose to divorce. But after this kind of thing happens to his wife, the man always feels that others are laughing at him behind his back, and the pain in his heart is very great.

Therefore, the man is not willing to continue to live with the betrayed person, and he feels that divorce is the last choice for two people, which is a very important point. So, if a wife betrays her husband, it will make the man feel undignified. They feel that their lives are bleak and that their years of work have been wasted.

Therefore, men are reluctant to forgive and betray their wives. Continue to live with your wife, so there is only one way to divorce.

You're not ruthless. This is the bottom line of marriage. It's normal that you haven't forgiven your wife. There is no need to blame yourself.

No, because betrayal is a particularly serious mistake of principle, so after betrayal, it should not be forgiven, and it should be divorced in time.

No. The other party has betrayed him, this is very bad, his choice is correct, and his final behavior is also correct.

It's really ruthless, buddy, you're still not a man, your wife betrayed you once, you should forgive, and when she betrayed you four times, you shouldn't forgive it, because it's not more than three.

I'm the same as you, anyway, I chose to sweep her out of the house, it's no big deal to take the child by myself, everyone is not a saint, there is nothing unforgivable, and you need to pay for what you do wrong.

I don't think you're ruthless, because this kind of woman is not worth cherishing at all.

It is difficult to collect the water, the heart is far away, don't force it.

Fortunately, you didn't choose to be a black return.

Unforgivable.

You should care more about loving and accompanying your wife.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this kind of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.