What is it like to have a pair of scheming and hypocritical parents?

Updated on society 2024-07-31
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    I think it's all relative. Because in fact, the responsibilities of parents can be big or small. It is so big that he has to be responsible for the child's life, and so small that he only needs to let the child grow up healthy and healthy.

    I think life is still responsible for oneself, parents in charge of their own failure to work hard will regret for life, parents are not responsible, children will have a good future. I have seen some reports that the parents did not buy a house for their son, and the son turned against him; Others said that because the mother did not stop the child from stealing in time for the first time, the child grew up to become a thief and bit the mother fiercely. There are many reports of this kind, but in fact, when the child grows up, he already has a sense of right and wrong, he can choose to steal or not to steal, these are not all the responsibility of parents, but also their own responsibility.

    I hope that every child can become what they want to be through their own efforts.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    People who think their parents are hypocritical should reflect on themselves. What does it mean to be unresponsible? First of all, your parents brought you to this world, let you see the spring flowers and autumn moon, see the sun, moon and stars, and let you see this wonderful world, which is the greatest kindness in itself, and it is the greatest responsibility for your parents to raise you with a mouthful of water and food.

    People should know how to be grateful and giving, not resentful and demanding. You may be poorer than others, you may be lonely, you may not feel warmth and love, you may have nothing, but you should have a pair of industrious hands and a thinking brain. We can't choose where we come from, but we can choose to be strong and struggle!

    It is better to ask for others than for yourself, and not to blame others for your suffering. The lamb can still kneel and suckle, and the raven can feed back, how much more of us!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    To learn to be tolerant, the problem of irresponsibility is actually a historical problem, only irresponsible parents will have irresponsible children, and your parents' parents have not fulfilled their responsibilities, which led to today's situation, and he is also a victim. Please improve your self-cultivation, be a responsible person, and put an end to the bad family style of your family being irresponsible.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It depends on how old the child is, if the child can be financially independent, then study to earn money, work hard to achieve himself, and get his own happy life. If you are financially unable to be independent for the time being, and your parents are going to school, you should work hard to further your education, expand your horizons and pattern, and then take care of your own life according to the above, when you have the ability to take care of yourself, it is not so important for your parents to be responsible. What I'm afraid of is that if I don't work hard and unrealistically want others to change, then there is no help.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Filial piety is the first, you must know how to be grateful to your parents, don't set a premise for your filial piety, filial piety is your own private matter, related to your morality, and has nothing to do with other people. Learn to communicate with your parents, you can ask this question to show that you are not young, that is to say, your parents are older, don't try to change them, that will only increase each other's pain. Communication Suggestions: Draw up the content and communication process in advance, gently identify each other and clarify their views, avoid emotional quarrels, and be sure to communicate in a calm manner.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    We can't choose who gives us life. But you can choose to live the life you want! When encountering hypocritical parents, don't be sad, don't be helpless, and don't regret it, it's students who work hard to learn and open up a broader life; Those who are in service strive to do their current work well and earn money to support themselves.

    In the final analysis, life is given by parents, but fate is in your own hands! Don't worry about the facts that you can't control, and try to do everything you can.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Look at the nature, hypocritical parents may not love you, but they may also be children, and they have not learned how to be a qualified parent, but please really don't easily question their love for you and stay away, hurt them, try to understand them, don't wait until it's really late and then use the life after the rest of the regret.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can't take it away, only karma can be taken with you. When you meet bad parents, it is fate, and you can only work hard to improve yourself, use suffering as a stepping stone, change your life for the better, and then meet with a smile and hatred. The only one who can save himself is himself, and there is no savior again.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You have to communicate well with your parents, they don't do well, but they are your dearest relatives after all.

    You can discuss with your parents how much pocket money you will give each month. You have to reason with them, you should give your child pocket money. You can convince them with examples.

    You have to say that you want them to study more educational methods and not only pay attention to their own feelings. You also have to tell them that scientific education methods can create good children, otherwise, they will ruin children. You can also buy some books for them on how to educate your children.

    If you have any thoughts, you have to tell your parents more, and don't keep them in your heart.

    You are very sensible and smart, and you have a knot to come here to talk and communicate with everyone. Very good.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Adulthood? If you are an adult, you can find a short-term job to earn pocket money.

    So far, if the financial** parent is unable or unwilling to provide pocket money. You can only make yourself work hard to learn the skills and be able to support yourself as soon as possible.

    As for the illegal act of the thief, forget it......Don't be impulsive and cause lifelong scars in your heart.

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