Does it matter if you don t associate with relatives for the rest of your life?

What is Relative? Relatives are born into a family, and your relationship with them has been determined since you were born. Relatives are not like your own parents, they will not be really good to you, but there are also some relatives who are kinder and are naturally kind-hearted, so whether to interact with relatives or not also depends on what kind of person the other party is.

If you are the kind of relatives who use family relationships to "morally kidnap" you, make you continue to do things conveniently, and do things without knowing how to reciprocate, then getting rid of them is the goal of life; If you are the kind of relatives who are willing to take care of you and treat you well since childhood, of course we must remember their goodness, continue to associate with them in the future, and go to see and visit them during the New Year's holidays.

If you face those relatives with bad conduct, of course, you must stay away. Some netizens said that after they become financially independent and organize a family in the future, they will never interact with relatives again, and all the red and white ceremonies of the seven aunts and eight aunts will not participate, which will certainly have an impact on life, and you may feel free, relaxed and truly peaceful in your heart. The trivial matters between relatives are actually the most "abrasive".

But if you don't interact with relatives all your life, it's actually lonely. Now that you are young, it is normal for you not to associate with your relatives, because those relatives are more familiar with your parents, and you are not familiar with them, so you don't associate with them.

But if you grow up, get married and have children in the future, you will inevitably have to interact with relatives, for example, you have to serve your parents, or you may have to take care of your wife's parents.

People are social animals, and now young people hate relatives, but if you are old, you will be very happy when relatives come to visit you, and finally someone can talk to you and drink tea, of course, these refer to relatives who have a good relationship with you. Older people are very eager for the feeling of family affection, even if you know that some relatives are just a face project, but if you see a bunch of relatives in other people's homes at the door to welcome and send off, you will still feel envious and lonely.

If you don't interact with relatives all your life, you will become without friends, because relatives should still move around, if you don't have a relative, you will become very lonely, no one is sophisticated, and you don't know how to deal with people.

If you don't associate with relatives for a lifetime, it will have a deep impact, at least you still have onlookers and relatives and friends to walk around, how lonely is it to be alone?

Yes, my mother wanted relatives to come to the house, so he always forced me to visit relatives, saying that if I don't go to people's homes, people won't come to my house! Interesting?

Relatives, of course, it is necessary to communicate, on the one hand, in order to maintain the relationship, if you don't associate with relatives, you will feel very lonely. On the other hand, if you have relatives, your network will be wider.

The correspondence between relatives is the same as making friends, paying attention to sincerity, what is good for you, we are also good to them, and what is not good for you, we don't need to force ourselves because of a layer of blood relationship.

Relatives have different behaviors, and those who do not agree with your own views may not want to keep in touch with you, and we are not obligated to associate with them. There is often a comparison between relatives, and careers and children can become the objects of their show-off, but some people will always sneer when they see others doing better than him.

Not all relatives want you to live well, some relatives look down on you when you are down, or even fall into the ground, and some relatives also look down on you when you are rich and noble, and feel that the results you have achieved are obtained by no means of compromise.

In the face of reality and interests, even if the relationship between the two is thicker than water, love may not be closer than strangers.

If you meet relatives who always can't see you, there is no need to come and go, otherwise you are asking for hardships and taking the initiative to send them to the door to be ridiculed.

In the eyes of these relatives, no matter what, you will be ridiculed, you will be said to be a means if you are too good, you will be said to be a disgrace if you are too bad, in short, it is a fault that you live a different life than them.

We can't force others to see us, and we can't change their narrow opinions, so we can only take the initiative to stay away from these people.

It depends. Surface work is to be done. I don't want to go to relatives like I have.

But surface work must be done. Even a whole family doesn't want to. But surface work is to be done.

After all, you can't see you when you look down. If it's a very, far away relationship. For example, my grandfather and his generation were in contact.

We basically went to do their errands before. But my grandfather died, and they didn't come. Then we didn't go.

There was no contact.

In the usual society, relatives are gradually estranged, and the taste of kinship gradually fades, the brothers and sisters of my parents, and my childhood cousins, due to the only few meetings a year, are very unfamiliar with each other, and the common language is becoming less and less, so that the usual**, WeChat contact does not seem to be much, is it really not close? Stop replying from the following points:

1.Affection.

Since it is a relative, in addition to friends, there must be a blood relationship or quasi-blood relationship in a certain generational relationship, such as the generation of grandparents, grandmothers, grandparents, parents and their brothers and sisters, the existence of family affection is the foundation of the maintenance of relatives; As the previous generation or two grows old, we and the next generation gradually have their own families, and with the passage of time, the family relationship will be gradually diluted, which is the root cause of family estrangement.

2.Survive.

With the grand changes in the countryside today, 60% of the original villages were once dilapidated or non-existent, and the relatives in the original village rebuilt houses, and some moved to towns, county towns, and metropolises, so that the Chinese population stopped the second great migration, and the distribution of residence from the heart, incurring family affection that was originally diluted by time, in order to survive in space, the interval produced beauty but neglected family affection, every Spring Festival or some family affairs talent gathering, relatives in walking and communicating and common topics are becoming less and less, family affection is further weakened.

3.Family.

Nowadays, the family is basically a family of 3-4 people, plus the grandparents are 5-6 families, with the outflow of the population, we and our parents and the original relatives in my family, the role of the change, the family relationship is gradually dispersed, to our children, the closest as long as the grandparents and parents, other cousins and cousins have very little contact time, the family relationship is further weakened, so that no kiss.

The development of society and the second great migration of the population will definitely lead to the estrangement of relatives and further weaken the family relationship, but after all, blood is thicker than water, and we have the blood of family affection in our bodies, which is an indisputable fact. Of course, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and they still rely on neighbors in emergencies, and the maintenance of ordinary neighborhood relations is also very important!

Because there are some differences, and there will be some estrangement, and everyone is busy with their own things, the psychological pressure is also very high, and they don't understand what the other party is doing, so they almost don't communicate.

Because after a few generations, there will be fewer and fewer people moving around, and the family affection between the two parties will become weaker and weaker, so they will not communicate.

This is because many relatives do not have the habit of going back and forth, and they gather less and leave more, so there is almost no contact between generations.

Mainly because people are very busy now, and now people generally live in buildings, and rarely go to the door as before, but also because people live very far away now, and don't have so much time to party.

If all your relatives are not willing to associate with you, then it means that you have a problem, why are people not willing to come to you to coincide with you? Maybe it's because you don't speak like you, and people can't help me. Maybe your family is too poor, and people are afraid that your family will ask him to borrow money.

Summary. My parents' parents are gone, so there are some relatives, these are also blood relatives, and they are very close, so they should come and go.

My parents' parents are gone, so there are some relatives, these are also blood relatives, and they are very close, so they should come and go.

Relatives, such as fathers and brothers and sisters who know their in-laws, are also your uncles and aunts, these are very close. Then I told my mother that I was a relative, aunt, uncle, etc., and these blood relatives were very close. Although your parents are gone, Pi Biming is these relatives and elders will also care about you.

Dear, one more relative, one more road. If you really have something to do in the future, the role of relatives at this time is very important.

Summary. Hello kisses, relatives, of course, it is necessary to communicate, on the one hand, it is to maintain the relationship, if you don't associate with relatives, you will feel very lonely. On the other hand, if you have relatives, your network will be wider.

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From the point of view of the etiquette of preparing the shed, it is necessary for relatives to come and go, especially relatives who are close to each other, and it is inevitable to come and go several times a year. If relatives are usually just polite to each other and don't really care about each other, then the necessity of going back and forth is actually not much, and it is a waste of each other's time and energy.