Why do you want to stay away from your parents and leave home when you grow up?

The first is that parents are more controlling. Some parents are really very controlling, they will be strict with their children to do what they say, and if they do not meet the requirements they say, they will be severely punished. This kind of behavior can make children feel that they are out of breath, so many children will choose to stay away from their parents when they grow up.

The second is that parents like moral kidnapping. The reason why some children stay away from their parents is that they will always force their children to do things they don't like in the name of being good to their children. It's more about saying to the children what I have done for you and what I have sacrificed, but I have never considered whether the children really need such sacrifices.

And in their opinion, it is precisely because of the sacrifice for the child that they want the child to do what he wants, such as "Little Joy".

Song Qian. That's the way it was for her children.

Finally, there is the generation gap between children and parents.

Too big. Because of the relationship between age and the lack of communication between parents and children, there will be a big gap between the two in terms of ideology. The novelty that children pursue seems to be unsuccessful in the eyes of many parents.

Therefore, many children do not want to show their true side in front of their parents. Therefore, he wanted to stay away from his parents and prevent them from lecturing him all day long.

Some people don't live with their parents for a long time, and the older they get, the less they can live with their parents, especially those who are grumpy. When you are young, your parents are very fond of your children, but when you grow up, if you still live together for a long time, your parents will really dislike you, and even become annoying in the end. After I graduated, I worked locally, because I never got married, and lived with my parents for many years, I felt that I had become my parents' punching bag, and anything unpleasant in my work and life came to me, and my son could only be scolded there without saying a word, because I didn't talk back, and my parents felt that they were right, and scolded me every day, in fact, I thought I was pretty good regardless of my education or work.

They are always chattering about trivial things, but when I encounter big things, they can't help me with ideas at all, or even give me some comfort, they will only laugh and ridicule me, I don't know if my parents are not alone, but there are a few classmates and friends who live with my parents who are related. But when I really want to move out and live by myself, my parents will say that I am not filial, I think I am still a filial son in the circle of friends, as long as my parents like it, I will do my best to help them achieve it, I don't eat and use, but also let my parents eat and use it first, my parents are sick and hospitalized, I can accompany me 24 hours a day and not go home for half a month, as long as my parents don't like things, I don't do it, and even my parents broke up my two girlfriends I didn't say a word. But I found that obedience to my parents only led to more brazenness, and they took everything for granted.

I feel like I should have my own life and live not only for my parents, so moving out should be a little more exciting.

Summary. Hello, seeing your problem, I can roughly guess that you should have a big opinion about your parents, and you can't communicate with them, and you have no choice but to escape from them.

Hello, seeing your problem, I can roughly guess that you should have a big opinion about your parents, and you can't communicate with them, and you have no choice but to escape from them.

There are two ways to stay away from them, one is to be spatially separated, and the other is to be psychologically independent, not relying on them to live, and to complete one's own personality independence.

If it's a spatial separation, you'll need to move out and live independently. Either live on campus or go out to work.

If it's psychologically distancing, it's that you've grown up strong and mature inside, and their traffic talk can no longer interfere with you.

What happened? Would you like to talk about it.

They don't do a good job of arguing with themselves, so they know how to say that we are literate, beat and scold at every turn, and treat the grandmother who helped them raise three children coldly, always love to belittle us, and tell their friends at every turn how we are, spending a lot of money, but they are far below their peers, so they belittle us in all kinds.

Every time I have a quarrel during the New Year, I can't stand them.

Understand your feelings and be angry.

Parents are not reasonable and too self-centered.

You can see grandma's dedication, which shows that you are a very kind person who knows how to be grateful.

If you care about your parents' words and actions, it means that you want your parents to be reasonable parents.

The sky is high for birds to fly, and the sea is wide for fish to leap. When a child leaves his or her parents, it means that he (she) will grow up independently, think independently, and handle his or her own affairs independently. We were also children, and when faced with the care of our parents, we would dislike them for nagging; When faced with the advice of our parents, we will think that they are causing trouble......, only as a parent can understand and experience.

When the child grows up and gets old, stand in your own perspective to perceive every good time that follows.

Under normal circumstances, every child grows up under the careful care of their parents, so in later life, children have a certain dependence on their parents. As for the parents, they have always taken care of their children, and then they have a certain degree of restraint on their children. In adolescence, it is the time to accept new things and new environments, rebellion and autonomy are normal, which also produces a contradiction that children demand independence and parents restrain their children because they are worried about their children.

The starting point of parents is always to care for their children, but the starting point of children is always independence, which cannot be changed by current education. Therefore, once the child grows up, he will leave his parents and live his own life of soaring in the sky, and his parents will always be waiting below for the child who changes his mind or suddenly falls. Because of the different starting points, it can be said that the love of children can never be compared to the love of parents, in fact, this sentence is mainly reflected in the care, really, I think, love is equal, maybe there is really unequal love, then the child is not worse there.

When children grow up, they will generally leave their parents and go to the world on their own. Always stay by your parents' side, and you won't have a big future. However, when children get married and their parents are old, they will generally take their parents to live together, or take their parents in the same city to take care of them.

Of course, that's certain, parents can't be with their children for a lifetime, parents are children's enlightenment teachers, but parents can't follow their children for a lifetime, they have to be independent when they grow up, but they won't be far away from their parents, and some won't go far, but if the work doesn't allow it, it's okay to stay away, everyone is like this.

In the past, the poor would leave, but now the country is blessed and the people are safe, and they will not leave.

As a parent, sometimes I feel that my child is my most intimate little padded jacket, but there are also times when I feel that my child is particularly troublesome, especially when I am waiting to be fed, I can't wait to escape from this "little devil" who was born to collect debts from me. When I really escaped, I felt that the child was not by my side, and my heart seemed to be very empty, and I wanted to miss it specially. The feelings of parents for their children are such a contradictory existence, but after all, all troubles are short-lived, and the joy that those children bring to them is eternal.

As long as the child grows up, we as parents will be relaxed, especially full-time mothers, this idea is even stronger. Children's food, clothing, housing and transportation need to be arranged by one hand. When it is cold, you must clothe him; If he is dirty, he should wash his face and bathe him; There are so many trivial things in life, which makes my mother feel physically and mentally exhausted.

Finally, the child sleeps, and the mother has to get up to clean up the house, toys, and chores that can't be done.

However, as the baby continues to grow, he will find in many inadvertent moments that he begins to learn to eat and walk by himself, and gradually, he begins to become less dependent on himself as he did when he was a newborn. At first, I will feel that the child has become well-behaved and sensible, and I can finally relax.

Suddenly, one day, the child made a basin of water in advance, brought it to him, and said, "Mom, you have worked hard, from now on, let me protect you." At this moment, I have burst into tears, at this moment, I am strongly aware that my child has grown up, I am really gratified, he has learned how to feed back at such a young age.

Therefore, cherish the time spent with children, and the company of parents is indispensable in the growth of children. But there is really no child in the world who is inseparable from their parents, but parents, when their children leave their side and go to farther places to study and develop, they always recall those times together.

Well, yes. Human life is strange. It's all about causes and conditions coming together. Morning and evening are separated. So I met. This is also fate. Just live the rest of your life together as a family.

If you don't leave your parents, they will leave you, and everyone will have that day.

If this is a biological problem, then the conclusion is:

Neither will nor will. Rabbits are social animals, and a group of rabbits can have multiple dens in a small area. In this area, they don't have to be far away.

Rabbits reproduce very quickly and can generally give birth to 4 to 8 young children at a time. If a burrow is large enough, it can be used for generations, but most of the hares that live in the grasslands need to dig their own nests.

The wings are stiff. I interpret it from another angle, not rough.

If a small tree wants to become a towering tree, it must leave the blessing of the tree, accept the sun and rain to grow up, people must go through wind and rain to grow, children will learn to live and take care of themselves at the same time will understand the hardships of their parents, do not be reluctant, and point to him in his old age.

The way parents discipline their children is not right.

It cannot be said that children will not be filial to their parents in the future.

You must fulfill your responsibility for support.

This is a duty conferred by law.

Because parents are also young when they are young, as their children grow up day by day, parents also get older day by day, of course, they can no longer let their children take steps on themselves. Because then it will get used to the child and make him have bad habits.

It doesn't matter, the old man has good energy, so he won't go back to his hometown, the child has grown up, and it is easy to bring it, let it be, they find you, it means that they have been missing you, and it doesn't hurt to recognize each other. If they are very comfortable and don't remember which onion you are, you will only cause trouble for them to recognize each other, it is better to go their separate ways, anyway, you are already past the age of clinging to your parents.

According to Article 21 of Interpretation III of the Marriage Law, parents have the obligation to raise and educate their children; Children have an obligation to support their parents.

If the parents fail to fulfill the obligation to support them, the child who is a minor or who is unable to live independently has the right to demand maintenance from the parents.

In the event that a child fails to fulfill his or her maintenance obligations, the parent who is unable to work or who is in difficulty in living has the right to demand maintenance from the child.

Parents are their children's best teachers who receive education from their families from an early age, so it's normal for that.