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Hello! There are a few people in the dormitory, if there are one or two people, you can negotiate with them together to go outside the dormitory if you want to smoke. If you are a non-smoker, you can change a dormitory with the help of your teacher or leader.
Smoking is harmful to health.
Or just discuss what time to prohibit smoking, or if they smoke, you go to a non-smoking dormitory to avoid it, and you really can't believe it, rent a house and find a few like-minded people.
No smoking. If it doesn't work, then you can only slowly adapt to it, take store protection measures by yourself, buy some masks and the like, is the reality like this, the minority obeys the majority, and there are many people, how can you take care of it so thoroughly.
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First of all, I feel sorry for you for 3 seconds when you encounter this kind of roommate. Secondly, you have to look at the point, you know that you are not alone in this kind of trouble, many friends from all over the world are also going through this kind of problem like you. For the evil forces that take care of themselves and are chic and do not care about the life or death of their roommates, we cannot blindly remain silent, but must rise up and resist.
Resisting doesn't mean that you use knives and guns, you break the law if you kill someone. After all, our enemies are roommates who close their eyes and don't see each other, and we must not only resist, but also be sensible, at least to ensure a harmonious dormitory relationship. So how do you resist it? I have 2 tricks here.
First, see the move to defend. Defense, as the name suggests, is to protect yourself. This trick is recommended for new roommates and roommates who don't know each other well.
The basic equipment is masks and air fresheners. The mask must be anti-haze, so that this mask can effectively prevent the inhalation of smoke. Whenever your roommate smokes, you put on a mask, which not only saves yourself from smog, but also solves the embarrassment of persuading your roommate to go out for a cigarette.
Air fresheners are mainly used to dilute the smell of smoke in the air. Every time my roommate finishes smoking, he sprays it into the house a few times, and I think most of the roommates who are self-conscious will be embarrassed to go out and smoke after seeing your equipment.
Second, see the move. This trick is mainly used for roommates who are already familiar with each other. In fact, once we have a relationship with our roommates, we can make some requests of our direct roommates.
For example, don't throw stinky socks around, take turns cleaning and don't smoke in the dormitory. For example, if you don't smoke in the dormitory, saying it once or twice at the beginning will still have an effect, but the effect may not be long, and as you say it more often, the effect will be 0. For this kind of roommate who has to smoke in the dormitory, then he can only know it with affection and move it.
Every time he smoked, he dragged him to the balcony and locked the door until he finished smoking. Or just move him a chair and drag him outside the dormitory for him to smoke. For this kind of slapping in the face, I think the cheeky master should also be more restrained.
I haven't tried the above two methods, I don't know what the effect is, interested students can try it after class.
If there are several people in the dormitory who smoke, you may want to consider more. After all, you have one against three, and the disparity in strength is too obvious. First of all, you have to negotiate with them, you go out more during the day, leave the dormitory to them, and you must be given a fresh sleeping space at night.
If they can't guarantee this, you'd better swap rooms with other dorm mates who are disliked for smoking, so that you and him can make it easier for you and him. It's the best of both worlds.
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