Guiguzi Dealing with people and things, you must not violate these three heavenly rules , what do t

The first is to repay grievances with virtue and treat others with tolerance. It is better to give small grace to others, than to be above board. If you want to improve your reputation and honor, it is better to go with the flow.

The second is not to be alarmed, not to panic, to always be vigilant to yourself, not to be dry, to be happy and quiet, and to be stable when worried. The third is to go with the flow, have no quarrel with the world, do not discuss the rights and wrongs of others, do not compare with others, and do your best.

Instead of buying people's hearts, it is better to win everyone's support openly. When you encounter something, the more you rush to solve it, but the more difficult it is to solve it, you must think calmly and don't panic. Go with the flow.

The first is that no man shall be disguised, and the sea shall not be measured. Article 2: Advise people not to hide all things. There are gods in the head. The third self-hatred has no leaves, don't complain about the sun.

To be a man, we must know the current affairs, this is a philosophy of life, there is an old saying: if the moment is not right, it cannot be a square; If the rules are not correct, you can't be round, the meaning of this sentence is: everything is regular, and you can do things according to the rules without going bad, this finger is what Guiguzi said to know the current affairs, and follow the trend!

As the old saying goes: Honesty takes the righteousness of heaven and earth and asks the world to be warm and cold, and the law leads to the rules and laws of the world, the meaning of this sentence is: to be a man to follow the way of heaven, to know what is the right way, what is the evil way, to be a man is just to ask the right way, but also to act in accordance with the laws or rules of the world, and to be a person to have a sense of awe, at least to follow their own heart!

You also have to be in awe to do things well!

In fact, really smart people know two rules!

1.If the ears and eyes are wide, the world is narrow, and if the dispute is short, the days and months are long.

Interpretation: A very simple meaning is to see less and listen less, otherwise you will feel that the world is narrow!

Extension: To feel the size and vastness of the world with your heart, but more importantly, to let your mind be broad-minded, as for abandoning some distracting thoughts in the world, in order to make your heart open-minded, for some troublesome things, it is better not to listen, and it is better not to see if you see! So the vastness of this world is in your heart!

In fact, there are inevitably a lot of troubles in life, if you are careful everywhere, life is boring everywhere! It's better to give up some disputes and make yourself happier!

2. Seeking blessings excessively is suitable for quick trouble; Peace and quick disasters will be a blessing.

Interpretation: The pursuit of some good things can not be excessive, otherwise bad things will come, should be a normal heart to treat everything!

Extension: In fact, everyone has a good mood, but it can't be too much, otherwise it is likely to backfire, if you force it so forcibly for the sake of the so-called convincing, it will make yourself even more disastrous!

Therefore, everyone who remembers these two sentences in the adversity of life will actually slowly get better and better, and no matter when we have to remember that the ordinary heart is the most important.

As the most mysterious person in the history of China's Warring States Period, Mr. Guiguzi is said to have never been out of the mountains in his life, and has been studying the art of vertical and horizontal shutting in the quiet place in the deep mountains and old forests, but he has been attracting talented people to apprentice, including two of his very famous apprentices, one is Su Qin, who advocates "joint vertical", and the other is Zhang Yi, who advocates "continuous horizontal", these two people wander among the princes from all walks of life, give advice, and stir up the world with a clever mouth. So the person who can teach such a capable apprentice,He had a lot of great wisdom in this life, condensed in some of his words,Learning the truth of these words will help us to have better luckLet's take a look.

Article 1, ".Therefore, the beginning of knowing oneself, knowing oneself and then knowing others。The general meaning of this sentence is that a person must first understand himself, and only by understanding himself can he better understand others. This sentence emphasizes what we lack most in our society todayEmpathyOnly when a person has empathy can he feel the happiness and pain of others, on the one hand, he can give comfort and encouragement to others in a timely manner, on the other handAlsoYou can cherish your happiness more and be more open-minded about the suffering you have suffered.

Article 2"The wise man does not use his shortcomings, but uses the strengths of fools, and does not use his clumsiness, but uses the works of fools." ”That's rightMany young people who are working hard in the workplace are very inspiringOne should be good at seeing the advantages of othersBe good at building on your strengths and avoiding weaknesses, and use the strengths and strengths of others to help yourself, so that their own road can go wider and farther. Especially as oneThe leader of the teamto say,How to rationalize the division of laborSo that every member can better play their role, which is very important for what the team is currently doing.

We always say that for Chinese culture to take its essence, then for such a very famous old man Guiguzi with great wisdom in Chinese history, for some of his essence of famous sayings, ifIf we can comprehend the truth of the Tao, then we will go more smoothly in this life.

The first is to match the name with the truth, and no matter what you do, you must be famous as a so-called teacher. The second is to do what you do worthy of your conscience.

With your own reputation, you have to match your own strength. The second is not a loss, and it is worthy of the ground in one day. What we do today must be done with the conscience of heaven and earth.

These two rules are the first is not to be proud, the second is to redouble your efforts, remember these two rules, people will walk wider and wider, and the career will be more successful.

Honest people, don't speak, this sentence warns us, if you don't have a certain strength, you should be an honest person, talk less, do more, so as to win the love of others, don't be blindly arrogant, talk more in **? Yan Duoduo will suffer the dislike of others at that time.

"An Xu Zhengjing, his back is all meaty. "Good and not quiet, humble and calm, waiting for loss" is about when everyone is invested in a thing, its value is reduced, and the return you will get will be reduced, so you should quickly give up this thing. When others are not interested in this matter, you quickly plunge into it, tap the potential of such things that others have not tapped, and create new value!

Guiguzi's "An Xu is quiet, and its back is all meaty. Kindness and not quietness, humility and calmness, to wait for the loss" Speaking of the code of conduct, I understand that it is very good for a person to achieve a very calm state of cultivation, and in life, we should also make more friends with people with modest hearts, so as to prevent better solutions when encountering problems.

Guiguzi, which sentence speaks of the code of conduct? How do you understand that? Guiguzi wrote in his book of residence:

An Xu Zhengjing, its back is all meat, good and not quiet, humble and calm, waiting for the loss! This sentence writes the principle of being a human being, telling us that when we interact with people in life, we should be good at making friends with some people who are humble in their hearts and have a peaceful will, so as to prevent them from being able to occupy the main position when encountering problems.

No matter how good other people's lives are, don't be envious, your own life must be your own appearance, and your own wonderfulness can make people truly satisfied! The human heart is the destiny of heaven, and being good at grasping human nature will be invincible, which is the essence of the way of wisdom.

Mousheng Guiguzi teaches the world: It is impossible to take advantage of everything in life, so there must be trade-offs, some things can be done, some things cannot be done, and conforming to the will of God is the best choice for success:

1. The loneliest waiting, the greatest feelings!

Extension: Waiting is a kind of faith, waiting is a kind of savings, waiting is a kind of wisdom. Before the time comes, Taoguang will be obscure, and when the time is ripe, it will bloom wonderfully!

2. The higher you fly, the smaller the people on the ground will look at you!

Extension: Life is not necessarily the higher the achievement, the greater, people are not cold in high places, the cold and hungry people can add clothes, and the cold of people's hearts kills!

3. Under life is reluctance, above life is control!

Extension: Beyond the ordinary is greatness, close to success is ultimately failure!

4. The weak will also be depressed in success, and the strong will still be enterprising when they fail.

Extension: The biggest enemy of people is themselves, overcoming difficulties is only a temporary success, and surpassing oneself can achieve a lifetime!

5. Fight for fame and fame, and die for profit; After a long time in Vanity Fair, who is not desolate!

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