What causes children to become passively dependent in learning?

The child himself does not realize the importance of learning, or he is still too young to understand what learning means to him. There is also the fact that parents give their children too good shelter and do not let their children suffer.

It may be because the child lacks self-confidence and the guidance of the parents is not enough. Or maybe the recent academic pressure is relatively high, and the child has a burnout mentality. Parents and teachers can communicate with their children more to understand their inner needs.

I think it is because parents discipline their children too much in the process of their children's learning and life, which makes children dependent on their parents. There is no opinion of one's own. Parents should encourage their children and let them do everything themselves.

When it comes to learning, many children are passive learners, and they will learn when their parents urge them to learn, and they don't know how to take the initiative to learn. In the past, children were very fond of learning, and they would take the initiative to learn without the need for their parents to urge them. So why is it that most children now learn not actively but passively?

Because today's children do not realize the importance of learning, they live in the care of their parents since they were young, thinking that the whole world is particularly beautiful, but they do not know that if they do not work hard, the quality of life will decline. For example, if you have lived in a honeypot since you were a child, you don't know the dangers of this world at all, there are still many people in this world, who can't eat enough and can't wear, these people especially cherish the opportunity to learn, because they want to change their destiny through learning. But children who have lived in a honeypot since childhood do not realize the importance of learning, because they are full of food and clothing, and their spiritual life is also very pleasant, and they do not need to change their destiny through learning at all.

Therefore, these children are not able to learn actively, but only passively.

If your child is not able to take the initiative to learn, parents should guide the child to take the initiative to learn, cultivate the child's interest in learning, and let the child fall in love with learning. As long as children are interested in learning, they will be able to take the initiative to learn, and they will not need to be supervised by their parents, and they will think that learning is a very interesting thing, and they can get more fun in the process of learning. Therefore, parents must slowly guide their children to make them interested in learning, so that they can fall in love with learning and will no longer dislike learning.

Active learning is easy to say, but it is also more difficult to do, so it needs careful guidance from parents.

I think the main reason is that students nowadays are generally under more pressure and less motivated to learn, so they will not take the initiative to study.

Mainly because the children's learning pressure is too much now, so the enthusiasm for learning is very poor.

Because most children are now urged by their parents, they are not active in learning, they will be forced by their parents and lose their autonomy, so children are not willing to learn.

Many parents will feel troubled by urging their children to study hard, always thinking that they are not active and proactive in learning, in fact, children's motivation to learn is innate. School culture, assessment system, curriculum content and teaching methods are all important factors, but parents' attitudes, behaviour patterns and discipline methods should not be overlooked. The cultivation of interest must be produced under the condition of relaxed, comfortable and no pressure, motivated by teachers and induced by parents.

Specific methods: First, first of all, let the child taste the joy of learning, increase confidence, such as the knowledge you want to learn can be arranged into a game, so that the child can gain new knowledge in the fun of the game.

Second, we should encourage and praise him for every bit of progress in learning, and don't criticize him too much. The time for homework should not be too long, and there should be breaks in between.

3. Constantly stimulate children's curiosity and desire for knowledge. Take them to museums, science museums or art galleries on weekends and holidays.

Fourth, cultivate the child's ability to complete homework alone, and the courage to overcome difficulties, do not let the child develop dependence, and let him understand that doing homework is what he should do.

5. Don't force your child to learn, or push too hard, which will easily cause your child's rebellious emotions and make it counterproductive.

6. Provide your child with his own learning space with his own desk and chair. The child has his own learning world, where he does his homework and reads every day, and he will be more attentive and love to learn.

7. Parents should set an example.

Passive learning mainly refers to the child's learning under external pressure from teachers or parents. The main reason for this is that the child is not interested in learning, has no fun, and copes with things. The result is low learning efficiency and poor academic performance. To solve this problem, attention should be paid to:

1.Let children know that learning is their own business, not for teachers or parents, but for their own future;

3.Set practical learning goals for children, so that children always have a sense of accomplishment and improve their initiative in learning

4.Combine work and rest, leave enough free time for children to do what they want to do.

After the twin brothers separated, Dabao couldn't get out of his grief, and his academic performance plummeted, so my child and I were adjusting our emotionsLiving and learning, but also summed up some good methods and experiences.

There are many children who are very passive about learning, because these children feel that they can play happily, but they have to be bound to learning, so children will have corresponding resistance. In fact, parents can tell their children at this time not to always be very passive about learning, because learning is the child's responsibility anyway, if the child does not study well at this time, then it is likely that in the future for the moment of relaxation and feel very regretful.

Mom and dad should let the child change this idea from the source, don't always feel that learning is very passive, if the child has been passive when learning, then the child will feel very tired on the road of learning, once the child thinks like this, the child is likely not to want to study hard. This is a very bad influence for children, and it is also a phenomenon that makes parents feel very headache.

Therefore, when the child is very young, parents should tell the child to take the initiative to accept learning, and to take the initiative to respect learning. Because if parents don't educate their children well, then children may have all kinds of problems in the process of learning. If the child has these problems, then the parents are likely to be affected accordingly, so the child must be proactive in learning.

In fact, children's attitudes towards learning have a lot to do with parents, if parents have always brought positive guidance to children in the process of children's growth, then children will be more proactive in the face of learning in the future. However, if parents do not give their children good guidance, then children may feel that learning is a task imposed on them by teachers and parents. Parents should not let their children take learning as a task, but should let them take learning as their own responsibility, so that they can learn better.

Because playing in the child's heart is the most important thing, and learning will make them feel very helpless, because parents will put too much pressure on them, so they will feel passive.

Because learning is particularly boring, many children can't experience the joy of learning, so they will learn passively, they feel that learning is very boring, and they will not take the initiative to learn.

Because children are pressed by their parents and feel that learning is more boring, they are no longer interested in learning.

Because learning is a very boring thing, we don't want to face this kind of boring thing.

Help children build their own interests. Children don't want to learn, because just learning doesn't bring them joy and even finds it boring. Instead of indulging in a boring world, it is more convenient to play two games.

As parents, we can observe children's learning interests, and it is very difficult for children to discover what they like on their own. Because children don't understand what they like at all, parents should take the initiative to observe their children's daily life at this time, find their children's flashes, and help them build their own interests.

Children don't want to learn, because just learning doesn't bring them joy and even finds it boring. Instead of indulging in a boring world, it is more convenient to play two games. As parents, we can observe children's learning interests, and it is very difficult for children to discover what they like on their own.

Because children don't understand what they like at all, parents should take the initiative to observe their children's daily life at this time, find their children's flashes, and help them build their own interests. Children don't want to learn, because just learning doesn't bring them joy and even finds it boring. Instead of indulging in a boring world, it is more convenient to play two games.

As parents, we can observe children's learning interests, and it is very difficult for children to discover what they like on their own. Because children don't understand what they like at all, parents should take the initiative to observe their children's daily life at this time, find their children's flashes, and help them build their own interests. Children don't want to learn, because just learning doesn't bring them joy and even finds it boring.

Instead of indulging in a boring world, it is more convenient to play two games.

As parents, we can observe children's learning interests, and it is very difficult for children to discover what they like on their own. Because children don't understand what they like at all, parents should take the initiative to observe their children's daily life at this time, find their children's flashes, and help them build their own interests.

We can tell our child stories about learning and tell him that if he doesn't study, he won't have anything to eat. You can also tell him that college life is something that everyone deserves to have.

Children's learning is passive, and if you want to stimulate your child's "enthusiasm" for learning, you need to make your child fall in love with learning, and parents can teach them knowledge while taking them to play.

First of all, let the child become interested in learning, and do not put too much pressure on the child, so that the child will take the initiative to learn.

It is important to have a good attitude towards learning, so that children can take the initiative to learn. Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's active learning attitude when their children are relatively young, so that children can enjoy learning. So if your child is so passive, is there any way to let your child take the initiative to learn?

Every child has their own dreams, and they are particularly interested in certain things, so parents can find their children's interests and start from the points of interest to make their children fall in love with learning. Because interest also needs to be developed, and if it is not developed, this information may be buried. For example, if the child is very interested in model aircraft, then the child should understand the relevant knowledge of model aircraft and learn the construction of model aircraft.

Therefore, as long as parents find their children's interests, they can let their children understand that learning is to take the initiative to let children take the initiative to explore relevant knowledge, and when children get fun from exploring knowledge, they can take the initiative to learn and will no longer be passive. Therefore, it is very important to find the child's interest, as long as the child is interested in something, he can take the initiative to explore, can take the initiative to learn, and does not need to be supervised by his parents.

It is very important to have a lot of habits, if your child has a good study habit, he will be able to love learning. Parents can first urge their children to study and urge their children to do their homework at 7 o'clock every day, so that after three months, the children will be able to adapt to doing homework at 7 o'clock. Even if the parents do not supervise the child at 7 o'clock, the child will understand that it is time to write homework and will be able to take the initiative to write homework, and his attitude will become very active, and he will no longer let his parents supervise.

To create a good learning environment for children, we must encourage children to take the initiative to learn, cultivate children's learning habits, relieve children's learning pressure, and set goals for children.

Let children discover the joy of learning, guide children slowly, parents should accompany their children to learn together, and parents can also do some of their own work. Create a quiet atmosphere.

It is normal for children to have a certain degree of dependence in the process of growing up, because children are in the initial stage of life and need the care and guidance of parents to help them build self-awareness and confidence. However, if the child's dependency is too high, it may affect their growth and independence, so it needs to be gradually reduced.

Here are some suggestions to reduce your child's dependence:

1.Encourage your child to make their own decisions: In all aspects of life, such as clothing, recipes, and learning, let children learn to think and make their own decisions.

2.Respect the child's wishes: When the child has his own opinions and ideas, he or she should give them full respect, and do not rely on his authority and status to make the child unable to express himself.

3.Give your child enough autonomy: For example, let your child decide on his or her own learning time, sports, extracurricular activities, etc., so that he or she can feel in control and autonomy.

4.Cultivate children's ability to live independently: You can let children complete some small things in life by themselves, such as dinner cooking, housework collaboration, etc., so that children can feel their ability in life and gradually enhance their self-confidence and independence.

In general, children's dependence is normal, but Chongming needs to gradually cultivate children's self-awareness and independence as they grow up, so that they can gradually explore their own potential and move towards maturity and self-reliance as they grow up.