My girlfriend says I m not fit to get married yet 20

Your girlfriend doesn't see what you're capable of as a man. Now everything is given by the family, if you don't rely on the family, can you give it all to her?

It could be psychological uneasiness. Premarital anxiety. Expectations and uneasiness for the future are intertwined.

That means she wants to play with you.

Because you're younger than him! So he might be a little bit stressed on that side???

Is it necessary to talk about girlfriends who don't want to get married as follows:

1. First of all, we must understand the reason why my girlfriend doesn't want to get married, there must be a reason, if there is no reason, it may mean that she is just playing in love, if so, then there is definitely no need to go to the marriage hall with her, because there is no relationship between the two at all.

2. If your girlfriend is insecure.

Then in this case, you have to understand your girlfriend's withering, probably because you have more friends of the opposite sex around you, if so, you must get rid of these problems, and you must keep a certain distance from other friends of the opposite sex, when your girlfriend has a sense of security, she is naturally willing to be with you.

3. In real life, there are many people who have a phobia of marriage, and may not have been happy in their family life since childhood, so they dare not get married now, afraid of following the old path of their parents, if so, they must give their girlfriends more comfort and persuasion.

What should I do if my boyfriend says that he will break up if he doesn't get married:

1. Of course, the most important thing is to sit down with each other and communicate well to understand the specific reasons for breaking up without getting married! If it's because you're afraid of losing yourself, give the other person a sense of security and remember that you can't have too many friends of the opposite sex around you, so that your boyfriend won't force you to get married quickly.

2. It may also be because the boyfriend is older, in addition to wanting to get married, there is also pressure from relatives and friends, so you should also be considerate and understand your boyfriend, of course, if there is indeed a relationship between the two, then in this case, you can discuss the wedding and finally go to the marriage hall.

3. If the relationship between the two is not very long, such as only three months or half a year, then this situation is not ruined If the boyfriend says that he will break up if he doesn't get married, it is recommended that girls should be cautious and never get married in a flash, otherwise they will be vulnerable in the end.

It shows that you make people feel insecure.

Either you are very attentive, or you are not developing, or your family is very poor. Please check yourself.

Except for the third one that can't be changed in the short term (if you dislike your family conditions, the woman will be divided earlier), the first two can still be corrected.

Summary. Hello dear, according to your question description of the situation, the girlfriend said that she didn't want to get married, how to 1 carefully ask the girlfriend what the reason is for not wanting to get married, and then prescribe the right medicine, such as "baby, why don't you want to marry me". 2. Reflect on the problems in the relationship between the two and find the reason why your girlfriend is reluctant to get married, such as "Baby, do you think there are any problems between us".

3 It may be caused by the girlfriend's own experience, and the man should be patient and give a sense of security at this time. Hope it helps!

Hello dear, according to your question description of the situation, the girlfriend said that she didn't want to get married, how to 1 carefully ask the girlfriend what the reason is for not wanting to get married, and then prescribe the right medicine, such as "baby, why don't you want to marry me". 2. Reflect on the problems in the relationship between the two and find the reason why your girlfriend is reluctant to get married, such as "Baby, do you think there are any problems between us". 3 It may be caused by the girlfriend's own experience, and the man should be patient and give a sense of security at this time.

Hope it helps!

Why does the girlfriend say she doesn't want to get married 1, insecure Many girls don't want to get married because the boy can't give her the security she wants, it may be that there are too many girls around the boy, and the boy has a lot of fun with every girl, causing the girl to have an illusion that the boy will run away with other girls one day. 2. The nature of unmarried and more free girls is to love to play, and after marriage, because of many things in life, they are firmly bound, so they can no longer play as much as before. In addition, you may have to have children in the future, take care of children, etc., which leads to a great reduction in your personal space.

3. Fear of marriageSome girls may be afraid of getting married because of family reasons or seeing too much of other people's unfortunate marriages when they are young, and they are afraid of getting married, and they are afraid that they will not dare to marry after a tragedy after marriage. 4. I still want to know more about my boyfriend, and some girls think that they don't know their boyfriend well enough, and hope to know more about their boyfriend's personality, family, etc. I will marry my boyfriend when I have completely mastered everything, because after marriage, my boyfriend is all that a girl is!