Are you happy now that you have been in love for many years before getting married?

We are all very happy, marriage is just a ceremony, it doesn't mean anything, love is the most important thing, so we are all living well and happy.

We weren't happy, and we had a bad life after we got married. It's not like living as I used to expect, making noise every day.

Happiness is always there, because love has become family affection, we are all each other's bonds, and the greatest unhappiness is without each other.

Falling in love and getting married are actually two different things, love is two people getting along together, and marriage is two families running in together, including the attitude of life at the time, etc., so whether you are happy or not in love for many years depends on whether the three views of the two families are consistent, if they are far apart, it is not necessarily!

After getting married, everything will be dull in the future, and whether we are happy or not depends on whether we can withstand this blandness, so it depends on how we live in the future.

It feels like we are the happiest people in the world, and on the days of déjà vu, love becomes family affection.

I don't know if I'm happy or not, so I'm sure I'm not going to be happy, and I'll ask if it's right or wrong for us to get married.

Quarrels twice in three days, such a life makes me very irritable, marriage is the grave of love. That's true.

After three years of marriage, we start to get tired of it, and I think that generally about three or four years, especially after having children, everyone will quickly get tired of married life and tired of each other. Not long after we got married, I conceived a baby, due to malnutrition, and because I didn't know how to cook, my husband didn't have time to take care of me, so I could only go to my mother-in-law's house for a while, and then I felt that my husband and my husband slowly began to be estranged, I told him many times, his mother is not my mother, it is impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says that his parents are very good, how is it, but I went to my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law plays mahjong every day, The cooking is not on time, and the father-in-law smokes at home every day, and it is useless to say it, and at this time, he always says that I am not sensible, etc., and slowly finds that he is unwilling to call him to say these things. Later, I went back to my parents' house, and my mother took care of me, she had a lot of things to do, but she was also taking care of me wholeheartedly, because I was pregnant and vomited too much, my appetite was really not good, and I was very picky, so I could feel the distress of my parents, and then after giving birth, my in-laws did not say to help take care of the confinement, nor did they say to help take care of the child, in short, my confinement was taken care of by my mother, and he felt that his mother's waist was not good, and I had to understand.

Then we couldn't take the baby alone, and it was true that a person would not take care of it, so I took the baby back to my parents' house, his parents ** did not hit one, at first I and he will be a rough blind **, and then slowly I don't want to pick him up**, and I don't want to talk to him too much, we have been separated for about ten months I went back to the first empty space, I feel that the two can not be like the feeling when they are in love, at that time we were married just three years ago, and the feeling at that time was that I wanted to return to a person's life.

1. What is the best age to get married? Divorce rates are highest among young couples who marry during their teenage years. When you reach the age of 30, you know who you are and what you want, and at this time the economic conditions have kept up, and the marriage will be stronger at this time.

But it's not absolutely all-encompassing, it's just true to some extent. One piece of data found that the divorce rate does decline with the age of marriage, but the divorce rate of people who are over 30 and nearly 40 years old is actually higher than that of people who marry in their early 20s.

2. What is the age difference between men and women in marriage, and some analysis of the comprehensive population theory: it is best for a girl to marry a man between the ages of 32 and 45 at the age of 24-25, and why? First, from the analysis of appearance and posture, girls generally age very quickly after the age of 25, because girls menstruate once a month, and adults lose the essence of the girl's body.

Boys are different, boys will develop more slowly than women, and they will not age until after the age of 30, and the rate of aging is slower than that of girls. Second, from the perspective of giving birth to offspring, the health of the babies mainly depends on the health of the mother, the baby is grown up in the mother's body, and whether the baby is smart depends on the father, which is genetics. Young mothers are more likely to ensure the healthy growth of their babies.

There are two stages of the appropriate age for a man to get married, the first time period is between 25 and 30 years old, and the best time is around 26 years old. If you get married during this time, it is normal for boys to be 2 to 6 years older than girls under normal circumstances, and you should consider getting married first before starting a business later. If a man remarries after a successful career, the divorce rate is very high, and he will always worry that the girl marrying him is greedy for his money.

The second time period is between 35 and 40 years old, and the best time is around 35 years old. Boys in this age group should find a girl who is 10-16 years younger than themselves to marry. This kind of marriage of old husbands and young wives will be relatively stable.

At this time, men's temperament is relatively stable, and if they have a certain economic foundation, they will not worry about money.

Analysis of the reasons why it is easy to break up after a long relationship.

I often come across some suggestions. The two fell in love for a few years, just like husband and wife, and continued to date, and it stands to reason that they should get married, but one day they separated and became strangers again. It may be brought up by one party, or it may be taken seriously by the two.

Come to think of it, no matter what you think, it's very sad that a relationship that has been going on for a few years could end like this. The truth is that the longer two people are together, the more stable the relationship becomes. Most of the time, if you don't get married after talking for a long time, you won't really get married in the future.

From the beginning, there were no plans to get married. It is not normal for a man to be in a relationship with a woman for many years without getting married. That's it, they really want to live with someone for a lifetime, there is a certain tacit understanding between them, they have been in love for a certain amount of time, they will not be dragged down at all, naturally, the two of them will put the issue of marriage on the agenda.

The two of them will take the initiative to speak up, they will be willing, they will work hard for it, to convince their parents, to finalize all the procedures and relationships. Generally speaking, love should be like this, it's just that there are always some people who will also enter into a relationship, but from the bottom of their hearts, they are not really satisfied. It's not because they like it, they don't see it as their other half, they want a future, but they just want to stop for a while and have someone by their side.

You see, we can stay in a relationship for a while, but later, if we get married, we will want to be with someone else. For some people, falling in love and getting married are completely different things, two different things. So even if they've been talking for a long time, but at that age, they really want to get married, and they won't even think about continuing like this, and he'll break up quickly and go back to being single, and then they'll look for someone who feels right.

In fact, there are a lot of people who don't get good results. This is due to the fact that the company's business is not good. At the same time, when they first got together, the situation was different in all aspects, there were a few years, each other's opportunities were different, the contact environment was different, and their own development was not the same.

The two of them could marry each other. They will feel that today is not what they want, and they will worry that things will get worse later if they get married easily. If you talk for a long time, you will really start to lose your previous motivation, you will no longer be as brave as before, you will no longer be as sure of the other person as you used to, you will think that the other person is right, you will just start to become very suspicious, and most importantly you will withdraw from it.

This sentiment has been brewing and one day it will really explode and finally decide that you don't want to go on any longer and don't want to be in this state for the rest of your life.