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No money does not necessarily mean that you can't please a good wife, money may not be able to please a good wife, it's just that this good wife has a different definition for each one, many of them can't be bought by money, work hard for your own goals, you will definitely be able to get a good wife in your mind, there are many people in the world, some are poor and some are rich, they (they) are working hard to live, the poor have a poor life, the rich have a way to live, there are from poor to rich and hard to start a business worth hundreds of millions, and there are from rich to poor and bankrupt overnight, No matter how I hope you have a good attitude to face, the biggest harvest of life is happiness, if you see a lot of people in your lower class, you will feel satisfied, the landlord is to see the way of life of the upper class, in fact, it is still the sentence of contentment, when your efforts to achieve your goals or wishes, will completely change your mind, for the goal in your mind to work hard, you will get a good wife. Three points are destined, and seven points depend on hard work! Start a business for your goals, fight for the life of your goals, and believe that you will achieve your wishes.
The goal in my mind: a person with good character, knows how to be considerate, cares for others, is kind, gentle, and wise, and other conditions are secondary. If you meet someone who truly loves you, she can actually ignore everything.
Man is an animal with rich feelings, I should put feelings first, if you only put money first, you will eat the bitter fruit!
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It's not that you can't get a wife, it depends on whether the woman really loves you, if you really love someone, you won't care too much about whether he is rich, and if you don't bring money to life, you won't bring it to death.
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It depends on what kind of person you belong to, if you are the kind of poor who can't support yourself, how can there be a girl who can look at it. It's estimated that others can't look at it.
On the contrary, if you have a little money and are more hopeful, then it may be that the boys are more demanding.
You must know that only 1 out of 10 women is a real beauty, and the rest are either dressed up or average.
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If you don't have money, it's better not to ask your wife, if you are tired, others will also be tired yourself.
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Yes, 100 percent, unless there is a rich girl who marries you, not you marry him.
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If she really loves you, she won't mind if you have money, you can earn money together, and you can live happily without money, don't have such thoughts, I wish you to find the other half of your life as soon as possible.
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For example, if you have 1,000 yuan, it can only be spent for 1 day in Beijing, but in some other places you can spend a month, in rural areas where there is no development it may take half a year, and so on.
Weigh your economy and then decide where to ask for a wife, not necessarily a big city woman.
Good luck.
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Not before, but now. I can't generalize, but most girls just want to enjoy and don't want to struggle.
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It's this society now, but you can't say it too much, it's not that you can't get it, and even if you get it, you won't be really relative, and the days won't be long.
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Of course you can, but the premise is that you have to be sincere, you can not buy her thousands of things, but you must be attentive, being poor and perfunctory are really two different things.
1.Not all girls value money very much, but boys shouldn't deliberately indulge themselves by taking advantage of their girlfriends not looking at money and closing their eyes to money. Every boy should be self-motivated, two people can be together without money at the beginning, but they can't be without money all the time, if they have been living a poor life, and the boy doesn't know how to work hard to earn money, then this relationship may not last long.
Many boys are like this, they find an unmaterial girlfriend, they use her dislike money as an excuse to let themselves go all day long, they are idle all day long, without the slightest bit of self-motivation, and the usual expenses of the two people have become a big problem, how many girls dare to follow such a man?
2.Many of the boys' hometowns come from rural areas, and the conditions in the countryside are definitely worse than those in the cities. If you don't have a garage and deposit, if you want to find a girlfriend, you must not go to those girls who ask too much for these aspects.
Most of the boys in their twenties are certainly not particularly wealthy financially, generally can have tens of thousands of dollars in savings is quite good, if you want to find a suitable girlfriend, you must find the kind of girl who is suitable for living in the future, she can grow average, but her heart must be kind.
3.You can't fall in love if you don't have money, but it's a bit unrealistic to get married, and there is a big difference between love and marriage. When you are in love, you may be able to make do with no money, but if you don't have enough savings after marriage, then the marriage will be extremely difficult.
After getting married, many aspects need to spend money, and if two people have no savings, they will be stretched thin for everything, and there will be more and more quarrels. What do you think?
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The end of a man not giving money to his daughter-in-law is that the daughter-in-law will make endless trouble, and will find the man's fault from time to time, and the most terrible thing is that the daughter-in-law may bring up this matter every time she quarrels. Although women can also make money and support themselves, if a man makes money and is not willing to spend money on his wife, it will make his wife unhappy. What a woman cares about is not how much money the man can give herself or how much money he can make, but whether the man is willing to spend money on his daughter-in-law.
If a man doesn't give money to his daughter-in-law, first she will think about why she doesn't spend money on me, and then she will think about what this boy is doing with the money, whether he doesn't love himself and wants to raise other people outside. Women's brains are bigger, they will always think crankily, in order to be able to do less, in order to keep themselves from living in the complaints of their daughter-in-law every day, and want to make their lives happier.
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But can the state's rectification of ** bride price really allow singles to marry wives? Not necessarily. Ah Fu, a 45-year-old bachelor in the village, heard people use fraud to spread fraud, thinking that he could marry a wife without spending a penny, and he was so happy that he danced and shouted:
It's finally time to get off the list. Ah Fu has never worked, he is too lazy to work, only two low bungalows left by his parents, and the hardest job he has ever done is to pick longan from trees. Idle all day long, elementary school culture, daily life depends on the relief of two married sisters.
There are enthusiastic people in the village who helped Ah Fu find a job as a janitor, and Ah Fu glared: "I don't help people to work, not to mention the anger, the salary is still low." "Ah Fu doesn't have the life of Zaochun Li Fugui, but he has a problem of being rich and noble, and no one has helped him find a job since then.
Elderly rural singles like Afu are generally uneducated, not good-looking, of low quality, lazy to eat, no car and no house, etc. This kind of bachelor can't marry a wife even if he gives a bride price. If you don't give a bride price, why should a woman marry you?
Figure your house is ventilated and leaking? Figure you don't take a bath? Figure your northwest wind is sweeter than others?
Of course, the starting point of the eight departments to rectify the bride price is good, to alleviate the problem of difficulty for boys to marry wives. The bride price in some hidden areas is ridiculously high, and there are hundreds of thousands or millions of bride prices at every turn, so that a small number of lovers with two hearts will fly separately in front of the high bride price, and Xiao Lang will be a passerby from then on. If the bride price of the woman's parents is less, it is also a beautiful thing for the lover to finally become a family.
But bride price is a Chinese tradition that has been passed down for thousands of years, and its existence is reasonable. Personally, I think it is reasonable to give some bride price money within the scope of the man's ability. After all, from birth to marriage, the daughter did not grow up drinking the northwest wind, and the woman's parents also paid countless efforts and money, which must be admitted.
The daughter spends money at her parents' house, such as being sick, studying, and so on. finally graduated from college, worked, and made money, but I got married again, and I earned money in my husband's house, and I spent little time with my parents. Therefore, giving a reasonable bride price is a sign of respect for the woman and a reward for the woman's parents for raising his wife.
Excellent boys don't worry about marrying wives at all, and there is even a phenomenon that a family has several men asking for it. There is a boy named Ah Ming in the village, his family background is average, but the young man is filial to his parents, diligent in his work, and has always been a scholar since he was a child, with good looks and figure. In the first year of high school, a female classmate secretly promised him, and the two secretly fell in love, and the school was worried that early love would affect learning, so they invited the parents of both parties to the school to talk.
The woman's father is the director of a bureau in the city, shrewd and capable, and sees that Amin is a "potential stock", with a high probability of rising straight, such an excellent boy, he will be snatched away by other girls if he doesn't get sooner, so he happily praises his daughter for having a boyfriend. Ah Ming's mother saw that the woman was smart, docile and beautiful, and also acquiesced to this last daughter-in-law. So the parents of both sides ostensibly agreed with the teacher's opinion and disagreed with the child's early love, but secretly looked at each other and smiled and called "in-laws".
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I guess so, but it's good if you think it's okay for yourself, after all, it's your own life, regardless of other people's business.
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Ah, it is impossible, and I will not marry even if I die.
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The ratio between men and women is out of balance, and men can't get wives, but it's actually the men who have problems.
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Because men are not handsome enough, not smart, have no money, no car, no house, and no cultivation.
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Not sincere enough, not honest enough,
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