What is it like to feel homeless when you get married?

Sad. How disappointed I am, at least it's comforting to feel his care in the days that only belong to me. Thinking that I would pay attention to all his needs in the months before his birthday, rummaging day and night to find the most suitable needs for him, and now they are all gone after marriage.

I'm also very different from his view of consumption, although he gives me all the money, just keep a little salary for himself, the big money is in my account, I spend money he has no opinion, but he is really too thrifty, unwilling to buy clothes, unwilling to spend money to enjoy, after marriage, except to travel and never go shopping with me, I also bought a good ticket to watch a movie, after watching him continued to play the game, he was very involved in the game, and he was immersed in the game after playing, I felt no sense of home.

It turns out that everyone has this feeling, the life of two people makes them feel lonely and lonely, it is better to be alone when they are chic, and when they are lonely, they find a man to marry themselves, go out to surf, and meet a few new friends.

As the saying goes, "the girl who marries spills the water" gets married, in a sense, it has become its own family, and since then it has become independent. And the in-law's family is a new family that needs to be re-adapted and run-in, in the process of transitioning from their own home to their in-law's life, they need to face it themselves, the run-in is good, and the run-in is not good, that is, the mother's family can't go back to the mother-in-law's house and doesn't want to go back to this situation!

We have been together for two years, married for more than four months, and the honeymoon has returned. I'm the same feeling now, I feel like I'm lonely, and I'm disappointed again and again, and when you're alone, you're lonely and feel like no one cares about you at all.

Same thing. I have been married for more than half a year, and the baby is about to be born in two months. Before I got married, everything was centered on me, and what I liked to eat was the first thing to consider, what I loved to do, as long as he could be as satisfied as possible.

However, for most of the pregnancy, I don't know if it is my hormonal imbalance or if it has really changed. He often snubbed me.

has only been married for a year, and her husband has been lazy to live the life of an old husband and wife. There is no Valentine's Day, no wedding anniversary, and other holidays are skipped, and in the end, I only look forward to a little surprise on my birthday, even if it is his special care and warm greetings on the day, but I didn't wait.

The reason is that there is no balance in this relationship, what women want is care and love, and what men want is understanding and support, so before we don't get enough care and love, we love ourselves a little more, okay.

In the same way, sometimes I also feel that life is like a pool of stagnant water, not in marriage, but in life, and the cycle of life and the other person who has nothing to say to make people want to go crazy.

So what was it like before you got married, does he have someone he likes outside now, find the reason for your love crisis, communicate well, for the sake of home, for love, I believe you will definitely win your love back.

It's been just a month since I got married, and my honeymoon has just come back from abroad, and I quarreled three times outside. After coming back he played his games and I watched my TV. It doesn't feel like being a family.

After a woman gets married and has children, she has a home of her own. In this family, the woman has become the hostess, taking on the responsibilities of the hostess, to spend all her energy and hard work on the struggle for the family, to worry about the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in her own home, to worry about the child's growth, education and learning and other troublesome matters, to plan the development of the family as much as possible, but also to work hard for money, but also to deal with the relationship between husband and wife, if this woman is not a brother demon, generally will feel more and more strange with her mother's family. After getting married, a major event in his life, he formed his own small family.

This is especially true for girls who have grown up with many unfortunate experiences in their original families. They will feel that they finally have a new home of their own, leaving the sight of their parents, without nagging, no discipline, no reprimand, and can start a new chapter in their lives with their husbands, and the vast world is for me to soar. For example, the proportion of school-age girls who hate marriage is significantly higher than that of boys of the same age, which is also due to the extroversion of girls.

Therefore, there will be a saying that women are not left. Girls want to build their small family better, for the careful raising of children, the support of their husbands at work, the careful care of small families, etc. They will feel that only those who manage these things properly and smoothly will not only appear to be capable, but also a credit to themselves.

Girls will feel that they have kept a proper distance like a guest when they return to their parents' home, not far away, not close, and can be cared for by their parents, and given a little help to their siblings to take care of Shenwu Sakura, but these must be based on not harming or hindering the normal life order of their small family. Over time, it's no surprise that strangeness naturally develops. It is said that motherhood is rigid, and after a woman becomes a mother, she naturally spends more time and energy on her children, even if the children are noisy and naughty, and they do not hesitate to break their hearts.

And the parents, brothers and sisters of the mother's family are all adults, and they can take care of themselves, so naturally they don't need any extra care. If there are parents who favor other siblings, or if the parents do not approve of the marriage when they first get married, this kind of situation will become more and more strange to their parents' family after marriage. There is no love without a reason in this world, and there is no hate without a reason.

All love, hatred, and hatred have a reason at their root. Therefore, after girls get married and have children, they become more and more strange with their parents, which has to be analyzed and treated on a case-by-case basis, and cannot be generalized. , After a woman gets married, she should also contact her mother's family a lot, even if she is not doing well, or she is unhappy with her family earlier, as long as she is coquettish with her parents more, it will always ease up.

You must know that your mother's family, your real relatives, will always be your strongest backing. Of course, it cannot be ruled out that some women are heartbroken because of their mother's family. But I also hope that these women can live their current lives, others dislike you and abandon you, while you also have to learn to protect yourself bravely and make yourself stronger and stronger.

Finally, I would like to wish all women a happy marriage and strive to live a good life after marriage. Happy every day.

1.The older generation just needs a simple wedding.

In fact, when I was a child, every time I saw someone else wearing a wedding dress, I would be extremely envious, because I thought the wedding dress was particularly good-looking, and that skirt was the skirt of my dreams. However, there are few such opportunities to experience in our lives, so many times we will think that when we get married, we must wear that dress and marry the person we love the most. But when we grow up, these ideas will slowly change, for the current self, when I get married, I want a simple wedding of Jian Wei Li Yu, because I have seen a lot of people, they are really very hard in the process of marriage, but I am also a very troublesome person, so I think a simple wedding has a ceremony is already very good, there is no need to toss yourself.

2.All friends and family were there.

In this life, there will always be a lot of things that make you regret getting married, for myself, I naturally still hope that all my relatives and friends can be on the scene, but there are some people who can never come, so for when they are still there, I hope to be able to stay with them forever, even if they are married, I also hope that they can see their most beloved daughter wearing the best wedding dress, and stand with his beloved, So every time I think about getting married, I hope that all my relatives can be present to bless me.

Everyone's idea of marriage is different, some people may want their wedding to be grand, some people may want their wedding to be simple, but no matter what, every girl is full of infinite fantasies about marriage.