How to get along with outsiders who like to take advantage of small advantages and don t talk about

Don't be too close to him, such a stingy person who loves to take advantage will not have much success in the future.

Don't expect him to help you with anything.

On the surface, you can get by without hurting the peace.

Let me tell you a story: In the past, in the field, the dormitory was not a local, one of them always felt that others did not treat him as a friend and did not treat others as friends, although the situation at that time could not be too close, but he expressed this idea too directly, everyone four or five people wandered around, and the first cold drink stall he passed by asked loudly: "Do you eat ice cream?"

I don't eat it, you want to eat it and buy it yourself". Everyone glanced at him and walked on; Passing by the second cold drink stall, he asked again, and everyone said they wouldn't eat it, so he bought one and ate it himself. Everyone was speechless, thinking about how to pluck the feathers of the iron rooster;

People in other places may not have an appetite, you and I are the same, so be more understanding.

Truth be told, it's better for this kind of person to have less contact.

Although he is now a colleague, he is also worthy of looking like that?

If it's 10 yuan, I think it's okay. If you don't look down and don't see it, you will see it when you look up.

Ignore him in the future and don't lend him any more money. lest he have to make an inch.

Don't get along or just make it clear.

Xiao Yan confessed it himself, so as not to be hurt and angry.

Big cheap and straightforward to say innocence.

I don't see anyone like that.

1.Rational: Ignore him, go back to your own home, and find your own mother.

2.Qi Polar Type: (to him) I'm not your old man, and this little money is also asking for me?? Look at your slamming face! Call Hanako (known as a beggar) reincarnated?!

3.Patience type: a colleague, look down and don't look up, endure the sea and the sky for a while, endure and endure. Anyway, you just don't have to suffer a big loss.

The above three opinions are for your reference, and I am inclined to do so.

You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people.

You don't have financial contact with him in the future, just find some nice excuses and just pass the time

Break up! No matter how much you give him such a person, he won't give you anything in return! One of my classmates borrowed a lot of money from me and asked me to buy books for him.

The last time we went out together, I saw a hundred yuan and divided half of her. No conscience! He hasn't paid me back until now.

Really! I'm embarrassed to talk about him. Never mention money to him again!

Hurt feelings!

When I asked him to buy it again, I asked him: Hehe, how much salary do you have a month? If he doesn't respond, he'll buy it.

When I bought it again, I asked him: Hehe, how much salary do you have a month? If he doesn't respond, he'll buy it again.

If he doesn't understand it anymore, you can worship him as a teacher. Your colleagues won't even be able to see that.

1: Stay away.

2: Let Ya get out.

Put a cannon into the smoke and give him a taste.

Look at the mood, that kind of person ignores it.

It's normal to meet this kind of person, but it's rare to see someone like your friend:

Smart people will take advantage of you when they do you a little favor, and you are embarrassed to say anything, and you can accept it in your heart. Here's a suggestion for you, a friend.

1.If you still want to continue to get along with him (provided that the other person is not bad in nature and you have a place to coexist in other aspects), this kind of person can give up a little advantage for him to take advantage of without violating the principle, and just turn a blind eye.

2.If you feel that there is no big development prospect with him, it is better to find a reason to "wean" him slowly, so that he realizes that he has violated the principles of being a man, and if you want to get along, you have to pay for each other, otherwise you will go your own way.

This kind of person will not be sincere to people, so it is recommended to slowly distance himself.

Answer: When we make friends with someone who likes to take advantage of small advantages, in order to maintain such a friendship, we should have a more tolerant attitude, so that we can get along with others better.

1. Don't worry about everything.

2. Learn to forgive each other.

For a friend who likes to take advantage of a small advantage, perhaps it is precisely because the other party's family conditions are not very good, and they themselves are not aware of some of the harm caused by taking advantage of themselves, so in such a situation, we should have a forgiving attitude to tolerate each other, so as to be able to better get along with friends. In the past, I also met friends who liked to take advantage of small advantages, and I didn't understand his behavior at the time, but it wasn't until I understood it with my heart that I found out that the other party also had a hard time, so since then I have tried to let myself have a forgiving attitude to treat each other, otherwise the relationship between us will not be as good as it is now.

It is not a shame to take advantage of small advantages, but they know how to be diligent and thrifty and know the hardships of life. When we meet such a kind of friend around us, we must pay more condolences and care for each other, so that it is more conducive for us to get along with others, and I hope everyone can pay attention to it.

Next time, don't bring much money When she borrowed, she said that she just ran out of money, and it was up to her to do what she did.

You might as well be cheeky to talk to her about debts, and you can jokingly tell her...

I also have this kind of friend, this person should not be deeply acquainted, remember!

To be a man, you have to be 7 points shrewd. Don't be too shrewd.

To be a man, we must learn to suffer losses and know how to suffer losses.

Make excuses to shirk, such as if you have money in an urgent need or something like that.

Everyone has strengths, and you can discover them slowly.

How do you get along?..It's hard to put into words.

If you still want to get along, you have to understand and tolerate.

Take advantage of the small advantage.

If you're annoyed, you'll beat her up.

Play a fairy jump.

You are doing this very right, for such a friend, we will stay away from him, not really away from him, but from the heart of her alienation, just get by on the surface. If you stay with such a friend for a long time, you will definitely be breathless. This is a typical example of taking advantage of the situation of not being able to suffer a loss.

At the beginning of the relationship, it seemed very good, but gradually the fox's tail was revealed. Besides, doesn't she usually like to stand on our side, as for this kind of person, you don't have to tell him what kind of benevolence and morality, what kind of tricks to use for what kind of person, you are good to me, I am better to you. If you treat me badly, then I will pay you back double.

Don't associate with such people. Otherwise, it's very tiring, and it's hard to be with such a person without being half popular!

There's nothing wrong with you doing this, it's common to see people like you say in real life. Usually we treat him as a friend, but he takes advantage of us to be sincere and honest. Make him a little careful. In fact, he doesn't necessarily see you as a friend in his heart.

Be cautious when making friends!

I think you're doing the right thing.

Then let him take it. But don't take advantage of the small advantages of private people, and if it's public, you don't have to worry about it. If he wants to take your own possession, you let it go first, and if it keeps going like this, you don't let it. Defend your own interests. Don't be afraid to say no.

If you have learned this kind of person, don't give too many chances, otherwise one day you will find that you have slowly surpassed the bottom line, and it is best to avoid it wisely, and it depends on your understanding.

Then give him a little benefit, these shameless people will become stumbling blocks if they don't be your stepping stones.

It's best to associate with people who love to take advantage of small advantages, because such people are particularly easy to satisfy, easy to get along with, as long as they are happy with him, he will also be very generous.

Borrow twice as much as what you borrowed.

This is also your personality that determines your current situation, you can try to joke and knock on the side to show that you still have some minds, so that the other party feels embarrassed. But if your relationship is good enough, you won't mind, and if you're generous enough, you won't mind giving something to your friends for the sake of friendship.

Then don't do anything with him anymore, he's not a guy who can get things done.

When you have that idea, you're basically not going to be friends!

In the future, when you pay the bill, just pay the bill according to the real AA, you eat 39, put 39 yuan on the table, and put 40 if you don't have change

You don't need to talk much, the little girls who like to take advantage are smart little girls, and she will understand it herself!

If there is nothing wrong with character and morality, then it is better to turn a blind eye to this kind of behavior that wants to take advantage of small advantages. Since you want to get along well, you must be tolerant. Is that right? As a hidden gift for you to make friends, he and you are secretly happy, isn't it?

Since you want to get along, if it's just a little cheap, you naturally have to be more tolerant and turn a blind eye. If you really can't stand it, just talk to him, it's good that he is self-aware, and if he doesn't, try to avoid contact with him.

Learn to protect yourself, lie appropriately, and defend your rights.

Sometimes you can let him go, but you can't let it go when it's a matter of principle.