Is divorce normal in modern society, and is divorce normal in this society?

Now divorced, very normal. It's becoming more and more normal for people to look at divorce, so the divorce rate.

Increasing day by day. Many people divorce as soon as they get married, and they don't regard divorce as a serious matter at all, they not only don't take into account their small family, but also don't take into account the feelings of both parents. Too capricious, too sloppy.

Although the divorce rate is very high now, and there are many divorces, it is not a good phenomenon. There is no need to follow the trend. We still need to treat marriage correctly and choose carefully.

Don't think that divorce is nothing, divorce is a big deal. What if you have a child, this has a very big impact on the child, have you considered the child's feelings?

It's so normal. There is nothing more normal than a divorce. Because today's people, since childhood, have been more self-conscious, they all want others to revolve around them, they all feel that others should serve them, and they all think that they should not be wronged.

If both of them are like this, once the novelty is lost after marriage, they will naturally not be able to achieve harmony and stability, and divorce will be inevitable!

In modern society, divorce is a common phenomenon and can be seen as a normal life experience. With the opening and change of social concepts, people pay more attention to personal happiness and marriage quality, rather than the herd mentality and inherent concepts in the past. Therefore, when there are problems in the marital relationship, many people will choose to divorce in pursuit of a better life.

In addition, with the strengthening of materialization and individualism in society, conflicts and problems in marital relationships are also more likely to arise, leading to the breakdown of many families. However, while divorce is somewhat of a normal life process, the impact on children and society cannot be ignored either. Therefore, we should advocate a healthy concept of marriage, establish a strong family relationship, and avoid family breakdown, so as to maintain social harmony and stability.

Hello. Glad to have your question.

To be honest, in this society now, I think divorce is normal.

Why do you say that, this society is a fast-growing society.

It is a society with many options. With more choices, people will rematch the life they should live. But this match is not necessarily correct. So, there is a situation where divorce is normal, and remarriage is normal.

Hope mine can be helpful to you, thank you.

Let's get a divorce....

There are indeed many more divorces in society now than before, and the self-awareness of the main people has increased. But I think a person should never get married easily, let alone divorce easily. When two people fall in love, as long as the two people are happy, it's fine.

Once you get married, it becomes a responsibility, so don't get married easily if you feel that you can afford it, if you feel that you are still a child, and you have not thought about sharing the burden of life with it.

Of course, don't divorce easily, there are all kinds of problems in marriage, it's normal for you to have problems in your life with a person, don't rush to escape the problem through divorce, but try to grow and solve the problem by yourself. If you change someone, you will also change new problems, and people must continue to grow and learn the ability to solve problems in life.

We should be able to find that the problem of the continuous rise in the divorce rate is by no means a scattered problem of broken families, nor is it a problem of different times and changing concepts, but a problem of diluting the consciousness of family concepts.

Without the concept of family, we have lost the soul of our nation, and this is the essential reason behind the light separation.

Come and go in a hurry, that's going to the toilet. Marriage is not a childhood game, you can not easily get married, but you must not divorce easily after marriage. Easy to leave, to put it simply, shows that you are a coward who fantasizes about tasting all kinds of marital happiness, but is incompetent and does not dare to take any responsibility;

To go deeper, a person who will easily choose to divorce must be a soulless person with a weak family concept.

Be cautious about marriage and give the family a chance; Run your family with your heart and give yourself a chance.

Why don't our parents and previous grandparents talk about divorce lightly, haven't they encountered the trivial matters of the young couple who divorce at every turn in the process of getting along with each other?

No, there are a lot of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar in life, everyone has a family, and there are always ...... things that lead to quarrels between husband and wifeIn short, all the problems that the young couple who are easily divorced now will encounter the older generations, especially in the old era when everything is far behind the modern era, I believe that the problems encountered by each of their couples are only a lot more than the current young people.

So why are the young couples so rash and casual divorce, there are many reasons, what emotional discord, temperament, wrong views, and various family disputes and contradictions are all excuses for divorce, maybe they will have other different divorce excuses, find the excuse that they think is suitable, and then divorce, and chic to say--- since they are not compatible, why force it.

There are thousands of reasons for divorce, in fact, if we peel off the cloak of these divorce excuses, the ultimate reason for divorce is that everyone is unwilling to wronged themselves for the sake of family integrity, either selfishness, lack of courage to face life, or lack of ability to alleviate conflicts.

However, for our parents and previous grandparents, this ultimate reason is precisely the fundamental reason why they will not talk about divorce lightly, no matter when and where, they will always put the family first, in order to maintain a complete family, it does not matter how much the individual is wronged.

Some people say that there is no such thing as an unhappy marriage, only an unhappy couple, and a couple walks into the palace of marriage with an incomparably beautiful vision of marriage, but in the end they are disappointed, so they blame marriage, saying that marriage is the grave of love, but in fact, it is they themselves who are really to blame.

No matter how high the divorce rate rises, as long as it is not 100%, there must be people who are still enjoying their marriage, not suffering in it.

Marriage is not love, not like love, as long as there is wind and snow, it is enough, marriage is realistic, and the problem of firewood, rice, oil and salt needs to be considered.

In fact, this is not only a phenomenon of ours at present, but also a phenomenon of the whole world, because these young people live and understand, and they are unwilling to wronged themselves, unlike the older generation, who have been aggrieved and noisy for a lifetime.

Although stumbling in marriage is common, when it has been accumulated and cannot be resolved, then end it with dignity for each other, which is good for each other.

In today's society, there are too many problems in marriage, such as work money, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, education problems, and some pressure from repayment, etc., these are all real and tense problems.

There is also a third party around you that cannot be ignored, this kind of thing is really too much, usually because of some family trivial disagreements, everyone ended the marriage is really to make other bystanders, feel too sorry, too sorry, everyone feels that the marriage does not involve basic principles of the issue of separation.

When the number of divorces remains high, many people feel incredible, thinking that since they are all married, they should live well, and they should not treat marriage so casually, and it is normal to think about it, the higher the divorce rate, because the times have changed, because people's concepts have changed, everyone is no longer dependent on each other, and they leave your world independently, and I am still my own world.

Depending on the personal and family circumstances, it is recommended not to go through this section if there is no divorce to the extent of divorce. More understanding and tolerance between each other, a hundred years of repair in the same boat, a thousand years of repair to sleep together.

According to a report by the China Institute of Judicial Big Data, 2-7 years after marriage is the most common period for marriage breakdown, and the divorce rate reaches its peak in the first year of marriage. Some of the couples who came to ask for help had a marriage age of 3-4 years, and most of them were in free love and combined, and they had a good emotional foundation. But after marriage, he failed to get through the run-in period, fell into quarrels and cold wars, and consumed his former feelings little by little, and even empathy.

Throughout most marriages, two people don't know much about the skills of emotional management, and they completely follow their instincts to act, so they misunderstand each other and finally push their feelings to the Jedi.

With the Spring Festival in 2023 just after the Spring Festival, some netizens posted information on the short ** platform, and went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to do things on the morning of the seventh day of the first month, but found that it was already a crowded state, and on the first day after the holiday, the divorced people had lined up outside the gate! It is not uncommon for the divorce window to line up after the Spring Festival, just like the divorce tide after the college entrance examination, which makes the divorce window of the Civil Affairs Bureau crowded.

The Chinese New Year will expose many problems in the original family. Many couples have been introduced to each other, have no emotional foundation, and have not been together for a long time, hurriedly enter the marriage hall, and then the three views do not agree to lead to the end of the marriage, and some are free to love, regardless of the men and women who desperately show their advantages before marriage, but after marriage, their nature is revealed without concealing their shortcomings. The accumulation of time and quantity of trivial matters, and the exposure of various problems lead to irreparable contradictions in the relationship between husband and wife.

The Spring Festival is precisely the period of high incidence of contradictions, a bundle of straw fell from the sky, crushing the weak and sick camels, so the Spring Festival has also become a period of high incidence of divorce.

Speaking of which, Nian is really a thing that people love and hate. The Spring Festival period is the most face-saving time for the husband and wife, which may seem like a trivial matter at ordinary times, but at this time, it is easy to magnify and easily have an irritable temper. I always believe that if there is no contradiction between husband and wife, it must be unrealistic, and when there is a conflict, it is the rule to communicate with each other sincerely.

Everyone is busy during the Chinese New Year, as long as you can communicate and discuss in time, you will avoid many contradictions and sequelae, but communication is not to poke each other's hearts and try their best to quarrel, sincere attitude and kind tone are very important. It is not easy to get married, but you can do it and cherish it.

Scholars attribute the rise in divorce rates to factors such as urbanization, economic growth, women and culture. Given the profound impact of the spread of the Internet on modern life, we are very concerned about whether advances in information and communication technologies will affect people's married lives.

A large number of studies have pointed out that marital satisfaction is the main indicator of marital stability. Reduced marital satisfaction may affect fertility decisions, leading to lower fertility rates and a smaller workforce population. In addition, China has a lower divorce rate and a higher level of marital satisfaction than Western societies, mainly because of deep-rooted gender norms and traditional cultures that require women to be submissive and tolerant in marriage, and divorce is often affected.

However, the internet appears to be influencing traditional social norms in China, providing women with more job opportunities and ways to choose a partner, while shaping more modern perceptions of gender roles. The spread of the Internet has brought problems such as media dependence and Internet addiction. When one spouse spends a lot of time in a virtual space, it is difficult to keep their lover company and it makes it more difficult for both parties to communicate intimately.

At the same time, online pornography has gradually become a major threat to the happiness and stability of marriage. Therefore, we hypothesize that social and recreational activities in the network will take away time from partners and lead to a decrease in marital satisfaction. Marriage satisfaction may be particularly low among internet overusers.

Why is the divorce rate so high in modern times? There is a reason for this, because most people in modern times are only children, and they have been pampered by their parents since they were young, and they have developed a selfish and arrogant personality since they were young.

The immaturity of the mind and the "imbeciles" in housework have shattered the beautiful hopes of young couples before marriage, which is one of the important reasons for the soaring divorce rate of our generation.

It is said that it is perfect to see how the other party looks before marriage, but it is different after marriage. The bad habits before marriage will be exposed one by one in the life after marriage, and if they are not corrected, it will lead to serious consequences of marriage change. According to the survey;

The main bad habits of the man are: smoking, drinking, playing games, gambling, and not caring for the family.

The woman's bad habits are: squandering money, shopping, nagging, and playing mahjong.

You can take a look, have you been shot yourself? In fact, as long as it is not too extreme, it can be tolerated, but having said that, it is difficult to do, what do you say?

What contradictions do people of the older generation encounter, they want to endure and pass, but the only children of the younger generation, in the life of children and teenagers, their personalities are self-respecting, and if they disagree, the small volcano will be ignited and erupt, and the hole card of "divorce" will be easily thrown out by both parties.

Nowadays, many people are exposed to more things, and they have their own ideas in their hearts, and some things on the Internet have been affected by such an external influence, so the divorce rate is high.