What are the main reasons why the post 90s generation is single

The reason why the post-90s generation is single: small circle, busy work, and too perfect for love fantasies.

The survey results found that small circles (40%), busy work (15%), and overly perfect love fantasies (12%) are the main reasons for the post-90s to be single. In terms of gender differences, in addition to small circles, the main reasons why men are single are introverts and unsociable (busy at work (and unsatisfactory economic conditions). The main reason why women are single is that they are too perfect for love fantasies (busy with work (and introverted and unsociable).

More than 8 percent of the post-90s are eager to change their single status, and men are more eager to get rid of singles than women.

According to the survey on marriage and love satisfaction, more than 8 percent of single men and women are dissatisfied with their current single status, eager to change, and willing to take action to change the status quo. In terms of gender differences, single men (88%) are more eager to get rid of singles than single women (82%), eager to change the status quo.

Post-90s ways to get rid of singles: introduction by relatives and friends, marriage and love social software, and work contact.

With the development of society, the way to get rid of singles after 90s has become more novel and diverse. According to the survey, relatives and friends introduce and love social software for marriage and love is the mainstream way for post-90s single young people to get rid of singles, followed by work environment contact, blind date activities and pan-social activities. In terms of gender differences, more than half of men are willing to use dating social software, slightly higher than women (, and women are more likely to choose the introduction of relatives and friends (.

From the perspective of educational background, the higher the education level, the more willing to try to use emerging methods such as marriage and love social software to get rid of singles.

Stable income (good parents) (good career prospects) (good friends) and a fulfilling spare time (is the main happiness of single men and women**. It can be seen that the post-90s single youth attach importance to economic independence and are eager to realize their self-worth.

In addition, for the future, achieving economic independence, career development and improving personal skills are the main directions of the post-90s generation. Women are most eager to achieve hard work and financial independence, while men are most eager to achieve career advancement.

The reasons for the post-90s generation themselves are mainly in the following three aspects, one is that the economic ability is not solid, the second is that the working hours are too long, and the third is the psychology of freedom and self-interest.

The first is that the economic capacity is not solid. The post-90s generation has just entered the society, and they have only been working for a few years, and the current employment environment is not good, many post-90s generations are still doing basic work at the grassroots level, taking a meager salary, and there are still problems in supporting themselves, so how to take care of another person? Some people say that they huddle together for warmth, but the reality is that two lonely people dare not get close, for fear of hurting each other.

The second is that the working hours are long and there is no time to fall in love. Now the degree of social involution is beyond imagination, the career of the post-90s generation is on the rise, and it is natural to work hard, many people understand that if you don't do it now, you will have no chance in the future. So I put my heart into work, 996 has become commonplace, and there are even people 007.

Therefore, under such high-intensity work pressure, most post-90s generations simply do not have the time and energy to do other things. When I got home, I just wanted to lie down, and I didn't want to use my phone.

The third is the psychology of freedom and self-interest. The previous generation still had the mentality of living for their children, but today, most of the post-90s ideology has changed greatly, they don't want to live for their spouses and children, and living for themselves is the goal. One more person may lead to discord and a decline in living standards, which is very difficult for the post-90s generation.

The vision is in place, but the strength has not kept up.

There are no conditions for long-term love, and there is no chance of love at first sight.

The people I met were too scumbag, and I lived too clearly.

I am ugly and face controlled, and I don't have money and I can't look down on the poor.

The main reason is that the post-90s generation is too hard, getting up early every day to make money, and has no time to fall in love.

With a male-to-female ratio of 136:100, 10% of men will not be able to marry, and in 2020, there will be 30 million to 35 million singles who cannot marry a daughter-in-law in China.

Small circles (40%), busy work (15%), and overly perfect love fantasies (12%) are the main reasons for the post-90s singles. In terms of gender differences, in addition to small circles, the main reasons why men are single are introverted and unsociable (busy at work (and unsatisfactory economic conditions ().

The main reasons why women are single are that they are too perfect about love fantasies (busy with work (and introverted and socially poor). From the perspective of educational background, the higher the educational background, the more likely it is to be trapped in the problem of mate selection caused by a small life circle and busy work, and the proportion of doctoral people who are too perfect for love fantasies is higher than that of people with other academic qualifications.