Divorce has become a very common phenomenon, how can couples grow old?

If a husband and wife want to grow old, they must establish trust between two people, and they must care about each other's feelings, support each other and accommodate each other.

If husband and wife want to grow old, they should still care about each other's feelings, know how to care about each other, and give each other independent space, so that they can get along easily and without pressure.

If you want to grow old, two people must pay equally in marriage, know how to understand each other, tolerate each other, trust each other, don't blindly take, and have a grateful heart.

They love each other very much in life, and when they encounter things, they can think of each other very well, and they will first think of some of each other's interests.

Be considerate of each other, communicate more, keep the freshness in the marriage, and create more small surprises for each other, so that you can grow old.

Husbands and wives need to trust each other, communicate with each other from time to time, communicate with each other more, not the same as strangers, should have a common goal, two people work in the same direction, support each other, encourage each other, so that they can go further.

If you want to make the husband and wife grow old, you need the husband and wife to have more trust in the relationship, and stay together often, so as not to cause separation between the two places, and not to think about comparing with others.

Husband and wife should have the same three views. And in married life, we must understand each other and tolerate each other. In this way, you can grow old.

If husband and wife want to grow old, they must know how to respect each other, tolerate each other, think more about each other, and give each other a certain amount of space, so that husband and wife will grow old.

Maybe most people will still come to the door before getting married, thinking that two people will love each other forever, but when they are together, they will find that you and her in marriage are really unsatisfactory compared to him when they are in love, and there is a big gap, so this kind of gap will make you gradually feel such feelings, which makes you very depressed and very painful, so in a scum-like situation, if two people can't run in well after marriage and compromise with each other, the relationship between two people can fall apart in a year.

Regarding marriage, many people say: "Marriage is a bent tomb of love, and it is a besieged city." ”

Even if tens of millions of people are ridiculing the drawbacks of marriage, tens of thousands of people rush to enter this "besieged city" every year to pursue their own happiness.

What exactly is marriage? Everyone has their own answers.

No matter how you look at marriage, it is undeniable that marriage needs to be managed, not something that can be achieved overnight, it requires both partners to spend energy, time, and affection to slowly temper it.

It doesn't matter if the two have nothing to say when they are temporarily silent, they are relatively speechless, so they are silent for a while, but lying quietly in each other's arms and being lonely, this is the ultimate manifestation of mutual trust between the two, and it is also the highest level. ”

In fact, nothing can be eternal, including love, even if two people once loved each other, there will be friction after marriage, and they will feel unhappy with each other, but over time they will give up this relationship, but they will not deny that they have loved.

Managing a marriage has always been a difficult subject, and if you want to manage a good marriage with Yanfeng, you must learn how to get along with your other half. After getting married, many people regard their partners as their closest people, or their own accessories, because of their close relationship, they think that they can say whatever they want without fear, and they can ask the other party to compromise for themselves without scruples, change for themselves, and even impose their own thoughts on each other, so all kinds of contradictions arise. In fact, husbands and wives still have to learn to respect each other, they can get along with each other as friends, they must have a little distance from each other, and they must have scruples to reduce friction and contradictions.

1 Treat your partner as a friend, so you know how to respect it betterMany couples forget respect because they have been together for a long time, and always think that the other party is their partner, so they can tolerate and accept themselves unconditionally. Especially when arguing, they will always say some impulsive words to hurt the other party, or in ordinary communication, they do not take into account the dignity of the other party, and use words or actions to belittle the other party. It's not that the relationship is intimate, you can disrespect each other, husband and wife are to know how to respect, if we treat our partner as a friend, we will respect our partner as if we were friends.

Usually when we get along with friends, we will know how to respect, because others are not obliged to indulge themselves unconditionally, and we also know that friends will not tolerate us so much, so we will have scruples. And husband and wife get along the same, always understand that even if you are a partner, you are not obliged to fully tolerate yourself, especially if there is no bottom line, even if the person who loves you again needs dignity. The famous director Ang Lee once had an interview about marriage, and the reporter asked Ang Lee:

You and your wife have been in love for so many years, what do you think is the thing that you have been doing in your marriage and can make your marriage happy all the time? "I think it's respect, and it's important for husband and wife to respect each other.

Because I'm now a father and a husband, that doesn't mean that I automatically get their respect. You still have to earn their respect every day, and if you meet their standards, others will respect you. "Everyone has dignity and needs to be respected, no matter what the relationship is, you must learn to respect others, even if you are facing your partner, you must pay attention to your words or actions, whether they will hurt each other, or whether they will trample on each other's dignity.

Encourage more, understand more, tolerate each other, and work hard for the family.

Remarried couples, if they can't really accept each other's children, are very sad, and this will definitely cause irreconcilable conflicts at some non-specific moment in the future.

Then the child will become a time bomb in the relationship between husband and wife.

Can't accept the call of the front, or unwilling to bear the hardship, these are human nature, but if Yin Jiguo talks about a reason in everything, where does it put the love between husband and wife.

Love, never a good time, how much can you give me for me to enjoy, true love, means that I can feel happy for your happiness, for your happiness to happiness, so that for your hard work and responsibility, there is a willing share, behind is pay.

Its chain is quiet and truly happy, always in the process of giving, and since then there is a special thought.

Therefore, the biggest problem between remarried couples is often the lack of the determination to share a destiny in this life, and such determination is only because of love for each other.

A sentence from non-2. No matter how you choose marriage, the question is whether you can make the wrong mistake.

Learn to empathize and trust each other.