The reporter visited and found that many older men and young men in rural areas find it difficult to

In the process of visiting, the reporter found that there are many older young men in the countryside who have difficulty getting married and growing up, in fact, the reason for this phenomenon is very simple, that is, most of the girls in the rural areas have entered the society and rarely return to their hometowns, and part of the reason is that the cost of marriage is very high, and they can't take out so much money. Marriage is very important for many people, but we must have heard about more men than women in our daily lives. At present, according to the proportion of the population in our country, there will be tens of millions of singles, so today we will take a look at why this phenomenon occurs.

First, the cost of getting married.

Under normal circumstances, there are at least three basic elements needed to get married, that is, the house, the bride price and the living funds after the marriage. Among them, the house has become the biggest expense, after all, in the city, a house at least needs to cost hundreds of thousands of yuan, even if you build a house in your hometown, then it will take hundreds of thousands. In addition, there are some areas where the bride price is still a major item.

At the very least, you need a bride price of about 100,000 yuan. Of course, there are some areas where there are relatively few, but this phenomenon has not yet been resolved. In addition, a part of the start-up capital is required after marriage.

However, because the cost of marriage is relatively large, under normal circumstances, when getting married, the new family almost does not have any property to use. <>

Second, the loss of population.

In the course of this investigation, the reporter mainly visited some rural areas, and the reason why there are many older single young men in these areas is because most of the girls in these areas have already worked in other places, so they can settle in the local area and rarely return. In such a situation, the ratio of men to women is very uneven. As a result, the competition in the marriage market is very fierce, and it is already very difficult to get married.

Third, how do you view such a phenomenon?

In fact, such things happen in every decade. It's just that now, with the development of the Internet, we can see such things, and if you look carefully around you, you can find that there are actually countless such things around you, and it is more difficult to solve such problems. On the one hand, it is necessary to raise its own income level, and on the other hand, it is necessary to emancipate the mind, and at the same time, it is necessary to improve the proportion of the population.

I think the biggest reason is because of the poor economic conditions. Many young people in rural areas go out to work, and those who have the perseverance and enthusiasm can save some money, but some of them cannot persist in returning to their hometowns to work in agriculture, and their income from farming is low, and their family economic conditions are poor.

This phenomenon is caused by poverty, many older young men in rural areas, they have no ability, and their family background is not good, it is difficult to get married, and girls with better conditions will not choose this kind of man to marry at all.

This phenomenon is caused by the small number of women, because there were many people in China who preferred sons over women, resulting in a much smaller number of women than men, and the general conditions of young men in rural areas are relatively poor, and many women are reluctant to marry.

This phenomenon is mainly due to the fact that many young rural women have gone to the cities, and many young rural men are not motivated, so they are not very much valued by young rural women, and the high bride price makes it difficult for them to get married.

With the improvement of people's living standards, the requirements for marriage are getting higher and higher, and many young men in rural areas do not meet the requirements of young women, so it is naturally difficult to get married.

During the reporter's visit, it was found that many older young men in rural areas had difficulty getting married. The reason for this phenomenon is that there is an imbalance between men and women, and there are many girls who are particularly demanding, and it is difficult for boys to meet them.

This is due to the fact that older young men in rural areas live in rural areas all year round, and many rural areas also have the custom of sky-high bride price, which is difficult for ordinary families to afford.

I think the essential reason is that the ratio of men and women in China is seriously imbalanced, and some of it is also caused by economic reasons.

Because the conditions at home are not good. Today's girls are demanding, and the general conditions are not good. I also have the ability to earn money and don't want to take on the responsibilities of a family.

The rest of the rural areas are also mostly male, and girls do not like to stay in the countryside, and after they enter the big city, they want to take root in the big city, so they will naturally choose some better boys. And the girls in the city don't look down on the boys in the countryside, and the countryside is naturally left.

Because the economy of young families in rural areas is average, the cost of marriage is too high, and the bride price alone cannot meet the requirements of the woman.

Nowadays, there are more and more older unmarried young people, which also makes many families very headaches, especially the parents of these older young people, who are very anxious.

Because they hope that these older young people can get married early, but these older young people are the same, they are still single, so many people want to know. Finally, why are you reluctant to date the opposite sex?

In fact, there are many reasons for this phenomenon. First of all, there are some older young people, especially some boys. They want to be better, because only by making them better can they find better people who are more suitable for them.

But we see that in fact, the reason why many people can't get married this year is that they can't get married. Because there are many girls now, they are very realistic, especially in love. They will demand a lot of high demands from boys.

They demand that boys have a car, a house, a good job, a good family. Even if two people are together, they ask the boy to pay a lot. This undoubtedly puts a lot of pressure on boys, and many boys do not meet the requirements of girls.

So they don't have a way to have love.

So we see a lot of older young people. They are not married. It's not that they don't want to have a relationship with each other, and they really can't find a suitable person for themselves.

Therefore, we hope that as young people, we should still return to the essence of love. Only two people can care for each other and love each other. This will make their love sweeter, although material conditions are also very important, but only two people can care for and love each other, so that they can find a suitable person, and only in this way will they be able to truly have their own happy and sweet love.