How can we solve the problem of older men in rural areas not being able to marry wives?

In order to solve the problem of young men in rural areas not being able to marry wives, we must first change the lazy nature of some young men, and those who are diligent do not worry about their wives. In addition, it is necessary to attract investment, so that there are local jobs, and in addition, clean up the rural casinos, which is the most important thing.

If you look up to three generations, you will find that people who have always been single, unless they have disabilities, the rest of the population are relatively lazy. In addition to cheating on marriage, it is difficult for such a man to be a daughter-in-law, even if his parents find a matchmaker, the matchmaker will cherish his feathers and do not want to take such a match. The reason is very simple, today's matchmaker red envelopes are not high, and matchmakers don't want to pit other people's daughters.

Let's talk about careers, if the young men left behind, if they don't have their own careers, they don't even have a small job, so how can they talk about marrying a daughter-in-law? If there are no jobs in the area, why not kick out the older young men and find their own partners? There are very few men who are willing to go out to work and earn money, and there are very few people who can beat singles, because they know that they can only be liked by people if they work hard.

If you are not willing to struggle, a man who is not willing to work, to be honest, if you can't marry, you can't marry, such a gene is inherited, and it will also drag down the next generation.

Let's talk about the problem of rural casinos, in the current countryside, no matter where it is, there are large and small casinos, as large as small squares to open tables, small to a circle around the commissary, mahjong is already a small game, like part of the "three publics", "bullfighting", "fried golden flowers" or something endless, since ancient times there are no winners in casinos, such a trend is not removed, and what to talk about marrying a wife and having children?

To solve the problem that older men in rural areas can't marry wives, the first thing to solve is that they can have the ability to support their families, marrying a daughter-in-law is not to ask young women and young men to support each other, rely on each other, and everyone live a good life together, rather than blindly asking women to stay behind, marrying people in the village to accurately alleviate poverty, young women go out to work, changing their horizons, men still don't want to forge ahead, then they can't marry a wife, they can only say that they deserve it.

There are not so many girls who hate the poor and love the rich, as long as you are willing to work and work hard, there are many girls who are willing to accompany you to rent a house and get married naked; However, you eat and wait for death every day, you don't want to work, you want a girl to support you, give you a baby, laundry and cook, you think it's beautiful!

The excessively high bride price was criticized, and many localities began to strengthen management. This is also a good thing for some rural families with poor economic conditions. We also believe that with continuous rectification, the difficulty of marrying a wife will be greatly eased.

In red and white ceremonies, extravagance and waste are also a very bad atmosphere, and we must vigorously rectify them. In some backward rural areas, people have the old idea of preference for sons over women, and they will vigorously propagate the idea of equality between men and women in these areas.

First of all, we should improve the construction of infrastructure, and then we should also hold more blind dates, and then we should change people's thinking, and we should also narrow the gap between the rich and the poor.

The current situation in the countryside is too poor, and there are no women willing to marry, and the women in the countryside are far away from their poor hometowns. All the boys can't get a wife.

The imbalance between men and women is also one of the reasons, and now many of the post-90s and post-00s are unmarried and don't want to get married at all.