-
It's up to you what you think.
Everyone is born like a blank slate, and if you take every unpleasant experience as a stain, then life will be painful.
On the contrary, you treat him as a stroke on the canvas of your life, allowing you to gain insight and knowledge. You'll be a lot happier.
The freehand of the work is different. What exactly does your painting look like? Which stroke is the most important, in fact, you can't see it until the end.
Therefore, regard those unsatisfactory as a process of your learning, as a strong stroke. Perhaps, years later, you will find out when you look back at this painting. It turned out that experience was so useful.
Finally, let me tell you that people can only grow in adversity, and all good times are just an opportunity or even a trap.
-
Growth is a process that everyone must go through, and it can be said that the bitterness is greater than the sweetness. Maybe we don't want to admit it, and we don't want to admit that we have grown up, but, helplessly, heartache, who can say that going through these has not affected us in the slightest?!As we say, there are two sides to everything, and nothing can be one-sided.
In the face of growth, you should face it positively, and if you only feel the bitterness, then maybe you won't be able to feel the sweetness.
-
Face it bravely, experience the joys and troubles of growing up, you have such an opportunity in your life.
-
Because there are a lot of worries, I can't do what I want to do, or I can't do it.
-
You're growing up but you're still early, and you'll understand that reality is more than just helplessness
-
I have experienced a lot, right and wrong, everything is changing、、、 the only thing that remains constant is that it is always changing. Helplessness is inevitable. I want to open a point.
-
People always have to grow. What should be faced still has to be faced, and there is no escape from escaping. When things are at the worst they will mend.
-
Go with the flow and face reality with optimism.
-
Vent, watch horror movies, ride a roller coaster, anyway, how to let you vent, how to do (don't sin).
-
It's people who come this way, and they can only face it, what can they do...
-
Live like a dog, and if you can't stand it, you will die early and be reincarnated!
-
How old are you? Nabs. Is it experiencing too much, such as love, family affection, or school.
-
Go out and have fun
-
Think less and look at the blue sky more
-
It would have been, yes, what's the solution.
The older you get, the more lonely you get.
The song is also good.
-
Hehe, what specific questions do you have, but everyone has them.
What's the problem?
-
You can consider going somewhere else and maybe you'll find something different.
It's not for work, it's just to distract and decompress. Sissy.
People are getting more and more lonely, get used to this loneliness can become mature, friendship is no longer a simple friendship, family will no longer treat you as a child, there are male (female) friends, when you are busy with work, you don't have time to accompany you, and you will quarrel. Sometimes you really have to get rid of pressure, you can have a good talk with your girlfriend, just talk about your heart, and if your girlfriend is still the same as before, you can consider whether to choose another candidate.
Life still has to go on, but in a different way.
-
When the mood is at a low point, everything will not go well, think about those people in the ** flood, in fact, we are already very lucky, or you can give yourself a vacation, go on a trip, do public welfare, and let yourself have a sense of superiority. I suggest you persevere, nothing is so easy, hard work can be sweet.
-
Yes and so do I am. I just graduated and I was even more confused. I followed my boyfriend to Beijing, and I looked for a job, but he still hasn't looked for it.
I don't think about my feelings How hard it is to go to work every day He also plays games and watches TV series in his room every night How can I sleep well Last night in the middle of the night he watched TV and talked to himself to wake me up, very angry He actually said I deserved it. I cried all night under the quilt, and the more I thought about it, the more aggrieved I became. My eyes are still swollen and I don't want to go to work.
Just suffer a little, and give me back my anger. I don't know if one day I won't be able to stand it and have the courage to leave him. Annoyed that.
-
You should find a partner who cares about you, silently supports you, and has a common language with you to support you, there is a good saying: behind every successful man there is a woman who silently supports him.
-
Although we are no longer young, 24 years old is indeed the best time in life, and decisions at this age will be particularly important for our lives.
If you are a career-oriented person, I suggest that you stick to it, and if it really doesn't work, find another way.
If you are a lifestyle type, then you just follow your heart, as long as you feel that it is okay.
-
Find a confidant. A person who understands himself, a person who understands himself.
-
The pace of growth has arrived, and the growing pains have also followed, which can make people shrouded in melancholy all day long. In fact, growth is a joyful and exciting thing, which not only represents the integration and improvement of life, but also another interpretation and transformation of life. Young friends who are in the rebellious period, on the one hand, feel that they have grown up and can be independent
On the one hand, they still need to rely on their parents to live. Psychologically, I want to be independent, and I want to be attached to my parents.
This dilemma causes physical and mental hesitation and anxiety.
I hope that we can withstand the "attack" of all troubles and learn to grow healthily in troubles and helplessness!!
-
When you grow up, you will miss the beauty of your childhood.
-
If life is only as first seen, what is the west wind sad fan?
Waiting for idle changes but old people's hearts, but old people's hearts are changeable.
Lishan said that it was half of the night, and the night rain and rain did not complain.
How is it like a thin brocade cloth, and the wings and branches are wishing on the day.
Microwave has hatred and eventually returns to the sea, and the bright moon is ruthless but goes to the sky.
I looked at Wu Hook, and the railing was patted all over, no one would, and I was on the verge of it.
Xiaolou had another east wind last night, so the country could not look back at the bright moon
Who would have expected in this life, the heart is in the Tianshan Mountains, and the body is old in Cangzhou.
Lin Hua thanked Chunhong too hurriedly and helplessly came to the cold rain and the wind at night
Rouge tears, leaving people drunk, when is it heavy, since people grow and hate water Changdong.
At that time, the bright moon was there, and it was back from the clouds.
Once the sea was difficult to water, except for Wushan, it is not a cloud.
A trip to the mountain, a trip to the water, and a trip to the side of Yuguan. Thousands of tent lights in the middle of the night.
The wind is more, the snow is more, and the dream of the broken hometown cannot be realized. There was no such sound in the old garden.
How to reminisce about this situation, but it was already clear at the time.
This past year should be a good day and a good time, even if there are thousands of styles, who to say?
If you want to put your heart into Yaoqin, there are few bosom friends, and who will listen to the broken strings.
-
The beautiful scenery of the good day is not a day.
Both Yu and He Shengliang.
-
In fact, to be honest, there are many things in the world that cannot be answered, and even if you know everything, you are helpless. Maybe only when we are the farthest away, can we see the days that have passed the most clearly, perhaps, when we have some of our own wishes can not be achieved, we will feel a kind of sigh, perhaps, when we see others everything as they wish, there will be a kind of envy, a kind of helplessness, I also want to work hard, I want to succeed, I have tried all my strength, but I can only be helpless, or still standing still, a kind of helplessness, but also just discouraged、、、 helplessness of life, maybe never need to remember, but, Never forget, those who can't choose the origin, helpless forgetting, inexplicable loneliness, other people's ridicule, incorrigible likes, people who have left you, eternal past, passing time, inevitable death, and so on, perhaps, this is life. I absolutely experienced this tiredness, but also experienced this helplessness, there is not much to say, I hope everything will be okay!
Perhaps, an ordinary life is enough. Whoever can understand others will be able to save others, and whoever will be able to save themselves, although the reality is cruel, but we still have to face it. I just want to live a more exciting life, live a happier life, and be happier forever.
-
When I was younger, I had the same thoughts as you do now, and I cried many times. My mother asked me what was wrong, but I wouldn't say. Always bless my mom and dad with me in my heart to be together forever and live forever.
I even made a lot of wishes on my birthday. It's sad to think about it now. All good things come to an end.
Anything is the same for anyone. So, please think about opening points. You know, death doesn't mean disappearing.
As long as we keep it in our hearts, it will be as if they are still with us. (I don't know if you believe in souls, but I do.) There is life before there is death, and if there is death, there should be eternity (in my opinion, the soul).
Eternity has always been the goal of people, and since this is the case, we should not only grieve for their loss, but also receive eternal and silent blessings for them. Hope it helps you and sincerely bless you, my friend.
Everyone doesn't want to grow up, because they know too much when they grow up, and they are not as innocent as they were carefree when they were young, but there must be a process of growing up in the process of growing up, which is also a fact that cannot be changed...So we had to bear it silently, although we left our childhood, but we should be happy with a good memory, right??
The hardest thing to keep medium is to grasp the scale. It also depends on the situation, for example, when you are in love, the impulse is more emotional than rational, and when you are quiet, people are often more rational than emotional. Let's look at what is happening at the moment, people cannot be emotional for a long time, nor can they be rational for a long time.
Because there is no strength to support the head, most of the muscles of the group are in a relaxed state when sleeping, so the head will be lowered. However, when the head is lowered, a large amount of blood rushes to the brain, and at the same time, it compresses the blood vessels, so it raises its head again, and it forms a little bit of appearance.
Bask in the sun and exercise more, have muscles and a strong physique, show healthy color, be decisive, responsible, do this, you are a mature and attractive man, the appearance is natural, but the acquired by making up for it, you can also make yourself attractive and manly. Bless the landlord!
There's no need to fight back, others can say whatever they like, there's no need to mind this.