As a parent, how can you teach your child not to bully others or be bullied by others?

Children will be bullied anywhere, and when this happens, parents don't know what to do, and they are afraid of feet when educating their children. Fear of solving the inadequacy will leave a shadow on the child's mind, and the fear of solving the mistake will make the child develop in the opposite direction. All parents don't want their children to be bullied.

The way parents are educated differently is also different. Some parents keep their children away from "bear children", and some parents say "hit again" to their children. No matter what kind of education method, first of all, let the child protect himself as much as possible in life, many parents do not seek their children's opinions and ideas for the sake of so-called face and upbringing, but tolerate their children.

Doing so can cause a lot of harm to the child. Even children can't say "no" when they grow up, and they won't refuse others, so how can they not be bullied!

No matter what happens, as long as it concerns the child, parents should ask their children for their opinions and respect their ideas. Especially when some familiar children play together, they don't discuss with their children, don't get their children's permission, give their children things casually, and don't play with them, and can't make their own decisions. This is a great disrespect to children.

If parents make decisions on their own, children will have no sense of self-protection over time. Because when their thoughts and feelings are ignored, they will gradually hide their inner thoughts, and they will not be able to fight for anything, and they will not be able to say "no".

When a child encounters bullying, parents should appease their child's feelings for the first time and make them feel that this is a safe port to rely on. Some children are bullied, and parents will tell their children that they will hit you again. Even labeling children as "garbage" and "cowardly", some parents pass on the mistake to their children.

I think that a clever analysis of children being bullied is provoking others. The child has been wronged, and the relationship has not been guided by the parents, but has been more wronged, can the child gain a sense of security? When they are bullied again, they will choose to suffer silently and will not tell their parents.

Some parents' thoughts may be partial, after the child is bullied outside, tell the parents what happened, the parents let the children ignore them, watch them walk away, and tell the children to never cause trouble. Let children reduce bullying If parents are conservative, timid, and bullied, children do not know how to defend their rights, do not fight back with words or actions, blindly endure and hide, and their personalities will also become fragile and vulnerable to more harm. When a child is bullied or treated unfairly, the attitude of parents is important.

Don't let the parents' thoughts mislead the children, lose their rights while being insecure, and become a pitiful worm that everyone can deceive.

It is necessary to cultivate children's correct awareness of prevention, establish children's relationship with others, and warn children not to be afraid of things, not to cause trouble casually, not to be honest, and to be bold.

You should teach your children that it is not good to bully others, but don't be bullied by others, because you are too weak.

You can tell your child that when you are bullied, you must fight back, and you must not bully others.

There are many parents who are very afraid that their children like to bully other classmates when they go to school, which will not only make the relationship between classmates very stiff, but also make the child develop a bad habit. So, how do you fix this?

We must tell our children that when someone bullies you, you must tell the teachers, parents and the police in time. Because you are being bullied at school, the most direct way to say this is to tell the teacher, and after telling the teacher, the teacher will contact the parents. Mom and Dad will also come to help you in time, don't be afraid, if you are afraid, others will bully you more seriously.

If the child is being bullied outside of school, you must let the child contact the police in time.

We usually have to tell children that they can solve any problems with words, and if they can't solve them, they can tell teachers and parents, and they can solve problems. But don't be violent to others, otherwise, it will also lead to a very awkward relationship with each other, and it will also make the teacher feel very angry. Fighting is the most emotionally hurtful thing, and many people will make their relationship with each other very stiff after passing the fight.

If we want our children to develop a character that is not panicked and can solve problems, then we must encourage our children more, so that children know that they have been wronged and that there are people behind them to help them. But if we don't want our children to be very short-tempered, it is recommended that parents know how to let their children handle things properly. We should always tell our children that violence will not solve the problem, violence will only make the problem worse, and it is not your fault, if it is solved by violence, it will become your fault.

Teach children to learn to respect others, so that children will not bully others casually, and at the same time, they should also tell children to resist bravely when they are bullied by others, so that children will not be bullied by others.

Children should be educated, they must have their own personality, so that children can get along well with other children, but they must dare to resist when others bully him.

This problem we should often educate children at home, not to bully others, not to bully people for no reason, but also not to be bullied by others, if there are others bullying you, then you must report to the teacher, if those classmates are bullied arbitrarily, then we must learn to resist.

First of all, we should set up a correct visit for children, and we should actively guide children, improve children's ability to discriminate, let children protect themselves, and improve children's awareness of self-protection.

It should be made clear to children that the relationship with classmates should be solidarity and mutual assistance, should not be full of hostility, and should get along with each other sincerely, and making friends is a lifelong treasure.

Establish a correct set of values, encourage children, make children become very confident, communicate more with children when they encounter problems, and understand their children's state.

Parents can teach their children to live peacefully with their classmates at school and to respect them.

How to teach children so that they will not be bullied?

Teach your child to say "no". In life, most children are kind and caring, like to help others, smart and sensible, and do not refuse other people's requests. When they are in kindergarten, they don't want to hurt the harmony of their friends, so they choose to endure it when they are faced with other children's unreasonable demands or being bullied by other children.

But long-term tolerance and long-term inaction will make those children who love to bully gain an inch, and the children who are bullied will become more cowardly and more silent. It can be seen that parents should educate their children in time to refuse so that they dare to show their attitude in bullying.

Teach children to judge each other's true intentions, and when children play together, they will inevitably have conflicts and disputes. If a child is being bullied, sometimes, sometimes the other person does not mean it, but there are many times when other children do it on purpose. So mothers can't be complacent.

When mothers usually take their children out, if they find that their children are in conflict with other children, parents should guide their children to think about what is careless, and should be tolerant and understanding; Those are deliberate provocations that require a clear attitude, a reasonable response, and let the child know.

Help children build a sense of self-protection and understand self-protection, so that children are less likely to be bullied by others after leaving their parents. For example, when someone hits you, know how to behave in your own way, shout for help, and seek help from an adult instead of panicking. Tell children not to trust strangers, not to repeatedly tolerate the bullying of others, to know how to protect themselves, protect their personal safety, and safeguard their legitimate rights and interests.

Guide children to establish a sense of helpSometimes, children alone cannot solve the problem. If others are bullying too much and your child can't stop after trying hard, you should seek help from parents and teachers in time. If you can't tell your teacher at school, ask your parents for help when you get home.

After all, the children are too young and have too little experience. There are many things they don't experience with, especially when they're being bullied. Without the guidance and help of parents, it is difficult for children to solve it on their own.

Especially when a child encounters bullying of a bad nature, it is likely to happen if you don't tell the adult in time. Therefore, parents should guide their children to establish a sense of help, and seek help from their parents in time when they encounter things that cannot be solved.

Tell your parents that your child's heart is fragile, if the child is bullied by others, there will inevitably be a grievance and sadness in my heart, feel nervous, even so, parents should guide their children to communicate with them, listen to the child's deepest thoughts, help the child think, guide the child to think about ways to solve the problem, step by step to bring the child out of the haze in the heart. Communicate more with parents, parents' life experience of children will help children solve difficulties, and will also let children vent their bad emotions.

Parents should set a rule for the child, should tell the child what is right and what is wrong, when the child encounters grievances, let the child learn to fight back in front of the stove, and do not always hit the child's self-confidence and heart, should communicate with the child more so as to avoid the child being bullied.

Let the child be very confident, but also let the child be very courageous, at this time do not hit the child's self-confidence, let the child have the courage to resist.

Parents should let their children learn to deal with some problems, make him strong, and don't be submissive, because people who are submissive will always be bullied.

Hwan is a taciturn child who is very humble in life, does not know how to refuse others, and is even a little timid and afraid. In fact, before having fun, there is a smart, sensible, lively and cheerful little boy with whom his friends love to play. But once, he had an argument with his classmate Sissi in the game, Sissi's personality was more impulsive, he hit Jubilant, snatched Jubilant's toy, and felt that Jubilant hit someone wrong, so he didn't fight back.

When he got home, he told his mother about it aggrievedly. Mom is busy with work and is very anxious.

Just said a few painless words to happiness, and Huanxi's heart was very aggrieved. After that, he was reluctant to tell his mother when others bullied him or encountered any difficulties. It's just a person who silently hides things in his heart.

More and more become a good object in the eyes of the classmates who "can't fight back", today Xiaosi borrowed the pen and didn't pay it back, yesterday the little eyes let Huanxi write his homework, Hao snatched his toys, Huanxi felt uncomfortable, more and more cowardly, scared, in the eyes of others to store bags and if parents don't want their children to be bullied like jubilant, they should teach their children this kind of thing. Teach children to know how to refuse, in life, most children are very kind, loving, like to help others, and are also very smart and sensible, and do not know how to refuse the requirements of others.

When he was in kindergarten, he decided to be patient when he didn't want to hurt the harmony between his friends when he was faced with other children's unreasonable requests or being bullied by other children. But long-term concessions, long-term bullying and cheating, make the child who likes to bully others become a hillbilly, and the bullied child becomes more vulnerable and silent. Therefore, parents should teach their children to say no in time so that they can show their attitude when their children are being bullied.

Teach children to judge each other's true intentions. If children play and play together, conflicts and quarrels are bound to occur. If a child is being bullied, sometimes the other person does not mean it, but many times it is the other child who does it intentionally.

So moms can't take it lightly.

Usually, when a mother takes her child out, if she finds that the child has a conflict with other children, parents should guide the child to think about what carelessness is, and to be tolerant and understanding. They are deliberate provocations that require a clear attitude, a reasonable counterattack, and a few degrees in the child's heart. The child does not want to pinch with a gentle persimmon, parents can teach him this, he will not be bullied again, help children establish a sense of self-protection, know that after self-protection, children are not easy to be bullied by others after leaving their parents.

For example, when someone hits you, show your attitude, shout for help, and seek help from adults instead of panicking.

First of all, you must give your child enough love, so that your parents will stand behind you no matter what happens, so when you encounter others bullying you, you must be brave, and you must also protect yourself, you can ask for help from parents or teachers.

You should tell your children that you must report your flaws, and if others bully you, you should bully you back, instead of being wronged silently.

This is sometimes a matter of luck. If there is a little bully in a class, it is inevitable that he will be bullied. Traditionally, not to be bullied by classmates, the ultimate approach is for children to learn some martial arts, taekwondo or a certain sport, so that they can be physically strong or flexible, and can fight against bully classmates.

Secondly, you should have good friends in the class, and generally people with good popularity will not be bullied because they have friends to help. If the child is more introverted, he should also have a good friend, and it is better to have friends than to be alone. Secondly, you must have characteristics, or study well, or draw well, in short, have strengths that people like, which will also make people gain friends.

In fact, generally speaking, the one who is bullied has an aura, and some children are particularly easy to be bullied, because his behavior and expression read: Come and bully me, I am harmless. What kind of children are prone to being bullied?

The kind of low self-esteem, and the kind of children who are very spoiled at home, but have no ability, therefore, parents must first respect their children and let them have self-esteem, and second, they must cultivate their children's abilities, and they can't let their children cry and find parents and teachers when they encounter something.

What should I do if I am bullied by my classmates? If you can't beat it, you can call it and be with your good friends. Or put on an open-minded posture to fight with bully classmates, no matter whether you win or lose, ordinary people dare not provoke it. If the bullying is too bad, sometimes parents can also come forward.