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Landlord: You're too worried... Anyway, how many people dare to say that they are the best in some way? What is really your strength?
You're not a wasted person I just think you're not confident enough,,, you care too much about what others say, care so much about him, you're yourself, others look down on you, you can look down on others, since you think yourself: your head is not stupid, there are some things that I understand faster than anyone else, and I understand better than anyone else, so why bother so much? Also, it may be that the environment affects you, but you can't fix yourself in a certain position, people are constantly changing, hehe, maybe years later, if you look at your post, it will feel different!
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Even if you have something you like, you have to stick to it, to insist on making something, and long-term love does not only refer to the relationship between men and women.
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Don't think about it so much.
Talk to your friends, do more, try not to think about it, and I'm sure you'll be fine.
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What you lack is faith. Believe in yourself, I can do it! Now you also need to strengthen your exercise, go out of social exercise, and after you come out, you will know and know what you want and what to do to benefit yourself.
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You say that you don't have advantages and strengths, in fact, how can there be so many people who have advantages and strengths, usually communicate more with family and friends, and slowly your personality will improve.
How many people in this society do the jobs they like, most successful people gradually like their jobs, and then you won't feel like a wasted person.
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It should be remembered that our cause requires hands, not mouths.
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You may be confused and frustrated with yourself, but believe that everyone has their own value and potential. Let me help you rethink in a human way and show the value you have.
Where does your value come from?
Everyone has unique qualities and characteristics, and these are where your values lie. Don't easily deny your own values, but find and develop them. Consider the following questions:
What are you good at? What skills and talents are available?
What are your personality traits? For example, kindness, patience, honesty, etc.
How have your experiences and stories shaped your perceptions and values?
How much influence do you have on others? Does it make a positive difference or inspire others?
What makes you unique.
Everyone is unique and has different experiences and backgrounds. That's what makes you unique. No one can have the exact same qualities and experiences as you. It's this uniqueness that sets you apart and makes a unique contribution to the world.
Your past, present, and future are all unique, whether it's your accomplishments, challenges, or goals. Cherish this uniqueness and make it your value.
The power to get out of the situation.
When you face a difficult situation, don't get depressed or blame yourself. Learn to learn from it and find solutions to problems. Difficulties may be temporary, while the skills and tenacity you learn will stay with you for the rest of your life.
Explore your potential.
Now it's time to start exploring and developing your potential. Here are some suggestions:
Set goals: Think about what you want to achieve and make a plan to reach them. Goals can be personal, professional, or academic.
Play to your strengths: Discover your strengths and use them to the fullest. Learn what you are good at and apply it to your daily life and career.
Don't forget that value isn't just about external recognition or accomplishments, it's about the impact you have on yourself and others.
Summary. You are not a worthless waste, you are unique and have your own value and potential. Explore what makes you unique, stay positive in the face of adversity, develop your skills and strengths, and seek support and growth.
Your journey in life has just begun, believe in yourself, believe in your worth, and you will discover your own light.
In fact, like the landlord, I am also a very conceited person, and my parents' worldview and outlook on life are indeed unacceptable to us post-80s. But the road was walked by itself, not laid by the parents. I think the landlord should also try to find a few close friends, and then spit out the things he is depressed with them. >>>More
I used to have low self-esteem too. It was learning that saved me. Knowledge should change fate. >>>More
Learn to communicate with people, just like learning to walk, you try more, pluck up the courage, talk about some interesting topics with friends you want to date, after a long time, you will be friends, bless you!
I'll digress from the topic. After reading what you wrote, it reminds me of a chapter in "Daintellen's Bookshelf". The story is about a group of children who get the book of wisdom, a fantasy book, and stay in the house every day without going to class. >>>More
Hehe, first of all, congratulations, people who fall in love are the happiest! My wife is also two years older than me, we have been married for a year, we have not thought about the question of age, today I saw your topic, look back, the difference of two years, in fact, it has nothing to do with it, the key is, how much do you care about each other? Age is like the rings of a tree, just a symbol, there are too many unreasonable "laws" in this world, why do young people in the new era have so many ideas? >>>More