How to be a cultured and kind person who is not a bully?

What a person needs to do if he wants to be educated and not be angry because of this is to find a "degree", in a word, that is, to have a principle, and this principle is given by himself. A person's heart is best known to you, and you should clearly know what kind of person you should be. Then, set principles for yourself:

When and how to deal with people. Once someone else exceeds the bottom line of your upbringing, then there is no need for you to tolerate this person too much for the sake of your own upbringing. Otherwise, it will only fuel the momentum of others.

It is not wrong for people to maintain a good heart, but not everyone is good and there is no bottom line, if you have no bottom line, they have no principles, and when goodness loses its principles, it promotes evil. You can be tolerant and you can be kind, but remember: there is no limit to evil.

Although it is very cheesy, I still have to say: your kindness must be a little sharp. It is not wrong for people to maintain a good heart, but not everyone is good and there is no bottom line, if you have no bottom line, they have no principles, and when goodness loses its principles, it promotes evil.

Adhere to the principle and keep the bottom line. In fact, it is usually necessary to be educated and polite, but when something happens, it is necessary to be tough and scolded, such as me, what is it like in front of acquaintances, not to mention for the time being, in front of parents and strangers, I have always been quiet and educated, but once I encounter something that I can't bear, I will show my nature.

If you want to be kind and tough, you must be decent, do things decently and generously, and don't do things that damage the face of others! As long as you remember one sentence, since ancient times, evil does not suppress the good, even if he temporarily overpowers the good, it will not last long. Kindness itself represents justice and light, and justice itself is a powerful force.

In today's society, there are a lot of people who take your humility as weak, even if it is for themselves it is also used to pinch the "soft persimmon", because this will make your things go very smoothly, I personally believe that upbringing and kindness are different from person to person, and different people deal with things, choose different attitudes, there may be different harvests, so as not to let their upbringing be ruthlessly trampled.

Learn to say no first. Don't be a rotten good person who does everything. Within the scope of ability, I still have time, and on the premise of not delaying anything, I will help.

No one can tell whether this will help or not, and you have to control it yourself. No one can explain this degree. There is a quantity, a degree, and a bottom line.

I remember that I used to hear the elders say a sentence: Reach out and don't hit the smiley bag. It is to teach us to be a kind person.

This sentence is reasonable, treat the unkindness of others with a tolerant heart, and they will respect you. If you want to be a cultured and kind person, then go ahead, stick to the bottom line of your heart, and you will be feared by others.

Parenting comes from the nobility of the soul, maintaining one's own purity and nobility is an indispensable condition for upbringing, and at this time, if others infringe on your noble thoughts, your consciousness will tell you how to do it, and fight against the bullying of others with a righteous spirit.

Most cultured people will find fault with each other's statements, and they can actually go back directly. In fact, don't think that if you do this, this character will collapse, in fact, it doesn't matter if you occasionally make a harmless joke. You can go and watch Teresa Teng's concert**, she is a good talker, but sometimes she will refute it slightly.

I'm a lot like you. But in a psychology class, I reluctantly learned a truth: self-centeredness. Yes, I later reflected on the answer.

From your text to express copy, insert a lot of bai people's opinions and cause emotional waves. I think.

zhi is not that your friends think you are good dao bully, but that you are extreme to cover up your strengths. And the desire to control can also cause you to have mood swings, know that humans are independent thinking animals. You say a lot of things and say that others are not, and you don't see self-examination.

Everyone is an individual, so it's impossible to just circle around you. Think differently about everything and self-examine. Even if you are a sincere friend, you are moody in the eyes of others.

When people get along with others, don't get angry if it's not serious. Even if a friend is grossly negligent. And point out to their faces that they are not, not scold.

Establish a good image, and others will naturally respect you.