What is there that makes the figure of a father suddenly taller in front of you?

When I graduated from junior high school, I euphemistically expressed to my dad that I wanted a mobile phone. I didn't expect him to take me to buy one without saying a word, and the moment I got the new phone, I felt that he was a special "man", and he was simply my idol.

It's my father, when he worked hard for his career, I thought he was very tall.

When I was a child, I was sick and forced to go to school, and suddenly my father walked into the school and gave me a hot egg, and now I think about my father's background and I feel really tall.

As a father, first of all, he must set an example, and he must not swear in front of his children, let alone beat and scold his children. When the child encounters difficulties, the father should be patient enough to help the child and work with the child to come up with a solution, and the child will be impressed by the father.

My father and I went to buy shoes, and when we saw the donation box, my father put 100 yuan in it, and his image immediately became tall.

My father's image in my mind was to carry me to the hospital when I was sick.

The neighbor's grandfather was sick and hospitalized and lacked money, so his father took the initiative to lend them money.

When there was a sudden change in my family, my mother kept crying beside me, and my father didn't say anything, and then continued to work silently, and then withstood all the burdens of the family.

When I was choosing a school, my father gave me some guiding advice, which made me feel that he was very objective in analyzing the current situation.

When I was discussing marriage, I suddenly felt that my father's influence had become higher, and all my father's intentions were for my own good, and he thought about the problem very comprehensively.

When I went out to play with him, I met those poor people who asked for food, and my father did not dislike them like the others, but respected them and asked them and gave them some money.

When I had nothing to rely on for life, my father woke me up with a blow to the head. I was drunk and full of hope, and I thought he was very tall.

When I was young, when I was bullied by children outside, my father would help me bully me back. This incident made my father's figure suddenly taller in front of me.

When I was a child, I had a fever in the middle of the night, and the nearby outpatient clinics were closed, but my father suddenly picked me up and went to the hospital.

Once I saw a bug screaming in my room, and then my father immediately ran to my side and grabbed the bug, I felt very brave, and I felt that my father's image was very tall.

1. Deeply influenced by ancient Chinese traditional thought, the father is the head of the family, has absolute authority in the family, and is high above, and there is an unequal relationship with the son;

2. Many fathers behave very majesticly and believe in stick education, and their children feel afraid and automatically alienated;

3. The father is the son's first idol, and the son's growth almost must go through the painful process of the collapse of the idol;

4. The father is easily tormented by a kind of spear and brother blocking the shield, on the one hand, he hopes that his son will become a dragon, hoping that his son will be better than himself, and on the other hand, he has a secret vigilance and panic, afraid that his son will despise himself because of this. He became more and more rigid because of his inferiority, and used offense to defend himself, and the common ** was to repeatedly state the grace of parenting, forcing his son to be grateful to him for everything he has today and in the future;

5. There is little communication between father and son, the father is not good at expressing his love for his child, and the son is afraid of the majesty of the father, which leads to the lack of emotional communication between father and son;

6. In modern society, most mothers take care of their children at home, and fathers go out to work to support the family, and the long-term separation makes the son unable to feel the love of his father and has a kind of complaining psychology towards his father.

Because from childhood to adulthood, fathers have been responsible for protecting and educating children, so they are tall images in the hearts of children.