Is it that the easier it is to get, the less you know how to cherish it?

Please take a look at this story, I hope it will be inspired Once upon a time, a farmer went up the mountain to chop wood, and found a crane with beautiful silver feathers that was injured, so the farmer took him home and helped the crane heal its wounds, the crane can sing, the song is graceful and charming, the farmer loves to listen to it, and the happiest thing for him at the end of the day is to listen to the crane sing a few times. Later, Yinhe's injuries were almost healed, and he began to be able to fly. One evening, when the farmer was going down the mountain to go home, he suddenly saw a golden crane in the sky, its feathers were more beautiful than those of the silver crane, and its song seemed to be better than that of the silver crane.

But in a blink of an eye, it was gone. Since that time, the farmer has been thinking about the golden crane every day, and he has begun to ignore it, and gradually he has become disgusted with it, and in his heart, the golden crane is the most beautiful bird in the world. Silvercrane also sensed the farmer's coldness towards it, and it couldn't stand it anymore and decided to leave.

At dusk, after singing the last song for the farmer, the farmer looked up at the sky, and the crane's feathers turned golden in the light of the yellow light, and he realized that the golden bird he had been thinking about day and night was actually beside him, but the crane would never return.

The harder it is to get it, the more precious it is. The easier it is to get it, the less it feels worthless.

When Yuan Mei lent Huang Shengshu, he said: You can't read books unless you borrow them! Only by knowing the difficulty of borrowing books can we know that books are not easy to come by, and will we cherish books more and cherish the opportunity to read.

Only the harder it is to get something, the more it will be cherished!

Have you ever had such an experience?

I liked a book very much, hesitated for a long time, and finally bought it, and then put it away, and I haven't read it yet. I always feel that it is already in my own hands, and I can read it at any time. There's plenty of time to read.

And a book I borrowed from a friend, I was afraid that Min didn't know when I would have to take it back, so I couldn't wait to start reading it when I got it, and I finished reading it in a day or two.

In fact, in this way, he has not read the books that he should have read a long time ago. Look at the stacks of books on the shelves. When others are surprised to say:

Wow, you have a lot of books, you love to learn! In fact, only I knew the weakness of my heart at the moment, and silently changed the topic.

Sometimes, what you already have, you don't necessarily really have. It's like a book. The most important thing about a book is not its substance, but its contents.

When you buy a book, you buy a physical body, and you only have the shell of the book, but you don't have its soul. And it is precisely the soul that counts.

The harder to get, the more cherished. Therefore, we should establish an appropriate sense of worry. It's like borrowing a book and worrying that a friend will come to pick it up at any time.

This kind of worry can appropriately urge ourselves to make the most of this hard-won bridge as soon as possible, turn it into our own content, and enrich ourselves.

So, we don't have to be in a hurry to make what we like our own. Because, after it is too easy to get, it is not easy to cherish, but it will miss some things and leave some regrets in front of it.

The harder it is to get, the more cherished.

Therefore, when we encounter a request on the way forward, we do not need to be discouraged. Because, that tells us just that it is worth cherishing.

All the effort is worth it.

Many girls have a wrong idea, they think that the easier it is to get the affection, the less boys will cherish it, so they always like to drag boys, and never easily agree to boys' pursuits, even if it is a boy they like.

Unfortunately, the more girls are like this, the less likely it is to get true feelings. Good boys are dignified, and after being rejected by you once or twice, they will give up the pursuit with interest. Only those shameless scumbags will die and beg for nothing and not let go.

Junichi Watanabe mentioned in the book "This Thing for Men": The sooner a man pursues the woman he likes, the sooner he agrees, the more happy and cherished the man will be, and the more he does not respond to the fighter's staring, the man will automatically leave when he loses patience and self-confidence.

Why do many boys stop chasing halfway through? It's not because they're playing with their desires, it's that they can't bear the pain of their self-esteem and self-confidence being trampled on again and again.

When a sincere boy pursues a girl, he often doesn't have too many routines, and is very straightforward and impulsive, after all, his inner love can't be hidden.

At this time, if the girl can release her affection for him and keep approaching him to encourage him, then the boy will easily fall in love. Don't underestimate the infatuation of boys, especially boys who are in love for the first time, and are really attached to feelings.

On the contrary, if a girl always avoids the boy who likes her, ignores that boy, and always flirts with other boys, then it won't be long before that boy dies and may degenerate into a scumbag.

The easier it is to get, the less you will cherish it, there is some truth to this saying, but it is not necessarily true. Especially in the emotional and spiritual realm, the more difficult it is to empty and obtain, the more indifferent it will be.

For example, a child who really wants his father to take him to the movies will inevitably become discouraged and depressed after being rudely rejected by his father several times.

Even if the father finally changed his mind and agreed to take him to the movies, the child lost his initial excitement and desire and felt bored.

Meaning, don't feel like you can easily achieve anything, everything in life requires you to put in the effort, and those gifts that are too easy to get will eventually have to pay a high price.

In Austrian writer Stefan Zweig's "The Beheaded Queen", the 14-year-old Austrian princess Marie Antoinette marries the 16-year-old French prince Louis Auguste.

In the biography he wrote to her, Zweig mentioned her luxurious life in her early years, and was extremely emotional: "At that time she was too young to know all the gifts given by fate, and she had already secretly marked **".