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During the Qing Dynasty, the common people lived a hard life, and the social status of women was not high, many women would be pawned to marry, and the poor would rent their wives to others to give birth to children for others in order to obtain money to live, and pass on the family line for others.
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Pawn wife, the so-called pawn wife is to sell his wife, pawn and pawn will sign a pawn marriage book, pawn marriage is not allowed to go home during the pawn marriage, and no children are allowed to be seen.
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The Qing Dynasty is the closest dynasty to us, what if the people in this dynasty are too poor to marry a wife? According to the records of the books, there is a way, but it is too inhumane!
This method is "pawn wife", pawn everyone may know the meaning of pawn, so is pawn wife selling his wife? Yes, you are not mistaken, in those days, if you could not afford to marry a wife, you could rent a wife with someone else, and there were two kinds of pawn wives, one was a long-term one-shot deal, and the other was a short-term deal!
The long-term business is to sell his wife directly to this poor man, maybe everyone has doubts, how can you buy someone else's daughter-in-law when you can't afford to marry a daughter-in-law? In fact, marrying and buying are different**, in ancient times, if it was 20 yuan to marry a daughter-in-law, then it may only be 1 yuan to buy! So you can see how big this ** gap is!
In the short term, they sell their wives to the poor and give them back after giving birth to them! At that time, women were really not treated as human beings, and were directly traded as goods, but now our times have progressed too much! But this kind of trading is openly forbidden!
However, the people of the entire dynasty are too poor, and this problem cannot be solved at all without solving the root problem!
There is also a kind of group of people from poor families, and then go to other places to rob! However, the mortality rate of this method is too high, maybe 5 people go, but when they come back, only 1 person returns! After all, if other villages find out, they will definitely call people to arrest them!
If they all come back and grab the number of women is not enough, then they can only take turns to have children, this year in my family, next year to other families to give birth, until they are all born, you may ask who the last woman belongs to? In fact, no one will belong, if these families are all born, there is a high probability that the body can't bear to die, if it doesn't die, then it will be "pawned"!
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If they are lucky, they can pick up a baby girl on the road, so that the baby girl can be a child bride for the poor.
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They usually go to those brothels in Qinglou, and then let them give birth to their own children and then give them some money, and then send them away.
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This method is pawn marriage, that is, pawn wife, which means lease marriage.
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It is that a person who has a wife rents his wife to a person who does not have a wife, and then charges a certain commission and returns it regularly, and women can be said to have no dignity at this time.
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Marriage canonization, this practice is actually against morality, and at the same time, it also makes people feel that there is no lower limit.
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They used this method. Modern people can't accept it at all, and they can buy and sell wives. In ancient times, for those men who did not want to marry a wife and have children.
It will be looked down upon, and it will also be blamed by the elderly in the family. But from ancient times to the present, marrying a wife and starting a family have one thing in common, that is, the bride price is indispensable. Then, in the ancient feudal period, those poor people couldn't afford to marry wives, and you might not believe it when you say it, let alone accept it.
In ancient times, those poor people who could not afford to marry wives had a deformed method. In order to solve the problem of inheritance, that is, the marriage period, which first originated in the Han Dynasty. It was not until the Qing Dynasty that it became popular, and in layman's terms, it was to buy a wife with valuable things in one's own home.
After giving birth to a child, it will be returned to the family, which is called a point marriage. Such a way of the ancients is incomprehensible to us today, and it is even more difficult for modern people to accept. In ancient China, the status of women was not high, so if the poor really had no money.
Some poor people lack money, so they rent their wives for a short time to people who have not married and had children because they are also poor. When his wife gave birth to her husband's child, she took him home again. In the eyes of the ancients, it was better to do this than to have no descendants yourself.
The incense broke the wall, but after all, such a thing was really too immoral, so it came to the Yuan Dynasty. The imperial court issued a law prohibiting such behavior. It is clearly defined as an offence for such acts.
However, in the Ming Dynasty, pawn marriages began to flourish again, and this lease system began to be protected by law, and both parties had to write a contract. The contract clearly states the details of the period, the time limit, the ownership of the child, etc. The woman who went out could not return to her former co-driver before the contract seven nights, nor could she go home to take care of the children.
To be able to do this is really beyond our comprehension and acceptance in modern times. And this bad habit guided the Qing Dynasty to still exist, but fortunately, after the founding of New China, this feudal bad habit completely disappeared.
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They would marry a married woman, or spend money to buy someone to pass on the lineage, and in ancient times there were many bad customs for the poor to pass on the lineage.
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They will adopt a child in their own clan, they will also adopt a child, and they will also rent a wife to have children to help them carry on the lineage.
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Find someone to help give birth to a child, so that you have to give some money, the child is your own, and the woman doesn't want it. It's a very simple way to trade relationships.
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They will adopt children that others don't want, or they will pass on from their families, or they will adopt orphans, so that they can pass on the lineage.
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What other way can there be to find a widow, in the late Qing Dynasty, the only woman that the poor could find was a widow, and there was nothing to worry about in order to pass on the lineage.
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In ancient times, if a woman did not marry when she reached the age of marriage, it was tantamount to a crime, not only she was punished, but her family would also be affected. In ancient times, singles were more blessed, and they were not afraid of not marrying a daughter-in-law, and the court would find a way to solve it for them.
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They came up with a way to pawn their wives to carry on their ancestry, that is, to rent wives from equally poor families to bear children for themselves, a vice that was still very popular in the Manchu Qing Dynasty.
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That is, the man raises a child, the woman raises a child, they don't need a bride price, and they live separately, that is, they want to share the pressure and have children.
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They came up with the method of pawning wives to pass on the lineage, that is, to rent the wives of the same poor people to bear children for themselves, and this vice has caused many women miserable.
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In ancient times, the poor had no money and could not marry a wife, so they rented a daughter-in-law, which was called a pawn wife. After the rented wife gave birth to a child for him, he was able to return to his original family.
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You can use the method of pawning a wife to pass on the lineage, that is, renting a wife from the same poor family to have children, of course, the rent is much lower than the cost of marrying a wife.
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In fact, if the poor can marry a daughter-in-law, they will marry, and if they can't marry, they will be extinct, and the poor will basically not live for three generations
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They came up with the trick of borrowing wives, that is, spending money to borrow other people's wives to carry on the lineage.
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They came up with some tricks of pawning wives, that is, renting wives from the same poor families to carry on the family lineage for themselves, which was much cheaper than marrying a wife.
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Pawn wife! It is to rent out their wives to others to sleep, we know that ancient people paid great attention to inheritance, and sometimes they would write that they would not come back until they had children.
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They passed on the lineage by pawning their wives, spending very little money to rent wives from the same poor families to give birth to their own children.
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Generally, poor people like this can't afford to marry a wife, and they will choose to inherit the family lineage.
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