Friends, I m about to break up, and my heart hurts like I ve been stripped of my flesh, what should

Now it may be useless for you to pester him, if you really still care about him, take practical actions, start with some heart-warming bits, such as cooking him delicious meals for him to eat, or hand-made gifts for him, in short, start from caring about the details of his life, but when you do these things, let him feel that you are doing it without asking for anything in return, in this way, if he still loves you, he will naturally think of your goodness, if you do a lot of things and still can't move him, give up!There is a song called "There is a love called letting go", let him go when the time is right, let him go and let yourself go!

Then don't keep talking about breakups!It's okay to be coquettish!

Let it go, kid, sad is for sure, you know what?I used to commit suicide in order to break up, and my scared family peed my pants, but now I'm fine, I have more love for me, I care about me, dear, it's okay, contact more with friends, and then accept other boys, go singing and playing together, you just get used to it, not love, whoever leaves can do it.

First love is beautiful, but it's also hard to be together. Later you will feel ridiculous now.

You're a good boy with love and righteousness, you know?Such a girl is loved, and a good boy is loved.

I don't think there's any point in you begging him to fall in love like this Besides, you have a big problem Why do you keep talking about breaking up when you have nothing to do This is the most taboo between couples.

At this moment, I can understand your feelings very well Friend, because I suffered as much as you not so long ago, I also had the experience of being betrayed, so there are a few things I want to say to you, Women are really hard to guess, sometimes they don't understand how men feel, whether what your friend says is true or not, but now you have to be prepared to break up at any time, you know"What's yours is yours, and what's not yours isn't yours"This sentence.

No one can stand a woman betraying her, but if you think you still love her, go for it, because I'm fighting for it right now, so that we can have a clear conscience

It shows that your relationship is still not solid, such an unreliable love, even if she does not go abroad, after you get married, she may change her mind. So you are a blessing in disguise. It's not a bad thing to be able to recognize a person and a relationship before you have much to lose.

Helpless... Alas!.. Goodbye. Is it necessary to say goodbye? Wishing you happiness!

Separate the two places. Something that can't be helped. After all, you are not the only man in the world.

Of course, you can also think of it this way: she is not the only woman in the world. Find another one.

You be strong, the reality is always cruel, my boyfriend proposed to break up before he went abroad, my heart is like being cut by a knife, I don't know how long this pain will last.

You're so pathetic, you've been tricked by your girlfriend enough. If I were to avoid her right away, get rid of her as soon as possible.

Such a girlfriend!!

Brother let it be and give her up.

There's no grass at the end of the world, isn't it?

You have the ability, you are in China, she is abroad, you are in a combination of spirit and body, what is there to say! If you have the ability, you can also find a white girl.

Abroad.. Domestic.

This one.. It's helpless, I can't help it.

Do you also have today? I think you already have the answer in mind.

It's a dream that will always wake up The love affair between the two places is perfect, but it is very realistic and cruel. Let go of yourself and look back, and you will find that there are others.

If you had $1 million and took out a wad and slapped her in the face, she would laugh at you. She went abroad, why didn't you. If you change positions, you'll dump her too, I'm sure.

Kill her.

Give it to me before you kill her.

Be realistic, brother, what are you still doing with others when you go abroad, people who go abroad will change their thinking, there are very few people who don't forget their roots, you are still so naïve, if you want me to say that you don't lose that knife.

I'm a woman, and if I were you: give up.

If you love him, forgive her!! Don't love 88!!

Love requires both parties to work together and pay together, so that they will be rewarded accordingly! Although I read your statement, I still can't be sure how far your previous love has been.

I think that if I were that girl, the first thing I would think about was how to convince the people in my family to accept you, on the other hand, I also had to make some specific actions to support you, you worked hard, just like my boyfriend, he was really working hard for the future, he spent all his spare time studying, I was by his side, doing all the trivial things for him, very hard, but I was willing, two people want to be together, the most important thing is to plan for the future, superior economy, What is given to us can only be temporary.

There is no banquet in the world that will not be dispersed As a man, you have to adapt.

Your question has been answered, you are still so confused, if what they say is true, just buy a house, if you can't afford it, you can work hard, so many people buy why you can't afford it, think about what you should do, and when you buy a house, she may change her mind, and if you change your mind, you don't need to be nostalgic, if you don't change your mind, you have a house, it will be a matter of course. When you have a house, she doesn't want you, and there are many people who want you. It's a fart to be in this pain, what men want is to pursue and struggle, and crying will only make others look down on you more, understand?

Go for it! I really can't keep it and I won't regret it, it mainly depends on her attitude, the family is just an excuse, if she really loves you, she won't care about this. On the contrary, it's not worth it!

First of all, your girlfriend still loves you very much, but it is difficult to choose between you and his family.

Secondly, I don't know which city you are going to school and working in now, and your efforts can be seen from your income.

Find a way to convince his family, after all, two people will live together in the future, whether you have the money to buy a house now is secondary, your ability is the main thing, and you will work hard together in the future, I believe you will live a good life.

But sometimes, the family's obstruction will make you very painful, the key depends on his attitude, I think she will do more work for his family than you will do work for his family.

In fact, some words seem to be a little naïve and irresponsible, that is, two people should not be afraid of the obstruction of their families when they are together, this is a selfish statement, which will bring pain to your girlfriend, even if you are married and together, the attitude of his parents towards you must also be a pimple between you, so don't be hard-hitting, handle the relationship between you and his parents well, after all, to be together in the future, not just two people's affairs, you love her so much, but also love her parents, Think about it from the perspective of his parents, aren't they still afraid that their daughter will have a bad life if they stop it like this? If you want to be very happy, your parents will naturally agree! Go for it!

Cheer up!

I think that if the girl still agrees, there shouldn't be much of a problem on the family's side.

You can talk to their family members first, tell you about your love and your own stories, and your struggles during college. If it really doesn't work, you just make a down payment first, and then the two of you work together.

You think about one thing every day, are you annoying? After thinking about it, isn't it still like this, the meaning is already very clear, her family wants you to buy a house in the city, so you might as well make more money now, save as much as you can, and work hard at home, or take out a loan, and ensure that your girlfriend follows you with all her heart, and it's all right.

It's rare to buy a house that you can pay for all at once, and that's what you've saved up for a lifetime, whether it's in the city or in the countryside.

Why can't two people work together to buy a house, now that housing prices are so high, your salary is already good, but it's still not enough for a house. I feel like I've seen something similar in many idol dramas, you and her should be strong and have perseverance, since your parents can't accept it, then you have to insist on it until you know and agree.

Love without hardships is not love, since you love each other, then be brave and strive for your happiness, I support you!

Do whatever you want, if you want to redeem, you can bravely redeem it, in this life, you only have one chance to hold her hand, and if you miss it, you will never see it again, support you.

In fact, it also depends on the attitude of your girlfriend, if she is resolute and with you, I think her family can't do anything, besides, happiness is not something that can be given by a house, you can show them sincerity, I believe that people's hearts are made of meat, and they will definitely be able to move some people in their family, the most important thing is that the will of the two of you must be firm, so that no one or any difficulty can separate you.

If you can't let go, love boldly, and don't let yourself live in regrets.

Little brother, don't divide it. This girl is good. It's reliable to live with her for the rest of your life. Two people who truly love each other, and to finally come together, the Lord has to face many tests. If you don't experience wind and rain, how can you see a rainbow. Don't hold back, don't give up.

Scumbag! Don't hesitate to break up because you're pregnant, this kind of man is too scumbag, knock out the child, take care of it, don't be too emotional, don't suffer from the cold.

You must go and get rid of the child, such a boyfriend, if you give birth to the child in the future, maybe he will throw you and the child away.

It is recommended to beat the child, it is not your fault that you meet such a low-level boyfriend, even if you use other means to get your boyfriend to marry you, you may not be happy in the future.

First figure out why you want to break up, if it is because some problems are not communicated well, then communicate with the child first, if you don't want to be responsible, or just beat the child.

Beat the child, don't want this kind of scumbag, although the child is very pitiful, but there is no way to do it, even if he is really born, the father is not responsible, and the child's life will be very miserable.

I think you should agree to break up with him, because there is no need to keep this kind of scumbag, and you will definitely meet a better man.

It's okay to break up with him directly, and then don't give this child to him, let him regret it for the rest of his life.

If the other person doesn't love you anymore, then break up. If you have the ability to raise the child and are reluctant to have the child, you can give birth to the child. If you can't accept this child, then give up.

In this case, let's break up directly, and don't keep such an irresponsible boy. As for the child, if your financial situation allows, you can still consider giving birth to him.

1.Give yourself a farewell ceremony.

Many relationships end too sloppy with each other.

Haven't said goodbye properly, and this often becomes a knot in each other's hearts. At this time, if you are stuck in such pain, you might as well arrange a farewell ceremony for yourself.

You can choose to write down all the emotions and thoughts you want to talk to them in the letter, and then put the letter in the envelope and burn it.

You can also meditate, imagine yourself facing them, and say what you want to say to them, what you want to say goodbye, and say them seriously.

Of course, you can indeed ask them out and have another chat with them, but it may be difficult for you.

In short, when you give yourself a closing ritual, you will find that the stones in your heart are slowly unloaded.

2.You have to give yourself permission to express your thoughts and sorrows.

When many people break up, they will always say to themselves: don't cry, crying means that you have lost; You can't think about it, it's useless to think about it anyway.

We tend to suppress our true feelings and try to make ourselves look fine, but in fact our inner feelings will not disappear because of this, and we will look for opportunities to express them from time to time.

Therefore, what we have to do is not to find ways to make ourselves forget each other. It's about allowing me to break up for whatever reason, no matter what kind of emotion I have for him now, I can cry, I can be sad, and I can miss it.

Only if you have made enough of the tears you want to shed and enough of the thoughts you want to express, one day you will naturally feel that everything is over and it's time to start again.

3.Tell if you can't let it go, or if you're unwilling.

Sometimes, it's not that you really can't let go of your ex, but the way you break up makes you very unwilling. You may question, is it that I am not good enough, why do you not love me enough, why do you fall in love with someone worse than me?

In short, this reluctance to admit that he lost forced himself to refuse to let go, and he must find evidence to prove that the other party really loved you, and he really regretted it after the breakup, so he felt satisfied.

At this time, you have to ask yourself, do I really love him? Or am I just angry and want to prove something?

Any proof at this time is meaningless. Because the relationship is over, you have no way to verify it, and everything is just a drama in your heart.