Boys who have no money, no house, and no car are very humble

Updated on society 2024-07-27
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    In a word, there is no money, and most children in ordinary families have no money, no house or car.

    I will say two points: first, be confident, full of hope for the future, and not feel humble because you don't have a house or a car, and you may have a mansion in the future.

    Second, you said that such a problem shows that the heart is very anxious, most modern people are anxious, afraid of losing, and afraid of not getting, which is the biggest obstacle on the road to progress. Like Confucius Yan Hui is hidden in the city, it is rare to see people who eat pot pulp, so it is said that life is to be peaceful, and the mind is fixed, and if you don't get anything for a while, you won't get it in the future, and if you train your skills, you will naturally succeed unexpectedly.

    Third, it is necessary to summarize and reflect, find out the subjective and objective reasons for the lack of money, and prescribe the right medicine.

    I'm still a student, and I'm often worried about the future, and this is what I came to after reading a lot of books, Confucianism says that self-cultivation and Qi family rule the country and level the world, that is, people's careers are gradual. If you are not confident, think about Liu Bang when he was young, he was a rag-skinned, and he did not create the Han Dynasty for 300 years. I think you must have been born better than theirs.

    I advise you, a boy, to train a hard heart and read more books.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I also feel the same way, marrying a daughter-in-law, it is better to directly say that buying a daughter-in-law is real, these years, they only recognize money, and I am also contradictory now, I am about to give gift money, give more, that is the hard-earned money of my parents, give less, and my mother-in-law will give her face.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's the same for everyone...Your sixty is not worth it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's only a matter of time before you have to be self-motivated.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Not necessarily, as long as you are self-motivated, not everyone is a rich second generation, hoping that you will find the right person.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Singing when you get it, and resting when you lose it, and being sentimental and hateful is also leisurely.

    There is wine today, drunk today, and tomorrow is sad, and tomorrow is worried.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't feel humbled, it's only a matter of time before you have a motivated heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The girl, his father-in-law told him, trying to buy a house at the age of 35. As for us in China, it feels like if a man can't afford to buy a house when he gets married, he is unproductive, and I dare to ask how many people can afford a house and a car within 6 years of working, so now the standard for girls in our country to choose a mate is actually looking for a father-in-law with a successful career.

    I said mine, it's your business to accept it or not, after all, only you know what kind of happiness you need.

    If you think mine is good, just me! Thank you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Shaolin Temple! Places worth visiting.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No house, no car, and poor are a common phenomenon of the general public. But that doesn't excuse others from looking down on you!

    First of all, if you are still young, as long as you work hard, these material conditions will be achieved slowly.

    I'm afraid that some people, even if they are poor, they should be poor, they are right, they don't work hard at all, and they have to live a mixed life every day, so they are easy to be looked down upon!

    As long as you work your own, no one will look down on you, and the poor may have a lower starting point than the rich, but this cannot be a reason for you to stand still and stagnate.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you don't have a house or a car and are poor, you are likely to be looked down upon by others. Especially for boys, these things are a sign of whether a person is very successful in their struggle, and if these aspects are poor, it is indeed very stressful. However, no matter how much pressure there is, we must work hard step by step, and hard work can change the status quo.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No house, no car, poor, and looked down upon? Nowadays, the living conditions are relatively rich, some have a relatively low salary income, and the work income is small, and there is no house or car, which many normal people do not have, and will not be looked down upon by others, I feel that I will work hard and will have a car and a house in the future. I'm afraid that if you don't work hard, be lazy, and be ko-ko by others, you will be looked down upon by others.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Not having a house or a car is not necessarily looked down upon. It's good if people are not poor, and if they are still poor, they don't care what others think of them, and concentrate on doing their own things. It would be better.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    How do you say this? It depends on the quality of the personIn this society, some people will look down on you because they don't have a house or a car, and some people won't.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's normal, now many people don't have a car, no house, no shame.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    As long as you work hard, the opportunity is reserved for those who are prepared.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Opinions are someone else's, and if you can't change others, you can only change yourself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you see someone else having a house and a car, why don't you go and see how others do it to have a house and a car?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then no woman wants to follow you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    proves that he didn't work hard in the first half of his life, and he didn't fight hard

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is estimated that it is difficult to find good objects.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then it's time to redouble your efforts.

    In fact, in the world, there can never be perfect people and things, everyone, there are shortcomings that you don't know, it's just that people show themselves in the eyes of others, they are all advantages, and shortcomings are only deeply buried in the heart.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't want to, I never believe that love without bread can last long.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I am willing to marry, as long as I love each other and there is nothing, we can fight together to get it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    As long as the two truly love each other, I will be willing to marry, but this man must be able to endure hardships, be down-to-earth, and work hard, I believe that everything will be fine!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    A man is not measured by a house or a car. It is virtue and talent. Morality first.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    As long as it is true love, there is nothing that cannot be married. When it comes to marriage, affection is the most important thing. As long as he is wholeheartedly good to you. Money is something outside of the body. Emotional intelligence is the most important thing.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If it is a man's upright and positive character, brave to assume family responsibilities and obligations, respect the old and love the young, and love his wife more, such a person is trustworthy and trustworthy.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you don't have it, you don't want to get married, and people who have the ability can basically have a little money.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The most important thing is affection, if I really love each other, I will choose to marry him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You want you to work hard enough to be diligent and motivated, and everything is fine. Those who will choose will choose talents, and those who will not choose will choose family wealth.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    See if he is a hard-working person and has the confidence to make you live a good life!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I'm a man, I don't think I'll get married, as long as a man is willing to work hard, he can save some money more or less, unless he is used to spending money lavishly.

    When you get married, you have to face more than just the sadness of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

    There are also all kinds of problems in life, his family, your family, marriage, housing, children, etc.

    To put it bluntly, ask your heart, do you like him?

    Does he like you too, is he good enough for you?

    If he can only earn 100 yuan, how much is he willing to spend on you, whether he is frugal or not, and willing to give you the best.

    I think if you are really good to a person, there will always be a receipt, at least you have someone who truly loves you. No matter how difficult the days are, as long as you feel that you can get through it, then there will definitely be a good life.

    If the person you want to marry is not good to you, and you have no money or a house, it is recommended that you separate as soon as possible and do not delay yourself.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It doesn't matter if you are poor, what matters is not to work hard, not to work, and not to get something for nothing.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It doesn't matter if you want it or not, you don't regret it if you get married.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The most important thing is to see if he is motivated.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Summary. Hello dear and happy to answer for you. Qinqin inquired for you that the conditions of boys who don't have a car or a house are still relatively poor, right?

    Kiss, most people nowadays don't have a car or a house. Look at a person not by the appearance, but by the essence and the development potential. Maybe now that the hidden dragon is in the abyss, there will be a flying dragon in the sky.

    The poverty and wealth of the family are not necessarily measured by the RV, the main thing is whether he wants to start his own business. No house or car does not mean that the family background is not good, and now people's concepts and quality are not very low. In fact, this is not the case when looking at the car, in our real life, as long as the family is harmonious and healthy.

    It's the best family situation. The others are one person and one eye, and there will be bread for milk. In the future, everything will be obtained as long as it is obtained in the struggle.

    The above is all my reply, I hope it can help you, I wish you a happy life

    Now the conditions of boys who don't have a car or a house are still relatively poor, right?

    Recently, I chased a boy, who looked good, but he didn't have a car or a house, and he said he didn't have an eye for me!! I didn't like this fairy!

    Hello dear and happy to answer for you. Qinqin inquired for you that the conditions of boys who don't have a car or a house are still relatively poor, right? Kiss, most people nowadays don't have a car or a house.

    Look at a person not by the appearance, but by the essence and the development potential. Maybe now that the hidden dragon is in the abyss, there will be a flying dragon in the sky. The poverty and wealth of the family are not necessarily measured by the RV, the main thing is whether he wants to start his own business.

    No house or car does not mean that the family background is not good, and now people's concepts and quality are not very low. In fact, this is not the case when looking at the car, in our real life, as long as the family is harmonious and healthy. It's the best family situation.

    The others are one person and one eye, and there will be bread for milk. In the future, everything will be obtained as long as it is obtained in the struggle. The above is all my reply, I hope it can help you, I wish you a happy life

    He doesn't have a car or a house, his parents are from the countryside, and he has an older brother, with him, the house and car are enough for him to get a lifetime!

    He is an ordinary county civil servant.

    Kiss, it depends on how you think about it.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    No house and no car does not necessarily mean that there is no sense of happiness, and everyone's happiness is based on their own values and behavior, not necessarily to have a house and a car, I think the sense of happiness is more than their own expectations for the future, as well as the sense of security in the current life.

    Everyone's circumstances are different, and they may have different views on happiness, just like most people may think that having a house and a car, and then having a stable job should be good, and they should live a happier life, but often the sense of happiness is more than the ** Some people and things around them or the handling of feelings. Personally, I think that happiness should first be based on my own sense of security, and only when I have a safe living environment will there be a foundation for happiness. For example, if you have a stable job, the benefits of the company are also good, you have a certain degree of salary increase every year, or you have a small achievement in your work, you also play well in your position, and you can also get promoted in your rank, then these are all guarantees from happiness.

    Second, there is a good interpersonal environment. For example, in the work, you can get the assistance of colleagues, you can also get the appreciation of the leader, and in terms of family life, your wife or the elderly in the family are more concerned about yourself, especially the wife and the elderly in the family get along more harmoniously, so in fact, as a person, that is the source of happiness. Especially when people reach middle age, if they don't handle all kinds of relationships well, they often can't talk about happiness at all, and even feel stressed, and if the family has a harmonious family environment, then their motivation to work will be more sufficient.

    Third, the basis of happiness is to have unlimited expectations and yearning for the future. It is precisely with a good family environment that you can have less worries and distractions in your work, so that you can have greater motivation and play a greater role in your work, and your own value can be relatively recognized.

    Therefore, the basis of happiness is not necessarily material abundance, but more from the emotional and some expectations for the future, feeling that the future can be expected to be motivated, which is the basis of a sense of happiness.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    In real life, many people often attribute their happiness to the material level, thinking that if they reach a certain age, do not have their own house, and do not have a relatively decent car, they will have an inferiority complex in their hearts, thinking that they have a sense of frustration. In fact, I don't agree with this kind of thinking, although the material aspect is very important to us, but whether a person's heart is truly happy, in fact, is **in their own heart, **in their own mentality to maintain and adjust.

    When other people around us are more successful in their careers, have their own luxury cars, and have their own spacious and bright houses, these will naturally make us envious, which is human nature, but we should also be aware of the people around us, the reason why these people can succeed is also due to their own efforts, from their own innate advantages or a certain amount of luck, and for these, we should not be too entangled and caring, many times, As long as we work hard enough, we will not be able to achieve the same living conditions as the other person, and we should not blame ourselves and be too annoyed.

    In fact, like our parents' life, at our age, there is no car and house at all, and even household appliances are luxuries for them, but they live very happily, the real sense of happiness, in fact, is still ** in their own hearts, many times, when we can look at ourselves objectively, look at some of their own advantages and their own achievements, then we will no longer be annoyed by too much anxiety because of life, when we envy others, In fact, those who have a house and a car may also envy us in some way, so in many cases we need to change ourselves, this too utilitarian mentality, in order to let ourselves truly find the true meaning of happiness and joy in life.

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