I want to learn to unleash my character and not think about it so much

It's really not that easy to change your personality.

But as long as you think about it yourself and make up your mind, it is estimated that you will see results.

As long as you don't go against the general situation and don't offend anyone, you can do whatever you want.

Live easily and let go of yourself fully. You'll be comfortable that way. It's also very pleasant.

Especially the little things around you, you have to ignore them, otherwise you will be really tired.

When I'm talking about you, I'm also reminding myself. It's really tiring to be a human being. Let's travel light.

You have two problems, one is that you can't liberate your character, and the other is that you think too much.

I have a friend, he is very shy, but recently, he participated in one of our specialty classes, at first he did not agree, but after a long time, he dared to speak and trusted others. Gradually, the personality is a lot more cheerful.

You remember a sentence, people have advantages and disadvantages, and things are not perfect, so it is better to take a deep breath and relax

Hehe,I want to too.,But I'm cheerful and afraid of being hurt.,Because I've suffered a lot before.。。。

So, I'm going to see a psychiatrist, and I always feel that life should be colorful.

Find a psychiatrist, or participate in more activities that are not too stressful, and then slowly exercise and slowly stand up

If you have something to say, it's good to cultivate a straightforward personality slowly.

Reach out to friends who are cheerful. Take the initiative to care and help friends.

Yes, work hard, don't find someone to learn from.

It's not a big deal, be brave to do it, follow the idea, it's okay to be rejected, life is to succeed in countless setbacks, the so-called how to see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain, you have tried, even if you fail, it is an experience, experience is the accumulation process of experience, the first experience, everything will be much smoother in the future, everything is difficult at the beginning, with the first time, the second and third time will not have such a feeling, although there are some small struggles, but I believe you can have the courage to do it.

You just have to be indifferent to some ordinary things.

You have to convince yourself that you are the way you are, and over time, you will really become like this.

By the way, sometimes, after wearing the mask for a long time, you can't take it off.

It's none of your business, hang high. Do your own thing and ignore others. It's okay to have no one in sight!

If you have been hurt enough, you will naturally be indifferent.

Don't care too much about most things, and if you don't care, you won't have emotions.

Want to get cold? In this way, you will lose your friend's O.

Wear headphones on the road, don't look left and right, don't stare at people.

Quite simply, bai is to let you live as yourself! I think you're here.

Zhi personally is the kind of person who thinks that dao is emotionally supreme, I support you, but I don't agree with your approach! Cats like to eat mice, so do you too? Sometimes you think it's good to give it to others, but people don't necessarily think it's good, but people don't accept it, do you have to get angry?

Don't say that you think it's good, others must be accepted!

You remind me of my father, who is not angry, he is empty all day long, I go to ** he misses it so much, I played in Yan'an for three days, and he said how to miss the child more, but you know that his love is actually an extreme selfishness, if he thinks about me, it is better to say that he hopes that someone will fill the emptiness in his heart!

It's the same with you, don't always say for whom and for whom, it's better to say that you are for yourself! With your lover by your side, you are like the world? Your world is too small!

Good love is to make you independent, have something to do, and have someone to rely on, instead of worrying about who you are looking forward to all day long, that is the behavior of the elderly!

She said.

Bai you live, don't do it for du

Whoever lives. You should have your own personality and your own ideal goals. Don't limit yourself to a small space.

If you want to break through and live your own wonderful, you are wonderful, and it will naturally attract her to appreciate and like you. I just don't like your life and live only for her. Although girls like to listen to these words and feel valued, they are also afraid to hear them, and they feel that they can't afford it, and they feel that they are tied up with a rope and they don't breathe.

A girl likes a man, not that the man lived and died for her, so she will only fall into a strange circle. I hope you don't tie her up with this kind of talk in the future, she will feel that you are mainly good for yourself, then she will appreciate you more and hope to enter your wonderful world.

Maybe he hates such hypocrisy, or he doesn't want you to pay too much for him and thinks you're a bit stupid.

It is to tell you a truth, a person who doesn't even love himself, no one will trust you.

1, I think you can copy more to create some opportunities to get along, the road knows the horsepower, over time du see the hearts of the people, whether the two people are really zhi's dao suitable, maybe time can be tested, of course, be honest with yourself, whether the shoes fit the feet know, two people stay together for a long time will also have feelings, but whether it is suitable for themselves as long as they are honest with themselves will have an answer.

2. Don't be too aggrieved yourself, don't let go if you can't bear it, just insist on what you can't do.

She means that you should think about yourself and fight for something for yourself, and she wants you to be confident and self-reliant!

Roughly speaking, you have to have your own opinions, and you don't live for others, but for yourself. Women like men who are assertive.

Such a simple question is always asked.

Hello: To sum it up, you have a few questions:

1. Super personality, but no way to publicize it;

2. Study hard, but do not find a goal, more precisely, a long-term goal, and are not clear about what should be done in the future;

3. Have the ability, but do not understand that the ability is comprehensive, not single (such as strong learning ability, but not communication, practice, social activities, etc.);

4. I have too high requirements for myself, but I haven't learned to see clearly what standards I want to achieve, so I am very painful;

5. Self-confidence, but easy to be hurt and lack of concentration.

Wait a minute!!! Workaround suggestion:

1. Learning is right, but it is more necessary to participate in social activities and practice, so that you can use what you have learned, otherwise it is useless even if you get a doctorate. Knowledge is the method and skill in the process of social service, if you learn it, you can't use it, you don't learn it!

2. It is good to have personality (as you said, you can see a goal without being disturbed by the outside world is an example), but we should not have a tendon, in fact, everyone has advantages, even if the study is very poor, we should do according to our own goals on the one hand, but on the other hand, we should see the advantages of others to give some necessary tolerance, this interpersonal relationship will naturally get better, and learn some things that they don't know, to explain a point, many things can not be learned in books, this is "experience"!

3. Consider what you are going to do, and then set up a learning method, so that on the one hand, you can be targeted, and on the other hand, after the goal is determined, your direction will be clear, and you will not be blind and will not be so painful.

4. There are many people who are not willing to be mediocre in life, but we should also think about it, everyone wants to be a leader, but this must be a minority, and it depends on the time, place, and people, so as long as we think clearly about what is called "heroes in troubled times", in today's society, knowledge may not necessarily have a good job, this is because it doesn't matter, have good ability and will be able to be a leader, because we are born at the wrong time, so don't be so bitter, look a little away, you have worked hard, It's okay to do what you think is a good grade, life is 100 years, enjoy life is the last word, life includes "study, love, work, entertainment, writing and so on".

Have fun!

I watched it very carefully, and I think you should try to change it, even if it's just an attempt, I suggest you go to a movie "Angel Amelie", maybe you've seen it before, but I think it's very painful for people to live and close their hearts in a dark room every day. This movie is deeply shocked, if you change, maybe there will be a glimmer of light in your life, if you don't change your life, it will still be dull and painful.

You have a serious psychological problem, I was almost exactly the same as you at the beginning, all the boys stayed away from me, I felt like an outlier, but I resolutely decided to give up my studies and find my own dreams, now I live a very happy life, although I have no chance with the university, but I live very steadily, I feel that every day is hopeful.

It can be seen that you are a bit of an internal girl yourself, and you may care a lot about what others think of you, so that you will feel that others hate you and look down on you. In fact, every person with a personality may have a similar experience, so it is impossible to say that you want to completely change, because the natural character is not so easy to change, now I don't know if you are still in school, in fact, there are many people similar to you, now you should make more friends, more friends will naturally not feel lonely, usually when you feel bored, you can do something that interests you, reading, surfing the Internet, shopping, etc. In short, I usually try to do as many things as I am interested in, so that my life can slowly become fuller.

It's not like that, there are still times when you are depressed, but you can use many ways to vent, and you can too.

Poor temper is not easy to like.

Everyone has an unknown side, learn to release yourself.

They will definitely regret it after losing their temper.

They are also miserable, have a bad temper, and are not in good health.