My girlfriend is very lazy at home and never does housework, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-07-31
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Find a suitable opportunity to communicate with her well, and tell her that the family also needs two people to be responsible for the family, everyone has to pay for the family, since they live at home, they must do housework, so that the two people will be in a happy mood, and the relationship will be better, so that she will do housework.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    You should communicate well with your girlfriend and tell her that she must always clean up the house and not make the house too messy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    You can find an opportunity to talk to her and tell her that this is a life for the two of you, and that she will take responsibility.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It doesn't matter if the girl is lazy, if he doesn't do it, then you will slowly do it yourself to edify him, or you will pull him together to tell you the truth when you do it, and then you will do it after a long time?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In marriage, I don't mind that the other half doesn't do housework, but we need to understand each other, and family activities should be divided and cooperated:

    First, you can negotiate with your daughter-in-law to do housework. If your wife doesn't do housework or cook after marriage. Then you can do housework and cook in your spare time.

    If you don't want to do housework and cook all day, you can communicate and negotiate with your daughter-in-law to let the two of you do housework together. I want every man to be responsible for his family. A family is made up of two people, not one.

    Therefore, these two people have their own responsibilities for housework and cooking. But many men think that as long as Youshen marries a wife, his wife can take care of herself in an all-round way, which is really beautiful. I want every man to be able to afford it.

    Responsibility to one's own family.

    Second, it doesn't matter if you want it or not. Attitude matters. No one is born to speak or walk, they are all learned.

    It's the same with housework, as long as we truly love each other, work hard, and study tolerantly. What cannot be changed, people must learn to change themselves in life, especially after marriage. In this way, the relationship can be strengthened.

    Third, take a closer look at the reasons why your girlfriend is lazy. In your daily life, pay more attention to yourself and carefully observe why your girlfriend is so lazy, whether she is spoiled at home, or if she changes after being with you. After knowing the reason, find a way to change her inertia.

    For both sides, not for the ancestors. Your family spoils you before marriage because you are your parents' baby. After marriage, you have your own family, and your husband dotes on you because he loves you.

    But this kind of love is not a reason for you to do anything wrong.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Girlfriend doesn't do housework? What am I going to do? He doesn't do it, you do it yourself.

    This is a very normal thing. Since it's your own girlfriend. You chose him.

    Then choose everything about her. Originally, housework Sakura was a thing between each other. It's not a requirement that everyone has to do it or yes.

    Don't do it. Only a common family works together to maintain no Sakura. Take each other.

    Help each other. That's it. Cao Cao ninety-nine.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Based on the above, I think that when you encounter a situation where your girlfriend can't do housework, you need to communicate in a timely manner first. If there is an improvement after the communication, it is very good, but if there is no obvious effect after the communication, then you have to think about whether this girl is really suitable for you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When you meet such a girl, it means that you are very lucky, because she lives in a loving family, her parents love her as a baby, and being with you shows that she trusts you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When you meet such a girl, you must learn to be patient, and you must tell yourself that since you like each other, you must tolerate each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When you encounter this kind of girl, you should break up decisively, because the other party is not suitable to marry a wife at all, but may become a burden to yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think you should take the initiative to do housework, or tell her if you want to do housework together, because some girls really don't like housework

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When we meet such a girl, we can actively communicate with him, and the two of us can do housework together, so that we can get along harmoniously.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If the guy is patient enough to accept the girl, it's okay, but I think the girlfriend should be guided to learn these basic operations from the front.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Now the social atmosphere is not to allow girls to do housework, I personally think it is wrong, as a girl, I think you should use reward means to follow the good path, complete the completion of a certain reward. It's fun to have 2 people doing life together.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can take the initiative to do the chores and do them non-stop, so that your girlfriend will not always be so lazy and will help you do it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can remind her by cleaning frequently in front of your girlfriend, and then find an opportunity to tell her that the housework needs to be shared by two people, so that you don't get too tired.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think I should tell her that two people are equal when they fall in love, so housework should not be done by just one person, but by two people.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can listen to her and remind her, for example, you can say that the food of a colleague's wife is delicious, and I hope that my wife also has a good craft.

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