How can I become non rebellious, and how can I change my rebellious personality?

Adolescence is normal, parents should guide me I'm 17 years old I'm 14 years old I was very rebellious when I was 14 years old I was sentenced to 4 months for fighting I was still very rebellious after I came out But my parents never gave up on me As long as they can make me change.

Those who show a rebellious character against authority when they are students are indeed prone to various adverse effects in their later lives:

1.First of all, during the school period, such students have difficulty abiding by school rules and discipline and studying hard, resulting in poor academic performance, poor academic qualifications and skills, which is the first adverse factor.

2.The second step is the stubbornness and difficulty in compromise, which makes it difficult to establish a good relationship with teachers and classmates, which will directly affect interpersonal relationships at work and in life.

3.Third, due to the influence of the first and second steps, their career development will be greatly restricted, it is difficult to obtain higher education and skills, and they can only engage in some manual work or simple work, and their income and development will be limited.

4.Fourth, the stubbornness and difficulty in compromise of character also make it difficult to settle down in life, make it difficult to improve the quality of life, and always be in a state of relative rebellion, which further strengthens the aforementioned disadvantages.

5.The fifth brother is radical, this kind of person is more rigid in thinking, difficult to make rational judgments, often produces wrong cognition and judgment, thus missing some opportunities or getting into trouble, which will exacerbate the whole vicious circle.

To sum up, such people have sown the bane of various adverse effects from some of the manifestations of their early school days. To change this situation, we must start from personality and cognition, learn to communicate and cooperate with others, abide by certain rules and order, and make rational judgments and decisions, which are the keys to changing our destiny. There is hope that a person's character and cognition can be improved and developed in adulthood.

Therefore, when such people become adults, if they want to truly change their fate, they must carry out corresponding self-improvement and cultivation. Only by learning to cooperate with others, follow the rules, and make rational judgments, can life become better. It is a long but vital path for life.

There are two ways to improve education. 1. Be friends with children, and don't take radical behaviors.

To educate your child correctly is to let go of your posture and take the initiative to be friends with your child, rather than acting high all the time. Parents should often have in-depth and intimate conversations with their children to convey their love for their children.

In addition, when children make mistakes, parents should first calm their emotions, avoid taking aggressive actions against their children, regardless of whether they are indiscriminately taught with sticks first, but calmly help children analyze and solve problems.

Treating children harshly not only fails to make them realize their mistakes and correct them, but also leaves a shadow on their hearts and makes their personalities extreme.

2. Give your child more company.

No one can replace the love and companionship of parents, only under the careful teaching and companionship of parents can children receive better education and develop good habits.

But in real life, many parents are forced by the pressure of life, and Jing Pei has to ask his grandparents and grandparents to come over to help watch the children or leave the children in their hometown.

In this case, parents are unable to provide enough time for their children, which will have a negative impact on his development.

Therefore, parents should treat their children more attentively, communicate with them more often, communicate with them or play more, keep abreast of their life and learning, and let them feel that even if their parents are not in the world, they are still caring and loving themselves.

1. Everyone will have a rebellious period.

The phenomenon of rebellion in the child, don't make a fuss, everyone will experience this rebellious period, of course, you must keep a calm treatment, I used to rely on yelling or strict discipline of the child, basically in vain, and the child is even more disgusted. It wasn't until I took the parent-child course of Gaotu Beautiful Family that I finally knew how to get along with my children correctly, and I was no longer as antagonistic and disobedient as before, and now I am more like friends with my children! I'm so relieved!

Therefore, parents should learn more about education methods, how to do education in the rebellious period, and then be more considerate of their children, knowing that educating children can no longer rely on simple and crude forms such as fist violence and abuse, to be civilized, to reform, to have cultivation and mastery of modern educational concepts and knowledge, in order to be a good parent. In order to let the child walk well and go through the inevitable course of adolescence in this period of life.

2. Respect children's equal treatment

Parents should avoid too many unnecessary restrictions on their children's behavior, respect their children, treat them as friends equally, and give children a certain amount of space to explore freely, which is a way to control rebellious psychology and rebellious behavior from the source, so that children can feel understood, accepted, and understood. Do not use coercion or intimidation threats. Rebellious psychology occurs precisely because of the child's dissatisfaction or anger towards his parents.

Although subjugation and threats can temporarily reduce rebellious and rebellious behavior, they increase the child's inner anger and contribute to potential conflicts.

3. Don't expose your child's shortcomings

Every child has its own advantages and disadvantages, as a parent must not do what is not to expose the child's shortcomings, especially not to compare him with other children, adolescent children especially need to face, if you want to correct the child's incorrectness, you can communicate with the child sincerely, understand the child's true thoughts.

Since I was a child, I was someone else's child: a good student in the eyes of my teachers and a good child in the eyes of my parents. My parents also have complete trust in me, so they are very supportive of any ideas I have when I decide.

So, there is hardly anything rebellious in my life. So, let's talk about one of the most impulsive experiences of my life.

One of the most impulsive experiences in my life was when I was filling in the college entrance examination. Since I was a child, my dream was to become a doctor in Western China. After the college entrance examination is completed and the score is completed, after filling in the volunteers, consult the teacher's advice.

The homeroom teacher thought that it was difficult for me to get into my ideal school and major, and I estimated that I needed to repeat my studies, and it was very difficult for girls, especially for me, to study clinical medicine. After listening to this, I was very apprehensive, but I still reported to volunteer. After volunteering, I consulted with another senior teacher two days later.

She also has the same opinion, and mentioned that the food profession will definitely be good in the future. So, I wavered and went to the Education Bureau to take back the volunteer form that had been submitted and fill it out again. So, I chose a school with a top ranking in food majors to apply for the exam, and randomly filled in a second major.

At the time, I didn't even know the city where the school was located.

Later, I was successfully admitted to the school I applied for, which was more than 150 points higher than the admission score of the school, and that year was the highest admission line of the school, and the score of Sichuan University, which I originally wanted to apply, was the lowest in the past. Unfortunately, I didn't learn my first major, and I was admitted to my second major. Faced with such a result, I was very annoyed and entangled in my heart.

I regret my impulsiveness, I regret that I gave up my childhood dream so easily. I wonder if I want to repeat it. But I didn't repeat it, and I chose to make a mistake.

Therefore, I was not happy in the first few years of undergrad, and I wanted to go back to repeat my studies many times in the first semester of my freshman year, but I still tried to persevere in my studies, and my grades were not bad. Later, graduate school was also an undergraduate major, and finding a job was also related to the major. Now it seems that this major is also good, the employment prospects are much better than the food major, and at the same time it is also very interesting.

Now that I've grown up, I look back and think that if I really studied medicine, I might not be able to afford it.

Maybe this is the wonderful arrangement of life, not everything will come according to plan, but as long as you always remember to live hard in the moment, there will be beauty and happiness. An impulse that changed the trajectory of life.

First of all, adults' minds must be mature, don't care too much, and don't always be good for children. So be sure to grow yourself.

Sixth grade is a sudden period of children's emotions and emotions to prevent children from forming rebellious personalitiesChildren are generally around 10 years old, children's self-awareness begins to rise, they strongly need the respect of their parents, and they need parents to treat them as big children.

However, many parents do not understand the psychology of their children, and still treat their children as children, so children in this period often deliberately oppose their parents because they do not get the respect and understanding of their parents. Parents should not think that their children deliberately oppose you, just simple disobedient behavior, in fact, there is a deep reason behind the child's desire for your understanding and your respect.

Self-consciousness is in the formative period of the sparrow, they have their own opinions and opinions on things, and they are always stubbornly believing that they are right. However, due to the lack of life and social experience, children's views and opinions are often incomplete, early or wrong, therefore, the gap between ideals and reality will also make children's emotions and emotions change greatly.

What is the focus of your child's education

Find out the cause of your child's mood changes, and your child will have words like "I'm bored", and the number of such words will continue to rise. For example, in the second unit of this semester, the assignment content is "Talk about the heart", and I ask the children not to talk about their studies, but about their personal troubles.

One child said, "The clothes my mother made me wear were always things I didn't like; I like long hair, but my mom made me cut it short, and mom was disrespectful to me. Another classmate said, "Mom and Dad don't let me play with my classmates and don't let me read the extracurricular books I like."

They never seemed to believe me. In fact, children's worries are not only about playing with utensils, clothes, hairstyles, or extracurricular reading materials, what they need is the understanding and respect of their parents. When the child truly understands and respects, all his negative and rebellious emotions will disappear.

Children are too rebellious, parents should set good rules from an early age, establish a correct view of right and wrong, let children face up to their own mistakes, and establish a good communication environment with children.

1) Establish good rules from an early age: avoid being obedient when the child is young, otherwise the child may grow up with too strong personality, or be self-centered and rebellious.

2) Establish a correct view of right and wrong: formulate a correct and unified standard of right and wrong, and cannot rely on the mood of parents to decide whether it is right or wrong, if it is a mistake of principle, the concept of parents should be unified.

3) Let children face up to their mistakes: Educate children to reward and punish clearly, and give rewards when children have good behavior. Don't tolerate when children do wrong things, even if it's just a small mistake, they should be punished appropriately, and avoid scolding and blaming too much, so that children can face up to their mistakes, correct them in time, and avoid falling deeper and deeper into their mistakes.

4) Establish good communication: Parents should establish good communication with their children, listen to their children's internal thoughts, understand the reasons for the occurrence of rebellious behaviors, and conduct targeted communication.

5) Others: It is recommended that parents set an example, set an example, and be consistent in words and deeds.

1. Be sure to communicate more, understand the child's growth and their actual thoughts, especially when the child grows up, there will be a lot of rebellion, hostility, and even a lot of challenges to the authority of the parents, at this time to be more tolerant.

2. Don't let the child be too anxious and nervous, that is, let the child have more positive and sleepy emotional performance, when the child has rebellious, anxious, irritable problems, we must communicate and communicate more, and strive to alleviate negative emotions. You can also take your child out shopping, chat with good friends, watch movies together, etc., through activities to increase the intimacy with your child and at the same time divert your child's attention.

3. We should also guide children to develop their own interests and hobbies, such as letting children learn to play ball, play the piano, paint, etc., only if children have enough things to do, and set up very good life goals, they can actively and actively work hard to reduce the impact of rebellion on themselves. Hobbies can make a child's life happy and happy, such as playing ball, swimming, and painting, which can make children full and independent, thereby reducing the appearance of rebellious behavior.

It's actually quite simple. In the past, the conditions were not good, the children did not get anything better, this kind of material enjoyment was not better, this kind of family superior conditions, so there was no better pursuit of life goals. So you don't have to expect anything extravagantly.

One. Today's children's family conditions are very good and they have not suffered anything, so because they enjoy this superior condition, they will become very vain, and once they lose something, they will be very impatient, and even just want to live better and compare with each other. So once you get a little rough education, you will have a very strong rebellious mentality.

Two. Only after suffering. He will cherish the happy life now, and will know that the happy life is not easy to come by, but he has not suffered hardship, he soaks in sugar water every day, then he will feel that my current life should be like this, if I live a little harder, I can't accept it, especially if I didn't study well in the past, my parents beat it, he will feel that I should study hard, in order to get rid of the current poverty days, and make my life better.

Therefore, I will work harder to miss the answer, and I will not dislike my parents, and I will not complain about psychological problems because my parents beat me.

Three. In the past, children had no entertainment, no pastime, no mobile phones to play, and nothing to kill time, so just watching a TV is already a luxury, and even some families don't even have a TV, so these children don't feel the fun of this Hui Kind amusement, the joy that the game brings to themselves, and do they feel the sci-fi feeling of the existence of this wireless network of mobile phones? So give him something delicious, fun is very satisfied, just for the purpose of searching for rocks, work hard to learn, and now the child.

It's all there, and. Many games, including family conditions, are very good, and they can't be satisfied with a little food and fun. So this little thing can't coax him, I don't study or don't learn.

Therefore, the parents are angry and do not listen. As soon as he hit him, he was psychologically distorted and had a lot of psychological problems. Same as I thought, so be it!