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This child's accusation, it does sound that I feel that as a parent is not very competent, there is no more in-depth communication with the child, but children, you also have to understand the hardships of parents working outside to earn money to support the family, originally working outside for a day, physically and mentally are very tired, at home the child is their only hope and sustenance, when they get home, they have to cheer up the spirit to tutor the child to learn and regard the child and the child's learning as the most important standard in their life and even human life or failure. Children should also be sensible, try to let parents worry less, although you don't feel tired to worry about you, maybe you are very lonely to indulge, but don't be depressed, you can contact classmates more, participate in extracurricular activities, enrich your extracurricular life, cultivate sentiment, etc., in order to solve loneliness and loneliness will not be addicted.
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First of all, it is necessary to understand why children are addicted to the Internet, and do they usually communicate with their children more? The first thing we should do as parents is to talk more with our children, become good partners in children's lives, and good friends in learning, so that we can distract our children and guide them to other hobbies, so that we can effectively distract him from his addiction to the Internet...
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You say that children are addicted to computers, why have you ever thought about it?
And why do you judge that they are addicted to computers?
You're always working, you're going out to play, aren't they alone at home? Have you ever thought about them, they play games, because there are many friends in them, they can talk, in reality, they (parents) always come to annoy you or come to you, although it is a relationship with them, but the action of your relationship can be normal, and every time they want to do homework, you always come and sit next to you, you don't want to do your homework because your parents are next to you, don't you, you say let them go out to play, but they are still children, I don't know what it is easy to make money and hard to spend money, only when I grow up I know, you just remind them, why do you always say "money is spent indiscriminately, there is no help!" "Do you know that they will be very uncomfortable when they hear it, but they will eat a little more, and so they will not be saved, and you will only say that they are addicted, have you thought about your own mistakes, and said that you are a bystander, but as a bystander, is it wrong?
If there is not a drop of red ink, the light water will be defiled, and it is the bystanders who take the red ink that defile him, and you do not stop them from rising little by little, and the more you wash this thing, the dirtier it will become.
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If you continue to be addicted to the Internet, it may ruin your life, make you unable to contribute to society in the future, and you will suffer even more. I hope you will leave the Internet and talk to your family more than your family. Traditional communication is no less than online communication.
Main advantages: affect normal learning and life:
Gamers spend a lot of time in the virtual world.
Then he naturally has very little time left for real life, so it is impossible to have more time and energy to do everything that should be done in real life, so there are phenomena such as declining grades, lack of energy in class, skipping class, and fighting with others.
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Son: Hello!
Recently, seeing that you have been addicted to playing with your mobile phone, my mother was very sad and decided to write you this letter.
Think about it, have you often played with your mobile phone when you didn't finish your homework recently, resulting in frequent homework until 11 o'clock, and serious lack of sleep. Look at you every morning you look like you can't wake up, your eyes are dark, and your mother is distressed. You recently told me that the words on the blackboard feel a little blurry, which is a sign that the eyes are going to be short-sighted!
You want to grow up to be a special forces, how can you be a special forces soldier with poor eyesight?
I know that mobile phones are very fun, and there are many interesting things, such as: Xiao**, Douyin, games, ......But if I were you, I would try not to play with my phone and protect my eyesight. After finishing our homework, we can go to play basketball, play balance bikes, read books, and do robot ......On Sunday, we can go on a trip vacation.
If you really want to play with your phone, you can ask your mom for permission to play for half an hour.
The world is beautiful, you put down your phone! Look at the green with your eyes!
Love your mom.
May 2nd.
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Dear Son:
Hello there! You refuse to put down my phone as soon as you get it every day, we have negotiated that we only play with my phone for 10 minutes a day, and you play for 30 minutes without stopping. If I were someone else's mother, I could have left you alone, but I was your mother, and I could only take care of you. So every time I snatch your phone out of your hand, you sit on the ground and cry.
I tell you every time: "Children can't cry, now you are just when you and other classmates are growing up, if at this time the eye or ** birth failure, it may be difficult to make up for it in the future, even if you wear glasses can not be recovered, your glasses are just to help you see something clearly, but it does not mean that your eyes are really good." "And you?
Ignore what I say to you, just as if you were the wind on your ears.
Son, I'm not criticizing you now, if you look at your phone every day, play with your phone, play with the computer and play with the iPad, I will make a plan for you, if you violate, you will cancel all the time to look at the phone, now I can give you 10 minutes of playing with the phone every day, but you don't cherish it, watch other messy things there, don't do your own study. 24 hours a day, you can do something meaningful, such as: you can use it to study, you can go out for a walk, etc.
Why do you have to stay here and look at your phone, remember that looking at your phone is very harmful to your eyes, and it will also cause trouble in your studies, and your academic performance will continue to fall, and when the time comes, your eyesight ranking on the report card is good, and the other students are excellent, don't you feel ashamed?
I hope you can read this letter carefully this time, and next time you must take good care of your eyes and learn the original lesson! Maintain a good habit for a long time, don't toss your eyes, and you won't have eye pain in the future, and you don't need to go to the hospital to help you.
Love your mom.
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Summary. A letter to a child addicted to machines: Hello!
Recently, I saw that you were addicted to playing games, and my mother was very painful and decided to write you this letter. Think about it, have you often played games without finishing your homework recently, resulting in frequent homework until 11 o'clock, and serious sleep failure. Look at how you can't wake up every morning, your eyes are all around, and your mother is in pain.
You recently told me that the words on the board feel a little blurry, which is a sign that the eyes are going to be short-sighted! If you want to grow up to be a special forces, how can you be a special forces soldier if you don't see it well? I know that the machine is fun and there are a lot of interesting things, such as:
A letter to a child addicted to machines: Hello! Recently, I saw that you were obsessed with playing video games, and my mother pretended to be very painful, so I decided to write you this letter of attack and lack of Zheng Zheng.
Think about it, have you often played games without finishing your homework recently, resulting in frequent homework until 11 o'clock, and serious sleep failure. Look at how you can't wake up every morning, your eyes are all around, and your mother is in pain. You recently told me that the words on the board feel a little blurry, which is a sign that the eyes are going to be short-sighted!
If you want to grow up to be a special forces, how can you be a special forces soldier if you don't see it well? I know that the machine is very fun, and there are a lot of interesting things, such as: **, jitter, games, ......But if I were you, I would try not to play the game and protect my eyes.
After finishing our homework, we can go to play basketball, play balance bikes, read books, and do machine ......On Sundays, we can go on vacation. If you really want to play, you can ask your mom for permission to play for half an hour. The world is beautiful, you put it down!
Eyes more to see green! Love your companion mom.
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Hello dear<>
The child is addicted to games, and the mother wants to write a letter to the child, how to write a letter to the child, dear son: Seeing you sitting in front of the computer hour after hour, the mother is anxious! The old partner had to keep reminding the waiter to hold you.
So your mother has become a "nagging" mother in your mind. I know you're impatient, but Mom is doing it for your own good. You said that you don't want to play with the computer happily when you are on vacation.
Of course, Mom wants you to play happily, but you don't have the moderation and always stare at the computer at the end of the day, how can this work? Mommy feels sorry for your eyes! I remember when you told your mother that when she went to junior high school, many of her classmates wore eyes.
Your eyes are not bad, how worried Mom is that your eyes are bad! In addition, the radiation of computers is also very large, and the harm to the body over a long period of time is immeasurable. This is one of the reasons why mom is against you playing with the computer for a long time.
The second reason for this is that playing computer games for a long time takes a lot of your precious time. Before going to bed last night, you were still talking about the content of the game, what got a few more pokemon, what registration can continue to get, seeing your obsessive state, mom is really worried. There are too many teenagers who are addicted to the Internet now.
Because of unrestrained gaming, there are many people who embark on the path of theft, murder, and other crimes. Around us, because of playing computer games, learning plummeted; Are there fewer examples of children who develop the habit of lying and stealing because of playing computer games? The computer is a virtual space, and if you don't have a good grasp of yourself, you will go astray, affecting your mental health.
It would be nice to spend your time on the computer fighting and killing to read. Because of your intemperance, a lot of precious reading time has slipped away in vain. What a pity!
Mom is not against you playing computer games, Mom wants you to be a little restrained. Playing some beneficial games is not only good for the body and mind, but also has the effect of relaxation. It is necessary to make full use of the infinite resources of the Internet and obtain some useful information.
In addition, mom also reminds you that when chatting with classmates and friends, you should use the chat room as a world to learn from each other and communicate with each other, and not to talk about vulgar and boring topics. Son, good medicine is good for disease, and good advice is good for deeds. I hope you take good control of yourself and surf the Internet healthily.
Love nagging mom 20 x year x month x.
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Kid, how are you? Mom is waiting for you to come back at the dinner table, the meal has been heated three times, and it may not be as good as the potato excitement. Mom still has to go to work, and she can't wait for you for too long, after all, this family must have the economy to count the source of laughter.
You are addicted to the Internet, because the reality is cruel, not as easy and free as in the Internet, you can speak freely, you can vent at will, Mom doesn't blame you, but reality is reality after all, we still live, Mom is also getting old every day, it is impossible to protect you for the rest of your life (although I am very willing), I hope you can be sensible as soon as possible and take on the responsibility of this family, because Mom's body is becoming more and more unable to bear this family! I hope that Mom can see you grow up one day, before Mom has fallen!
Forever love your mom to leave a word.
You don't stop her ... It's useless... You just have to find a way to distract her. When her attention is not on the game, it's OK. She can't just like games, right?
Play games, play like crazy, get addicted, start to feel that games are not fun, learn to make games, make games yourself, and succeed!
The young man does not work hard, and the boss is sad.
It is recommended that you pull him out of the game first, but don't force him to study first, so that he will be disgusted, play and chat with him first, slowly establish a friendly parent-child relationship, slowly accompany him to reason with him, and finally try to let him learn a little bit, a little bit of progress, don't ask too much first, just learn it, don't be too demanding on your grades first.
Truth be told, when a child is over 12 years old, the influence of parents decreases dramatically. So we sometimes say that our parents seem to be with their children for a lifetime, but in fact, the real children don't give us a lot of time to grow up with him, this time may be 8 years, it may be 10 years, at most it is not more than 12 years. If before the age of 12, you do not give the child the personality and character he needs, and do not form a good parent-child relationship, after the age of 12, you spend 10 times and 100 times the effort, and the problems that can actually be solved are very few. >>>More