How are those who got married on a blind date in a hurry doing now?

It depends on how the two manage their marriage, some of them are divorced, and some of them are very good.

Some of those people are doing well, and some friends I know one and break up not long after.

Most of them are not having a good time now, they are too hurried to get married before they understand each other thoroughly, and they are destined to slowly discover each other's shortcomings in the future, and if they can't run in successfully, they will basically have a bad time.

I have a couple who got married on a blind date and are living very well now, and they have a pair of children, and they should be very happy to see that they often go out to travel.

Recently, it has become very popular to say that those who have pictures of cars and houses have lived very happily and have lived a very solid life, and these people and people have lived nothing with their feelings. It is life after marriage, and the parents are looking for a very worry-free family, relatively speaking, there are fewer conflicts after marriage, and they are relatively stable.

The modern version of blind date is more of a pragmatic, and sometimes a form of mate selection due to the limitation of working hours. It is a kind of first acquaintance and then acquaintance to the form of marriage channel. Those who are too hasty, who only decide on marriage based on love at first sight, are not very responsible for marriage, and there is a high probability that there will be a crisis, resulting in a broken marriage.

People with a stable personality, after experiencing acquaintance, after a certain run-in process, have a macro understanding of the advantages and disadvantages of the other party and their families, and after rational thinking, accept the reality and reach a marriage, the marriage is likely to be stable.

How you live is not directly related to the combination of blind date or love. The main thing is the idea of two people. Marriage is the manifestation of the organic union of two families into a third family, and those who are in love know a lot about each other, while blind dates often know more about both families.

Therefore, the difficulty of falling in love to marriage is to adapt to the other party's family, and the difficulty of marriage on a blind date is to understand each other. In this life, it is rare for both parties to be thrilled and eventually move towards marriage, and it is more that they do not hate each other, and they adapt to each other and understand each other to complete their limited lives. Whether life is good or not depends on the degree of dedication of the husband and wife to the family, both of them care about their small family, they may not be able to afford a house or even a car, but they are very happy.

If one party fails to fulfill his or her family responsibilities, the other party will be tired, and over time, the marriage will die.

For those who have no opinions and those who have a soft personality, there will be those who will submit to the wishes of their parents to reach a marriage. This kind of preconceived way to reach marriage first, and then run in with each other, men and women with traditional concepts will generally accept objective facts, take the initiative to actively adjust themselves, and achieve a balance in family relations, and the multi-marital relationship is stable. Young people with modern concepts have higher requirements for the quality of life, pay attention to inner feelings, personalities, habits, and ideological concepts, and are prone to marital breakdown.

That's great! Most of the post-70s and post-60s I have seen are doing well. Whether it's good or not is not that the blind date is not a blind date, but that both parties know what the purpose is when they go on a blind date?

What are the criteria? It's not that you get married after being confused, looking at it and chatting happily. Understand that blind dates are rushing to get married, and what kind of person you hope to live with yourself for a lifetime, and the marriage partner who is generally determined can't go wrong.

Relative to love at first sight, I think blind dates are still more reliable, at least people are in a calm and rational state, looking at people and looking at problems more objectively. It's hard to say what childhood sweethearts are.,Besides, how many childhood sweethearts have no guesses? Most of them are introduced on blind dates through acquaintances!

Marriage between classmates rarely comes with some objective family economic conditions, the temperament of family members, and whether both parents accept and like each other. Only considering the feelings of two people, after marriage, they will be negatively affected by other aspects, and there are not a few who make the marriage unhappy. After all, marriage is a matter of two families, not just two people.

Therefore, those who get married through blind dates are taken care of, and there are many fewer conflicts after marriage. So I think it's okay to go on a blind date. That's what I've seen.

My cousin and my sister-in-law met on a blind date, and when they first met, my cousin had reached the age when they should get married, and the family couldn't wait, so the two got married not long after they met. The two of them have similar personalities, my cousin is honest, can cook, and is a typical honest person. The sister-in-law has a soft personality, treats others generously, and is tolerant.

The two of them couldn't be more suitable together, now that they have a young daughter, the two of them are working hard for their family, and everything is harmonious.

Blind date is just a passage to the marriage hall, a form. Its main body has been in the country for thousands of years. The basic law or basic principle to be followed is to be the right person.

Due to the cognitive limitations of the introducer and the parents of both parties to the marriage and their families, the differences in living habits, educational background, hobbies, vision, life pursuits, and personalities and temperaments of both young people will be ignored.

In the 60-70s, how many were blind dates, basically they were very good, and they may feel unsatisfactory, but the previous people's ideas were still more simple than now, as long as they looked at it, they made do with it, and they naturally became a family. But now 80-90 is not so easy, in addition to looking at the eyes, you have to ask for the same three views, what kind of blind date there are, just happened to meet your dish, naturally it was very smooth, and there are many will be together and later separated, I think blind date is not a shame or demeaning oneself, but there may not be just the type you like, one of the many looking for the other half before the blind date, hoping to finally find the right one for yourself.

Personally, I think it varies from person to person, after all, if you want to get the love you want, the ideal marriage, this is very difficult, after all, not all people's feelings in this world are smooth sailing, feelings are maintained by two people working together, blind date or find yourself, I don't think there is much difference, of course, you have to see what kind of goods you are, put yourself in the right position, and can't be too demanding of each other, after all, suitability is the most important thing, compared to those who are married on a blind date, and married in love, I have seen, It's all mixed blessings, and I'm not very resistant to blind dates, maybe your ideal other half is opposite you.

Most of them should be very good, they think each other is good in the blind date, and there is room to cultivate feelings after marriage, and they gradually get acquainted with each other.

Some of them have made do with this because of their children, and some have already divorced, because they don't know enough about the introductions, and many of them don't have compatible personalities, so they are separated a lot.

Basically, I don't have a good time, because there will be a lot of problems in flash marriage, and different living habits are easy to cause conflicts.