What happened to those who got married after graduating from high school?

I got married after graduating from high school, and some of them were very happy, and some of them were not doing well. I have a group of people in my high school class who got married after graduation, so I'll tell you how they're doing.

The two of them were in the first semester of high school, and they both came to my class, and then they fell in love. At the beginning, the relationship between the two was very good, and they were tired of being together every day, and they were very intimate. Later, he was discovered by the head teacher, so he asked them to talk, and then the two of them restrained a little, and there was no obvious show of affection, but it was still showy.

I kept talking like this, and I heard from my classmates that the two of them had many quarrels halfway through and split hands several times. The girls said they were getting back together, and the boys agreed. To be honest, I didn't like that girl very much before, she was always self-righteous and got along with us in a superior manner, but I didn't think she was very good.

I'm not alone, many of my classmates think so. Later, I graduated from the college entrance examination, and I had no contact with that girl, and I listened to my classmates about the rest of the story.

After graduation, it was discovered that the girl was pregnant, so the two chose to get married. The boy is still more responsible, and he didn't say how to shirk the responsibility. After giving birth, the girl went to a vocational school for half a year and gave the child to her mother-in-law.

Later, I said that I wouldn't read it, and I couldn't read it if I didn't want to. If you don't read, you can't read, and it's okay to go home and take the child, but she doesn't want to take the child, so she found a hotel waitress with us, and then she kept doing things. I don't know how the two of them are doing now, but as a classmate, I hope their lives can be happy no matter what.

Naturally, some have had a good life, and some have not had a good life.

I am a child from the countryside, naturally I have met a lot of classmates who have dropped out of junior high and high school, today I will talk about these people who happened to me, I believe that after reading you will feel that the world view has changed.

Classmate A, who dropped out of junior high school before graduating, dropped out of school with a girlfriend when he was at school. Of course, neither of them has a very good academic performance, but fortunately, the two of them are still relatively good-looking. At that time, I simply knew from my classmates that the two had dropped out of school and went out to work together, and the parents of both sides did not object.

In this way, day after day, year after year, I went to college, and when I came home from vacation, I heard that the two were married and had children before the marriage, so I only held the wedding without a license (not old enough). The family opened two shops in two towns for them, and they did a lot of things anyway, and the living conditions were good. This is not when I went home last year, and they already had their third child.

The children who dropped out of school with him did not have such a good fate, and after dropping out of school, they played in their hometown for a few years, and then went to work in an electronics factory. When I was working, I wasn't very honest and competent, and I often caused trouble in the company. When I was in college, I was still alone and didn't have much money, but I think I heard last year that I was killed by riding a motorcycle too fast.

Different people have different destinies, so why not go to school if they can go to school? If there are good family conditions in the family, then I won't say anything about this. If there are no family conditions at home, and you don't work hard and don't study, you may end up depressed.

So don't drop out of school in a hurry, know that going to school is your only way out.

Today's children are more precocious, there is a little bit of a person around them, a little bit of care for them, a little bit of kindness to them, buy them something they want, give them some candy to eat, and that's how they meet true love. Especially in high school, we didn't understand what love was, but we thought it was love. When I was in high school, I was more impulsive, especially when I met love, and I would ignore it for it.

When I was in high school, I could do crazy things for love. will give up his studies for love, and will do things that hurt himself and hurt his family. Many high school students do things that are simply not what they should do at their age, under the influence of hormones.

We have such children in our community. She was about my age, but she wasn't as lucky as me to go to college. She was also more rebellious in high school.

Every afternoon when I come home, I can see her and her little boyfriend on the road. When I was in my third year of high school, it was very late every night when I got out of self-study, it was past eleven o'clock, and I could see the two of them walking hand in hand on the road. Later, after the college entrance examination, I heard my mother say that the girl would not live at home, and would live in the boy's house.

Her parents had nothing to do with her, and they refused to come back. After that, it's up to them.

When I saw her this year, I suddenly found that she was holding a child in her hand. When I went up and asked, I found out that it was her child. Obviously I am the same age, I am still in school and still watching a better world, but she guards her children and husbands all day long.

I think this kind of life is a kind of sadness, we should do the right thing at the right age.

There are really two high school classmates who got married after graduation, and they are together now, and some time ago when I was shopping at home, one of the girls called me in the back, and I was surprised at the time, who could it be? When I looked back, I found out that it was my high school classmate, and I thought she was married to someone else, but later I found out that he was married to another classmate in high school, and the two fell in love when they were in high school, and they have been together since graduation.

Now the two of them have their own small family, and they are still working in the same place, one is designing, the other is sales, and the two of them are very happy.

I still remember my previous tablemate, she was with the boy in the next class when she was in high school, and the teacher was actively opposed at that time, because she studied better, and the other boy did not study very well, so she was afraid of delaying her study, but she may feel that the other boy was very good to her, so the two of them kept in touch.

At the class reunion some time ago, I saw two people together, and they also had a little baby, and this child was also very obedient, so the two of them had a very good time.

I think that no matter when two people get married, whether they know each other before, but in the end, whether they can tolerate each other in real life, or whether two people can manage their own marriage, is the key to a happy marriage, and there are many people who are flash marriages. I was very happy after getting married.

Therefore, the situation of two people after marriage mainly depends on whether both parties are willing to manage their own marriage and whether they are willing to tolerate each other, after all, the most obvious thing after marriage is the shortcomings of both parties.

I'm in college now, and my friends who got married after graduating from high school, their children are all soy sauce, and they all have a warm little family, busy with work every day, both in the service industry and in business, all running for the family.

One of my classmates got married after graduating from high school and now has two children and a business together.

I have several friends who got married after graduating from high school, some good and some bad, but they all have one thing in common, other people's children will play soy sauce, and every time they drink, they have to report to their families, and finally persuade us not to get married too early...

Every year's eleventh holiday is the peak time for marriage, and most people need to rush to drink wine during this holiday.

I'm the same, I'm going home this holiday to attend a classmate's wedding, and coincidentally, the bride and groom are all my high school classmates, and I have a very good relationship with them, two gift money. Frankly speaking, I didn't expect these two old classmates to get married, after all, the two of them didn't have any inside story in high school.

The two went to university in different places. After graduating from university, the girl immediately returned to her hometown to become a teacher, and the boy went home to join the private company after working outside for a few years, and both of them fell in love in the middle. When I understood that the two of them were gradually falling in love, I complained that the little rabbit finally stopped talking to the grass by the nest, and I didn't expect the two of them to stumble to the end.

Many of the couples around me are all ordinary high school classmates, and some of them are married immediately in ordinary high schools, and then carry them to other universities to get married. Some of them are like my friends above, although they didn't get together in ordinary high school, they still walked together with their ordinary high school classmates after studying and wandering around in this society.

No wonder when I was in high school, the dean of education once joked to boys: "Don't be disgusted with today's female classmates, when you graduate from college, you may turn back to them and marry them." "Why do many people fall in love with old high school classmates after graduating from college?

It's too realistic.

Going to junior high school and high school is generally near their own homes, and everyone knows each other, so it is understandable that the door is not right. And the best universities in all countries of the world, all kinds of families can be, most of them are not a class and people in the circle, even if they fall in love together, but after graduation, they encounter some practical problems, and it is easy to separate and not go together at all.

Especially after graduation, when you enter the society, you meet people from all over the world, people are wearing masks, and it is difficult to understand a person or a family deeply, and you will feel unreliable. And after work, everyone is busy, and there is no time to get to know a person at a deep level, thinking that it is really difficult to say goodbye to singleness on your own, and you will generally go to the road of blind date.

And the boyfriend of the same age as you introduced by your parents and relatives in your hometown is likely to be an old classmate in middle school with you. The two people knew each other before, and the parents knew each other, and the two families were not in the right household, so it was easy to come together.

The lower the person, the cleaner the social circle, and the more pure the emotion, compared to the students in ordinary high schools are much simpler than those in colleges and universities, not to mention the people they meet after entering the society. Ordinary high school students, what do you have to go to school together, and what happened to the most precious years of youth. The more I grow up, the more socially enterprising, and the more nostalgic I am for the good times of ordinary high school.

So at this time, in front of the hall of the old classmates, they can also unload the ventricles more and be their true selves, and at the same time, the friends around them know each other, feel very understanding, and are very relaxed together. Therefore, after dating a few relationships that ended without a problem, many people find that they are still the most comfortable and comfortable with their former junior high school classmates, and then they come together in a proper way.

There are several reasons for this: first, the feelings of the classmates at that time in the junior high school Gao Mo faction were relatively simple, and the friendship was very pure, and the university was also a small society, and many times the students had more hearts and eyes among themselves; Second, from the perspective of distance, college classmates generally come from all over the country, and the classmates in Jianxian Middle School at the beginning of high school are all locals, so the probability of marriage is high.

The blind date introduced by his parents and relatives in his hometown is likely to be junior high school and high school classmates with his own Lu Gaiji. The two knew each other before, and their parents knew each other, plus the two families were right, so it was easy to come together.

This is that most of them now return to their hometowns after graduating from college, so they have a better relationship with their classmates in junior high and high school.

From the perspective of society and individuals, this paper analyzes whether the topic of "getting married after graduation" is reasonable and has practical significance.

The idea of "getting married after graduation" has both social factors and the significance of personal choice. From the perspective of social factors, traditional culture believes that men and women should marry and have children early when they reach a certain age. Coupled with China's family culture and aging population, the elders and parents in the family will also hope that their children will start a family as soon as possible.

In terms of personal choice, some people may take it for granted that they have a stable marriage because they have finished their studies and entered the workforce, while others want to enter marriage as soon as possible because of their relationship stability.

However, I don't think "get married after graduation" is not a commendable view. First of all, marriage is a major life event that needs to be carefully considered and should not be decided in a hurry just because of some external factors. Secondly, after graduation, Dou Demolition only entered the society, and the pressure of work and life is relatively high, and it takes time and energy to adapt and develop.

In this way, if you spend most of your time and energy on your family, it is easy to miss out on other important opportunities in your life.

Therefore, my advice is: don't get married in a hurry just because you graduate, you should consider all aspects according to your actual situation, and calmly make a filial piety decision. At the same time, I also believe that a person's marriage relationship should not start only because of the other half's personal factors (such as graduation, job, etc.).

Marriage should be based on genuine love and mutual respect, and only then can it have the foundation for sustainable development.

To sum up, while some people may support the idea of "getting married after graduation", I don't think it's a wise choice. We should look at our lives and marriages rationally, not be pressured by the outside world, and make decisions based on personal needs in order to make our lives more fulfilling and happy.