What do you do in the face of someone who doesn t believe in you, even if you re all clear?

According to your description, your best bet in this situation is to ignore him, no matter what he says or does, you don't have to pay attention to it, just concentrate on being yourself. You don't have to worry too much about this kind of person. Time will tell.

In fact, I think that if a person doesn't believe in you, then it is useless for you to say that no matter how much you do, you may not need someone who believes in you. If you talk to others, you will be able to understand what you want to say, but for someone who doesn't believe you, no matter how much you explain, the other party may not believe it.

Some people are people who are on a different channel than themselves, they are born hostile, and they hate it when they see it, that is, they are mortal enemies! Talking about things and business with such people is undoubtedly seeking the skin of a tiger? But there are times when there are exceptions, when everyone has hobbies, when everyone has weaknesses, and when everyone has difficulties!

After the investigation is clear, you may be able to find a breakthrough and help him (her) when he or she is in difficulty, and maybe everything can be solved; Talking to him about some topics of interest may be less hostile, try to resonate with him, find a balance of interests, there are no permanent friends, only eternal interests, I hope there will be progress......

Since everyone else still doesn't believe you, then you don't need to explain. Because it's useless for you to try. You just have to be yourself quietly, and time will tell.

What should you do in the face of a person who doesn't believe in you, the most important thing in interpersonal communication is trust, so if this person doesn't trust you? Then there is no need to associate again. can only be as light as water between gentlemen.

In fact, if a person is unwilling and believes you, it is useless for you to say that no matter how much you sit on.

Summary. When a person reminds himself not to trust others, subconsciously a person who is prone to believing others, the person who will say this may have encountered deception.

When a person reminds himself not to trust others, subconsciously a person who is prone to believing others, the person who will say this may have encountered deception.

So I wondered whether to believe or not, because this person was a colleague, and the company was currently promoting people, and then reminded myself not to trust the words of the leader too much.

Do you mean to trust this colleague or not?

What is it about? Makes you need to be so cautious.

The subconscious mind doesn't believe her, but I don't know if she really reminds herself.

Well, so you're struggling with whether to trust her or not?

Is there some kind of competition between her and you?

It's not a competitor, it's related to work, everyone usually gets along well, and in the past, things involving work generally don't take the initiative to help.

Well, it's a normal colleague relationship, did she give you any advice? What about promotions?

I think you can take a look at what his advice is about, and how does it affect you if you were to do it?

There is no advice at work, just a reminder not to trust the words of the leader after promotion.

At the moment, I'm still hesitating whether to reply to the message or just don't see it.

Oh, and if that's the case, you can reply directly, thank you for the reminder.

Because whether you believe her or not, she may not always see the result. Secondly, you can also try to understand why she said that. Maybe it's because after the promotion, the leader has higher requirements for the staff to talk to the worker, and some of the promises made in the past cannot be fulfilled in the end, or other socks and cherry blossoms.

What was the final idea? In fact, you can look at your own heart, because whether you believe her actions or not, it depends on yourself. If you choose to believe that he will affect your work efficiency?

If you take it as a suggestion, you can or you can't.

To believe in yourself is to have self-confidence, to have self-confidence in everything you do, to be confident in yourself, to believe that you will be able to do well, and you will be able to succeed.

Believing in others is not the same as believing in yourself. If you believe in a person very much, that one, it can mean that you get along with him more or that he does everything that satisfies you, so that you become dependent on him, and you will trust him very much.

People who are good to you are not necessarily good people, and people who are not good to you are not necessarily bad people. People can pretend, you can't trust others from this aspect alone, you have to understand a person from many aspects, and only when you know more will you have the corresponding foundation.

Believing in yourself means having faith in yourself, recognizing yourself, and doing the right thing.

Believing in others is not the same as believing in yourself. First of all, it literally means that others are others and themselves are themselves. People are multifaceted, and they don't know their hearts.

Secondly, you have to learn to distinguish between the true and the false who are good to you, some of them are good to you and are using you to disguise the good, not to mention the people who are not good to you, and they can't even do basic respect.

You have to get to know them more and observe them to see if they are sincere people, what a person has done for a long time, subconscious and micro-expressions, it is actually easy to see whether they are worthy of being a person who can make me believe.

People are always self-interested, don't trust anyone easily, and only yourself can be relied on.

If husband and wife can trust each other and be honest with each other, then the couple will be happy and the family will be harmonious.

If friends can trust each other and be sincere with each other, then such a friendship relationship is very comfortable and pleasant.

If the superiors and subordinates of the Xiang sedan chair can trust each other, then the work efficiency of this team is very high, and everyone's working state will be the best.

However, not everyone will trust you.

Thomas. There is a saying in Harris's "The Silence of the Lambs" that says it well: when no one trusts you, silence and persistence are the best counterattack and proof.

The road of life is too slippery, people's hearts are too complicated, and in a society where financial interests are paramount, there are no eternal friends, only eternal interests.

Believe in others, it is better to believe in yourself, you are reliable, expect others to be good to you, selfless help is impossible, can not solve your problems.

As the old saying goes, suffering losses is a blessing, but also an experience and lesson, understanding that not everyone is a good person, and there are many deceptions and injuries, and it is also a good thing to train the strongest and most mature self.

Put a good mentality, try to do your own thing, I believe that there are still many good people in the world, and there are still true friends, but there are very few, not many, maybe only one or two, or none at all, which is also normal, this must be understood.

In this impetuous society, trust between people is constantly decreasing, and although the whole society, everyone is trying to preach and maintain the importance of trust, but the truth is not as rosy as reported or in the news. Building trust can take a long time, take a lot of effort to cultivate, and even need to be maintained for a long time to ensure that trust remains unchanged. However, the collapse of trust sometimes only takes a short time, or even a moment, and can become an irreversible situation where there is no trust at all.

When there is no trust between people, there is suspicion and suspicion between each other, then there is no team to speak of, seamless cooperation cannot be established, and win-win results cannot be achieved, and the whole society will fall into a state of stagnation. Fortunately, in this society, it is not yet terminally ill. But we should not overestimate optimism.

In this complex society, not everyone is sincere about others, and a person's humanity is very changeable and unpredictable in the face of special circumstances. So the only thing we can do is to see others clearly, and not to trust them easily, no matter how much they say or do. In life, there are countless examples of financial, mental, and physical harm caused to oneself by easily trusting others.

Although sometimes it is not as serious as in life, it will affect your career and even affect your life trajectory.

When a person has no trust in your heart, no one will trust that person anymore and will even stay away from him. When a person causes distrust to you once, then the person's creditworthiness is no longer a perfect score in your heart, and it will decrease with the dishonesty again and again, until it is completely untrustworthy. Therefore, those who often break their trust in others should reflect on themselves, otherwise you will sooner or later become a person who is hated by everyone.

Please also ask most people to keep their eyes open and see each other's behavior before doing things. The world is not so pessimistic, not so optimistic, not everyone is really good, we can only improve our ability to discriminate, do not easily trust others, in order not to be deceived too badly.

Yes, I am also like this, everyone as an independent individual in the development of society, nature has a selfish side, there is an old saying that people do not die for themselves, which also shows that everyone must consider the problem from their own point of view. When that person interacts with others, you can't fully trust others, we don't know when there will be a conflict of interest with others because of what, so we must be vigilant and leave room for ourselves, which also shows that when we interact with others, we can't easily trust others.

Can't easily trust others, are you like this, fortunately, now there will be such a situation as the landlord said in work and life, will worry about being deceived, and will have the heart of guarding against others, as the saying goes, the heart of harming people must not have, the heart of letting people go is indispensable, that's it, so there will be such a mentality in life, and will not easily trust others.

Instead of saying that we can't trust others easily, we should strive to "rely on ourselves to the fullest extent in everything".

With such ideas and actions, you can naturally reduce the deliberate deception and harm caused by others!

For what other people do, some things we prefer to believe, and some things we try not to believe.

Among them, we should be vigilant against the remarks that "you can get unequal rewards for nothing" or "get unequal rewards at a very small price", and it is better not to be gullible.

As for the work or life advice given to you by others, such as the advice I am talking about, such as "rely on your own efforts to maximize everything", you will not lose anything if you listen to it, on the contrary, the reward will belong to you.

Therefore, what we need to learn is to judge right and wrong, not to generalize anything from anyone.

If you take my advice, it means that you are trying to trust the judgment of others, and this is the first step for you to change.

Look at people, if it is your own relatives and friends, I don't think you need to marry and suspect anything, if it is a colleague or an ordinary friend, you can't easily believe many things, you need your own analysis and judgment, so that there will be no big problems!

I think there's a difference between someone else and a friend. If you define someone as someone else, it means that his or her relationship is not as good as your friend's relationship. You don't have to be a friend, because you don't know how you relate to her.

So do you have to distinguish between your so-called friends and really get friends? It's just a friend of wine and meat. If it's a friend of wine and meat, advise you to keep an eye on it, but if it's the kind of trustworthy one, you still have to trust.

For example, you have always had a good relationship with him or her, and it is enough to trust each other. As for others, you must make your own judgment in everything, and don't be swayed by others. Be self-judgmental.

For example, when he or she says something, you can listen to it, but you have to judge how it affects you and whether you can do it. Sometimes, you should be rational, otherwise you will suffer a lot. I have a bunch of friends, those so-called friends.

But there are only a few real friends, and I know very well and understand very well. The positioning of a few of them in my mind is also very accurate and clear. I can trust them.

Finding them when something happens, or helping them if you have something, is something I absolutely trust. If they change and I suffer, I am willing, but only once. That's the trust I gave them.

And for the last time. You should keep a very rational mind when dealing with things. Especially now, there are always people who coax or something, or whatever, you are in the mood, let others preach it, forget who your surname is, and often do things that you regret and make yourself suffer.

And these things are often done by your so-called friends, friends who drink and meat. I'm sorry.,Personal understanding.,There's something bad.,I hope you'll forgive me.。。。

You can't trust anything else.

Man, this is very reasonable. If you easily trust others, it can only mean that you have not yet understood this society, or you are a rookie who has not yet stepped into society.

Some people may say that friends are all friends, you don't trust him easily, and he won't treat you as a friend. In fact, friends also have to settle accounts, what friends are, friends can reveal their scheming and express their thoughts. But friends don't believe what they say.

In reality, you have to have the style of a villain first and then a gentleman, otherwise sometimes the consequences are unimaginable.