Can parents really give their children the best education?

Do your best, after all, in this world, there is only better, not the best.

I don't think it's a foreign language, it's not a violin, it's not a handiwork, it's three spiritual powers:

1. Self-confidence: This is the most important, self-confidence is the foundation of a successful life, a confident person can fully stimulate all their abilities, will boldly pursue their ideals. To cultivate children's self-confidence, not only do you need encouragement and praise from time to time, but more importantly, let your child do it, let the child know that he can do it, and this kind of confidence is the real confidence, the confidence that can stand the test.

2. Responsibility: If self-confidence is to let the child understand that I can do it, responsibility is to tell the child why I want to do it. Traditional Chinese education attaches great importance to children's sense of responsibility education, but maybe you can't find the word responsibility in the relevant ancient books, because the ancients used the most basic responsibility that people should bear to cultivate children's responsibility, that is, filial piety, your parents gave birth to you and raised you, your most basic responsibility is to be filial to your parents, if a person can't do filial piety, can he be expected to be willing to take on greater responsibility?

Therefore, "filial piety, the foundation of virtue, the place of teaching".

3. Tutoring: Self-confidence is to tell the child what you can do, responsibility is to tell the child what you want to do, and tutoring is to tell the child what you should do.

Therefore, as parents, we should not only give our children enough strength to this arrow prepared by God, but also make this arrow flat and straight, so that it can help this arrow go farther, go more smoothly, and will not deviate on the way to the target.

Hello, the ultimate goal of parents educating their children is to make their children happier. Happiness is actually a very subjective thing, and everyone's standard of happiness is different. Parents educate their children in order to get better grades, enter better institutions with better grades, get better education, get better jobs when working, and get a better life.

Or to educate children about some truths in life, which parents themselves experienced. Only by teaching these truths to children can children take fewer crooked paths on the road in the future. This kind of education is often more important, so that children can be happy and happy, which is the ultimate goal of many parents.

In fact, many parents don't care about their children's annual income, what they can eat and live, they just want their children to be very happy every day, and the best way to live a happy family is the best. This kind of happiness is worthy of respect and is worth pursuing.

There is also a part of education that is put on the teacher, and of course, the average teacher will teach the child knowledge. There will also be many teachers who will teach children some common sense in life and the principles of life, this part of education is particularly important, and sometimes it is the light of students in the dark night. Without this light, the child is likely to go down the wrong path.

It not only affects the child's future development, but also brings some problems to parents and teachers. Parents and teachers don't want to see the consequences, which is why education is so important.

Therefore, the ultimate goal of parents to educate their children is to make their children live better, and parents see that their children can live happily, in fact, the parents' purpose is achieved. Of course, there will be some parents who want their children to become more productive and achieve greater achievements, and most parents have a relatively simple and sincere purpose for their children's education.

I wish you good health.

Don't give your child the best education, the so-called best education will only stimulate your anxiety and make you pay a parenting IQ tax, because there is no end to this best. If you enroll your child in a tutoring class today, 200 per hour, and someone else enrolls in a class, 1000 per hour, is he better for the child than you are for the child? No, you only have two hours to spend with your child after work today, and someone else's full-time mother can spend a day with your child, does he love his child more than you?

No, because he may have the support of the elderly, the sharing of a nanny, and you have to face the workplace and pressure while taking care of the children.

So you see, the starting point of family education varies greatly, depending on multiple factors such as the parents' own situation, culture, and economy. The most cruel thing about the disaster is that it will always fall on us or anyone else indiscriminately and randomly, without giving us any time or opportunity to regret it. So in fact, in the face of this random and indiscriminate landing, the best thing each of us can do is to live with gratitude.

It's not a chicken soup, it's a choice.

If we want the best for our children, then our parents will simply not live their own lives, and the best means comparison, once compared, there will always be someone better than you. If you strive for the best, you will naturally be anxious, uneasy, panicked, and your emotions will hurt your child even more. The only way out is not to use the best, just the right one.

It's as if we don't give ourselves the best, as long as it's appropriate.

Parenting is a win-win situation, parents enjoy and enjoy, and children are not far behind. And it is definitely not the unilateral self-sacrifice of parents and the catastrophe of the soul, and finally attributing the cause of their suffering to the child, which is the best, he will continue to cultivate your sense of guilt and guilt. And all you have to do is tell yourself to say 60 points long live, a little more waste, and accept yourself, because we are all just ordinary people.

Because giving children the best education can actually bring a lot of pressure to children, because children have to learn a variety of hobbies from an early age.

Children should be in the field that is best for them, and the best education is not necessarily the best for them.

In this case, it is very unfavorable for the growth and development of children's independent ability, and it is also not good for their mental training, so we must let children accept all kinds of difficulties through their personal ability to improve their abilities and make them more excellent.

I think that in these ways, first, be friends with children and not take radical behaviors.

To educate your child correctly is to let go of your posture and take the initiative to be friends with your child, rather than acting high all the time. Parents should often have in-depth and intimate conversations with their children to convey their love for their children.

In addition, when children make mistakes, parents should first calm their emotions, avoid taking aggressive actions against their children, regardless of whether they are indiscriminately taught with sticks first, but calmly help children analyze and solve problems.

Treating children harshly not only fails to make them realize their mistakes and correct them, but also leaves a shadow on their hearts and makes their personalities extreme.

2. Give your child more company.

No one can replace the love and companionship of parents, only under the careful teaching and companionship of parents can children receive better education and develop good habits.

But in real life, many parents are forced by the pressure of life to let their grandparents and grandparents come over to help watch the children or leave the children directly in their hometown.

In this case, parents are unable to provide enough time for their children, which will have a negative impact on his development.

Therefore, parents should treat their children more attentively, communicate with them more often, communicate with them more, and keep abreast of their life and learning, so that they can feel that even if their parents are not around, they are still caring and loving themselves.

Preface: If you want to provide the best education for your children, you must first create a good educational environment, and in the process of your child's growth, you must create a good family atmosphere for your child, so as to promote your child's growth and development. In the family, the emotions of the parents are very important for the child and can also affect the child's psychological development.

Every parent attaches great importance to their children's learning, but we must pay attention not to blindly enroll in some cram schools for children, which will only make children more bored with learning, when we care about children, we must pay attention to using the right methods, if you want to improve your children's learning ability, parents can accompany their children to read more often, so that children can develop a good reading habits, so that they will also be interested in learning. In the process of children's growth and development, there will also be some bad emotions.

Parents must pay attention to teaching their children how to control their emotions, if they want their children to be able to regulate their emotions well, first of all, parents must have the ability to control their emotions, no matter what problems arise, parents must pay attention to control their emotions, calmly solve problems, so that children are affected, will be like parents to solve any problems calmly. Because parents are the first enlightenment teachers of children, so education is also very important, if you want your children to get a good education, first of all, parents must pay attention to their own quality, set a good example for their children, so that children are influenced by their parents, and will also develop good habits.

Usually we must pay attention to care more about their children, so that children can feel the love of their parents, but also to avoid children in the process of growing up insecure, usually can take children to outdoor activities, so that children can recognize more new things, must pay attention not to overprotect their children, so that children become timid and cowardly, appropriate let go, for the growth of children is also very good.

You should accompany your child to grow up together, understand your child's development, understand your child's personality, and provide your child with a sense of security. Parents should provide love to their children, build trust with their children, and maintain a good relationship with their children, and this kind of education is a good education.

Parents definitely need to find the best school for their children, and then give their children the best teaching link, so that they can provide the best education. It must be taught according to aptitude, and then according to the different personality of each baby, give the baby different education methods, so that is the best education.

In normal times, children should be educated to make children become polite people, let children become quality people, and teaching by word and deed is the best education.

Parents should have a good family education, be emotionally stable in front of their children, and also explain some reasoning to their children, and try their best to find a good school for their children, so as to provide the best education for their children. A good education is to let children learn some knowledge and cultivate a correct three views. Let the child get better and better.

As parents, we should teach our children by word and deed, and teach our children by word and deed. Usually in the process of educating children, you can't be too strict with your children, otherwise it will cause your children to be very uncomfortable, and you will also regret making your parents feel that they don't love them very much.

If parents are too strict with their children, they don't know how to educate their children. And if your behavior is very incorrect, then it will also make your child develop some bad habits, so it is recommended that parents can educate their children in the right way. If we usually want our children to do something, we must teach them by word and deed, so that they can learn some better behaviors from their parents, so that the children's overall grades can be better.

Don't push your children too much, it's also a very important thing, if we always push your children, it will make them feel very uncomfortable, and it will easily lead to children becoming very rebellious. Therefore, this phenomenon is very incorrect, and parents must pay attention to the occurrence of this phenomenon.

We should treat our children in the right way, so that children can feel the love of their parents, in addition, parents should usually encourage their children more, so that children become more confident, so that the relationship between children and parents can become better, and for children's quality education, we also attach great importance to it. In fact, educating children is what parents need to constantly, through some mistakes made by children, and then to educate children, usually we don't want to do it all at once, otherwise it is easy to pull out the seedlings and help the phenomenon grow. I hope that everyone can pay more attention to the occurrence of this situation and avoid this kind of problem.