What about your child s education? Procrastinating, throwing things off?

First, help children develop independence, a sense of responsibility and a serious attitude from an early age. Some parents believe that when their children are older, they will naturally learn from their own example. In fact, this kind of "leading by example" is counterproductive, and the child will only become more dependent and lack a sense of responsibility.

Because parents are used to worrying about them, they have no opportunity to exercise, and their ability naturally "shrinks". It is not necessary for parents to be housekeepers of their children, but to teach them methods, conditions and opportunities. For example, children always forget to check during exams and often make mistakes.

This is because parents usually help him check his homework. If children slowly develop a good habit of checking themselves when they are doing homework, they will naturally behave this way during exams. Parents should not help their children pack their school bags, but should ask them to tidy up their school bags the night before, so that they will not be flustered and lost the next day.

Give your child a place to put things in separate categories, and to make it easier to remember, you can label them and ask them to put things back when they are used up. When your child is a little older (after the age of 12), teach your child to make a plan for the next day or week, write down what he wants to do each day, put it in a prominent place, and help him remember things. Second, parents should consciously train their children's memory skills.

When children are young, cultivate children's attention and memory from the small details of daily life. For example, before going out with his mother, let the child help the mother check what to bring; Check yourself from head to toe before going to school to see what you still don't bring; Write down the homework left by the teacher in the notebook every time; There are some simple things that children can keep in their hands; When your child forgets something, don't remind him right away, let him remember it for himself. It can also be used to develop children's memory skills in the form of games.

For example, while playing outside, suddenly ask your child, "There is a red flag around." Where is it?

Ask your child to search for a target quickly and point it out right away. Third, let the child suffer because of his carelessness. For example, if the child has gone out and remembered that he forgot something at home, parents should not pick it up for him, let the child go back to pick it up by himself, even if he is late or watch a movie late, let the child remember this lesson.

It is also possible to use over-correction methods to reinforce the child's good behavior. For example, ask him to check his bag 3 times before going out; Don't buy a new one as soon as you throw it away, ask your child to help with household chores to earn pocket money, save it up to buy it, or contribute some money. Let them experience that things are not easy to come by, and he will be careful next time.

Fourth, some children are careless because of inability to concentrate, visual vibration problems, hand-eye incoordination, etc., resulting in children's learning ability disorders, which require special psychological training to solve.

Parent education is the most important, generally speaking, before the child graduates from primary school, family education is far more important than school education, and more directly affects the formation of children's character ability, parents' words and deeds, the impact on children is the most direct, so parents should set an example, parents are the child's first teacher.

1. Be sure to eliminate the child's psychological state of dependence. It's a problem at all. Many parents like to take care of all the affairs of their children, so they help their children eat and sleep.

There are some parents who hate to help their children teach and take exams themselves. In this kind of situation, the child has created a psychological state of dependence, and always feels that others will help the poor in everything.

2. Parents should lead by example. Parents' speech and behavior are more harmful to their children, and these harms are often subtle, even when groomed. Make sure that children's shoes are clean and tidy, and that their shoes don't have to be littered in the first place; Ask your child to put the contents in the kitchen cupboards and chests of drawers and comb them first. Ask your child to immediately return the belongings to the original area, first of all, to ensure that he or she is.

3. Fix the part where the child puts the object. Give the child a fixed area, a standard home can give the child a special area, put the child's books and small toys, stipulate the child to classify the textbooks, exercise books, toys, and parents also assist the child to hang some plush dolls.

4. Let the child pay for himself. When a child loses something, it is important to emphasize his incorrectness and make him bear the negative influence. Lost teapot?

Have you lost your myopic glasses? Lost your phone? Let the child go the same way to find it, once, twice, and three times......But I couldn't find it.

It's okay, you can buy again, but you have to pay with your own pocket money.

This is a psychological problem for children, and it also shows that the education of parents is not in place. You can strengthen the supervision of children, and also cultivate children's sense of time and self-care ability, so as to be able to get rid of this bad problem.

I think it's a behavioral problem, and it is necessary to establish good living habits for children, let them develop a good habit of checking, and train their children's speed more.

The child's loss is a behavioral problem, and this problem must be corrected by the parents.

Children's memory is relatively simple, unlike adults, they can remember many things at the same time, they can't remember many details, and they often remember one part and forget another. Children often litter at home, things do not have a fixed position, after a long time, the child forgets to put the **, to find the time to find. For example, if a child forgets to take a book or homework book when he goes to school, parents will send it to his child, and the child will become dependent, and his parents can always help him deal with the problems he encounters.

How can we change the child's habit of losing everything, and we can do that?

1. Categorize your child's belongings and put them in a fixed position.

We can prepare a small cabinet with many grids for children, so that children's daily necessities, school supplies, and toys are placed in different grids and labeled, so that children can take things very conveniently, and prevent children from placing things indiscriminately.

2. Parents learn to let go and cultivate children's independence and sense of obligation.

Parents should reduce their children's arrangement, let their children pick up things by themselves, and cultivate children's independence and sense of obligation. For example, after the child finishes his homework, he should pick up the homework himself and get up in the morning to check it; I tidy up the room and put things in a fixed position, and gradually the child will develop the habit of placing things in a standard manner.

3. Cultivate children's habit of doing things immediately.

Prevent procrastination when your child does things and finish what needs to be done right away so that they don't forget what to do.

4. Parents should encourage their children more.

When the child finishes one thing carefully, parents should encourage the child more, let the child build self-confidence, and do not label the child as "losing the three and four".

Summary: In the process of children's growth, parents should be patient and insist on calmness, because parents will also lose things, so mistakes are inevitable. Parents' angry rebuke will only make the child sad, and instead of this, it is better to let the child develop a good habit and be more organized when doing things in the future.

Children should be told that no matter what they do in life, they should have a good mind and not lose everything, otherwise they will end up being particularly annoying to parents. Children should also be taught how to protect their things and should be checked regularly.

You can let your child develop the habit of doing things in a fixed order in life, and you can usually let your child be responsible for the simpler things at home, let your child complete it independently, do it in order, and stick to the same thing for a long time, it will become his habit.

To make the child's life very organized, parents should do a good job of guiding, set an example, and let the child get rid of the bad problem of carelessness, and slowly the child can solve this problem.

Children's loss is a problem of parental education, as a way for parents to get rid of their children's bad habits: to give children the right way to guide, so that children say goodbye to the loss of three or four, is the unshirkable responsibility of parents, don't look at this is a small problem, but many problems, it is because of many small problems, that the state can lay the foundation for big problems. Every year, there will be many candidates, when they are preparing to go to the examination room, only to find that they do not have all the things, and some are even college entrance examination students, which is related to the future of children.

Therefore, as a parent, you should cultivate good habits in your child since you are a child, so as to prevent losing and bringing unnecessary trouble to your child's future development. Children are a mirror of parents, parents' behavior will have a great impact on children, many parents themselves have no way to be careless, but to stipulate that children become careful, will make children feel that parents can not do things, why do they want to do unbalanced psychology.

The problem of children will gradually disappear with the increase of age, the reason is that children begin to become alone, and they will take responsibility for what they have done, therefore, do not help children do anything when they are young, let go of the children to do things by themselves, and slowly after time to temper, children will slowly correct the problem of losing three or four, when a person has a plan, life will become orderly. Stool type.

Children are the same, don't feel that the child is still young, start with every little thing in life, let the child write what to do every day, what must be prepared, and wait for it when doing it, you can follow your own plan to achieve the goal, insist on cultivating a good habit of writing opportunities, and the child will be more alone. Parents should not have a quick success mentality because of their children's carelessness, which will be difficult to correct for a while. Parents should be more patient with their children and educate their children more.

If parents scold their children because of their carelessness, not only will the carelessness not be dealt with, but it will also cause psychological problems to the children.

I think that children often lose everything, and it is indeed a problem of family education; If you want your child to get rid of this bad problem, then you should let him try it, because the consequences of losing it will be enough for him to remember this lesson.

I think it's very likely that it's really a parent's problem, and it's very likely that Liang Pao is because of this kind of education method, which caused the disadvantages of the royal key; At this time, parents must correct their children's mistakes in time, get rid of some bad habits of their children, and check them frequently.

1. Parents don't care about the children to clean up, the total no years old follow the children, every day he preaches to himself and cleans up, and he forgets a few times after he will have a long memory. Secondly, prepare a plan book with him, and write down all the things you have to do every day in a notebook.

The harm of poor memory is infinite, it does not only affect the child's learning and life, but also affects the child's disgust and mentality, so it is necessary to find the right way to help the child improve his memory.

If the child has such a situation, then we can let them have a certain degree of self-care ability by asking them to restore the location of the object.