After breaking up, everything is gone, after breaking up, can t you live without him?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-13
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's useless to say anything. Time will dilute.

    Pull yourself together.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No matter how much you don't care, why do you go together, of course, you will walk together if you have feelings for each other, if you don't care about feelings, then how can you become boyfriend and girlfriend, breaking up is a painful thing and an ordeal, as long as people will have heartache, as long as people will feel lonely, of course, that feeling is also given to yourself, although you are not alone, but somewhere in your heart you will let yourself be lonely, thinking about you just returned to the self that did not know her before, Think about the people around you, think about your friends, it's not that they don't care about you but you have locked yourself in a lonely hut, think about it, a big man still has a long way to go, there is nothing that can't be passed, and the pain will soon fade away, believe in yourself, don't seal yourself up

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There is no place for men to fall.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Your dad drank too much, why did he have blood in his mouth? Is it red wine? Presumably fake.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You're exactly like I used to be. You can't bear him, but he still hates to break up. It's that she doesn't value you.

    The only thing you have to do now is not to go to him. **Don't hit either. It will only make you more sad.

    Find more friends around you to be dumbfounded. When a person reaches the limit, he hides and cries when there is no one. Or call a friend**.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Go find new feelings.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is absolutely no such situation for a breakup without a reason, it's just that you don't know the reason and don't know what the problem is**, there are reasons for the breakup, don't be like this, the past will pass, and then think about it has no practical effect on reality. Of course, I will say a simple sentence here, it is impossible to mean that you can figure it out, after all, you are the party, and I am just an outsider.

    What you say here is "no reason", which is your own opinion. If you think there is no reason, the other person may have his own reason, and you can't understand his reason, so naturally you think that there is no reason.

    It's hard to describe this kind of thing in words.

    I think you're a little bit of a problem with your mentality. On the other hand, I think it would be better if you were to join in a feeling of gratitude and rejoicing.

    didn't go to the end, to put it bluntly, you can't get along. If he lets go, he can go to find someone he can get along with, and in the same way, you can also go to someone who can get along with you?

    Getting along with people is like that, you can't force it. To get along is to get along, and to get along is not to get along. When you are a party to the party, this kind of truth is really difficult to accept. But that's just the way it is.

    I used to have a friend for a few years, but eventually we broke up. It was so sad that I was going to die. But after a while, I figured it out little by little.

    And after that, I got to know a girl who was more suitable for me. That's why I said you should be grateful.

    You explore your own shortcomings from your previous relationship, and then look at them with an objective eye, and correct some of your bad habits, shortcomings, or something. In this way, he is a teacher to you, and I think you have to be grateful for the teacher.

    It's not going to help you if you go on so much. Because only you can help yourself in this kind of thing. Or that you can meet your own soulmates of the opposite sex before you figure it out for yourself. There is nothing else to do.

    Those who live in the past will never move forward.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After the breakup, I can't live without him, because everyone is an independent individual, and it will not be because of one person's departure, another individual can't live, regardless of boys and girls, we must be strong and independent individuals, not individuals who depend on others.

    In modern society, whether men or women, are relatively independent individuals, women can work independently, make money independently, live independently, and even form a better independent personality mentally, so in this situation, there is no one who can not do without whom, because the feeling is a very subtle feeling, just like the secretion of dopamine, a short time, sometimes and sometimes nothing, so once the secretion period is over, whether it is dopamine or feelings will disappear, So don't think that you won't be able to survive at the time when your relationship is the hardest, everything is mediocre and self-disturbing, and when you pass the time, you will laugh at how stupid you are at that time.

    If you can't let yourself escape from the chaotic time of that relationship, then you can find some ways to escape, such as talking to friends, telling your heart of pain and reluctance, crying out loud, releasing your emotions, you will be much better after a period of time, or you can also devote your whole energy to work or study, because once people divert their attention, they will not always think about it, suffer from gains and losses, but the more concentrated they are in work and study, the more quickly they can forget about emotional matters, after a period of time, Not only has work or study increased, but the emotional pain has also disappeared.

    Others say that the best way to end a relationship is to start another relationship, modern society is a fast-paced society, there are so many delicious and fun people in the world, why do you have to hang yourself on a tree, so don't waste time on unworthy people, hurry up to enrich yourself, make yourself strong and beautiful, so good things will naturally follow you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not like that, after a breakup, you will feel that your life is very colorful, and you can do what you like, and at the same time, you are very free.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Whoever leaves in the world can live, but if you love deeply and pay more, you will be sad for a while, but it will slowly fade over time. It takes a process.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, there is no saying in this world that whoever leaves can't live, it's just that after breaking up, you feel that you love each other very much, and you can't live without each other, in fact, it's not love, it's just unwilling.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, whoever is gone can live the same. There is not only love in life, but also a lot of precious friendship and family, there are poems, wine and distance, look forward and love life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, I am a more rational person, and even if I break up, it will not affect me, it can only mean that the two people are not suitable.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No one can live without them, and those who say they can't live are just excuses made by people who don't want to struggle.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course not. Whoever leaves can continue to live, so there is no need to think like this.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because of the breakup, you don't have to care too much about each other, you don't have to worry too much about each other, and you don't have to be jealous of each other's heterosexual contact, in short, let go, so you won't be hurt by the other party's inadvertent behavior, and of course you can feel more intimate than before without mental burden and pressure, and degenerate from a lover to a friend. Why won't anyone propose to reunite, because no one dares or wants to be stung again, isn't there such a sentence "I'm afraid of the well rope after being bitten by a snake for ten years"? .

    Break up because each other is not mentally prepared to love each other for a lifetime, and do not think about the past to fully accept each other.

    The end of love is not endless happiness, but also the pressure and burden that each other should bear, as well as the trust and loyalty of each other.

    So don't forget that you have to enjoy your rights and have obligations to each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    They all know each other better, and this situation is only temporary. Maybe it's irresponsible to be ambiguous.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Didn't find a stand-in? There is a ,,, that is being used as a tool.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

    The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

    The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

    Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

    Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

    If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    Just the most familiar strangers.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Probably not! But when we meet again, it will feel very different!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't know. I broke up and didn't disappear with my girlfriend. It is generally impossible not to see. Same city. We will meet if we are fated.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Why not? After all, they used to be lovers

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1 Between two people, the relationship is the most important. The material contribution of each other is negligible.

    2 The change in his attitude may be related to your rejection of his sexual requests, because he may want to determine whether you are a match through this behavior, hehe. This is sexual harmony. There have been a lot of marriages that have ended because of sexual discord.

    However, you are a traditional girl, and you refuse. Doesn't he have a chance to know what you're all about sexual harmony? So there's nothing to talk about later.

    3 As for his performance later, I think he should be dating other girls, so I'm alienated from you.

    4. Love is the most important thing to learn in life. The road to loving someone is very long, and there are many things to deal with in the middle.

    You are still very young, and it is recommended that you first slowly understand the society and get to know yourself. Don't say who you love easily.

    Also, don't dwell on what you've done to him. YOU'RE JUST BEGINNING TO LEARN ...

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1. The affection between two people is the most important. The mutual contribution of material things is negligible.

    His attitude changes, you may refuse his sexual requests, and he may want to behave this way to determine if it is a good match for you. Harmony of sexual life. Many marriages end because of disharmony in sexual life.

    A traditional girl, and you refused. Won't he have a chance to know that you are ending your sex life in harmony? What after this alone.

    3. As for his performance, I think he should be so estranged from other girls in a relationship.

    4. Love is the most needed in learning life. The road of love is long, and there are many things to deal with in between.

    You are still young, and it is recommended that you first slowly understand the society and get to know yourself. Don't love anyone.

    Also, don't worry about your salary. Your learning is just beginning. 。

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Why do you bother, give up on him, you will meet someone who really understands you, why hang yourself from a tree.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If only I met this kind of girl, it would be worth it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I've been with my boyfriend for four years, he doesn't care about me anymore, he doesn't care about my feelings, he only pays attention to himself, I talk to him he can't listen to what I'm saying at all, he doesn't want to pay a little for me, I've always been giving, he doesn't have money, he doesn't have a house, he doesn't have anything, he has such an attitude towards me, he wants to start a business and let me take the money out, I have figured it out now, maybe it's better for him to be separated. I want to let him go, let myself go.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You're just a psychopath, is such a person worthy of love? Don't break up yet.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    - This kind of man is early and early! Feelings are not blindly giving, so will you be happy?

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