Is a timid man a useless person?

If a man's character is cowardly, timid, and inferior, and may have a future future, it is because this man has been this kind of character since he was a child, and he may not be the same when he grows up. Because a person's personality is not immutable from childhood to adulthood, with the growth of age and the increase of social experience, or the change of environment, especially as a man, the reality and responsibility he faces, it is impossible for him not to change everything about himself, to adapt to the requirements of this society and family, or to say a small personal survival and development.

Remember Zhou Guoping.

There is a saying: every genius or great man has had an inferiority complex in his bones. Everyone, whether a man or a woman, has been timid, cowardly, or has low self-esteem.

This personality factor is not necessarily his shortcoming, on the contrary, it may be caused by his upbringing or family education, and sometimes it may be caused by an accident. But there are many people who are ashamed and brave, and after realizing the shortcomings and harms of their own character, they constantly change themselves and improve themselves, so that they can become blockbusters when they grow up, and make many extraordinary and impressive achievements, such men can be found in ancient and modern China and abroad.

As for saying that a man has a cowardly personality and low self-esteem, he will definitely not be able to do well in the future, this situation also exists around him or elsewhere. Mainly because such a man is unwilling to change himself, and sometimes it may be that the environment forces him not to make changes. There are also people who are accustomed to going along with it, or are afraid that a slight change will cause unnecessary pain.

So he has always been such a character since he was a child, he has no responsibility and courage at all, and he doesn't dare to take big strides to do anything, what do you think such a man can do? Even if he meets noble people to help, I am afraid it will be difficult to make a big change.

Hello, I don't know much about this, so I've become bold, so I'm not willing to try. I used to be a timid person too. Since I was in high school.

The teacher asked me to be the class leader. Since then, my courage has changed. Become bold.

I have become very confident and believe in you. You can do it too.

Timidity is a matter of character, and being useful or useless is a matter of ability, so a timid boy will also have his strengths, so he will also be a useful person.

Not necessarily. Timidity is worth what timidity, some men are afraid of some small animals, but this does not prevent him from being very good, right, you can't generalize.

Timidity is mainly due to not being confident in yourself, not believing that you can overcome difficulties, not believing that you can solve problems, this is not something that can be overcome at once, it is related to your character and education since childhood.

The first is to give yourself positive hints, and secondly, you must be good at discovering your own strengths, correctly understanding yourself, being able to look at others and yourself comprehensively, and understanding your own personality strengths and weaknesses. Learning to build on your strengths and avoid weaknesses can help you develop your own unique self-confidence. Again, make friends and learn from mentors.

Find the source, see what you are afraid of, break through what you are afraid of, practice Muay Thai twice if you are afraid of fighting, speak diligently if you are afraid of talking, find more people to talk to, it is better to make a fool of yourself in front of you than to suffer a loss in the future!

Generally speaking, there is a fear of certain things, or there is no confidence in yourself.

To put it simply, people who have just come out of society will have this kind of mentality, and they don't know how to solve things and feel lost.

The simple solution for this kind of person is to watch more and learn more, and learn to use different methods when encountering different things.

If this person is your friend, you should talk to him more and encourage him more. If he's still scared, try to work it out with him when things come along. Let him learn more and make more progress.

If you exclude this category and instead have a fear of something, try to get to the root of the problem. Find a way to help him overcome it.

Do it, start small, take your time, don't run away.

First of all, accept yourself as you are, have a strong psychology, and need to be righteous and ambitious. Contact you to see the book Out of the Anxiety Storm.

Climb the mountain, go to the top of the mountain and shout. It would be nice to experience more.

Just be a little man, don't let go of the tiger in your heart.

Do something you wouldn't dare to do.

When he encounters a problem, let him come forward to solve it and let him know what responsibility is!

No one else can help you with this kind of thing.

1. Enhance self-confidence. Men are most afraid of not having self-esteem, they should keep telling themselves that they are okay, do more things that they are good at, and the better they do, the more positive encouragement they will have, and they will also be praised by others, thereby increasing their self-confidence.

2. Exercise. A man should have a strong physique. Usually exercise more, it is best to practice a confrontational exercise, such as fighting, taekwondo, etc., when the body is strong, the natural courage will be greater.

3. Read more books to increase knowledge. Only by being rational can we have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and only when we encounter things can we know how to do the right thing.

Men, is a symbol of strength, there is masculinity, there is also a vulnerable side, this is human nature, you just show a little more strongly than others, a good adjustment can make you better, a few suggestions to try:

1.Timidity and fear are because of the long-term environmental impact and slowly encapsulated themselves, to open the dark door at the bottom of the heart, let the sun illuminate the whole room, first of all, start from the words: speak clearly, start to speak slowly, and then speed up, practice repeatedly, because talking more can make you cheerful, more friends in life will contact the new environment New things, silence will only make you more autistic, so you can speak well, which is not bold, sometimes watch more variety shows Zhou Xingchi's movie speech, Of course, these are only temporary effects on your heart, and it plays a role in wanting to talk more, want to be happy, and have the potential to motivate your heart to do better, which is just an adjuvant.

2.Reading and writing: The fear in your heart makes you afraid to face the reality of life, only through psychological counseling The positive energy in the book stimulates your potential, and you will not be afraid of anything if you have more knowledge, and you will not be afraid of anything.

3.Learn to sing: When you really learn a song, there is no picture and no lyrics, you can sing it completely with the style of the song, it is also a kind of pride to be proud, self-confidence will come with the wind, work hard, find your own life stage, bravely face the reality, nothing is terrible, only the inner demon, control your own life, believe that you can defeat yourself!

It's a good thing and not a bad thing for a boy to be timid, and if he is timid, he won't do bad things, and he will definitely not step on two boats in the future. He's out there, you can rest assured.

The downside is that if something unexpected happens, he may not be able to make the wisest response because he is timid. It would be different if he was smart. Therefore, it is best for you to judge his personality.

People always grow up slowly. Slowly adapt to the unfamiliar environment. Timidity is not a problem, there is nothing to help with.

Be careful to sail the ship of ten thousand years. I think your brother's performance is pretty good for a 13-year-old. Children should not jaywalk, and they should indeed lock the door at night.

Singing the K Ferris wheel is a personal interest, so what does it matter if you don't go. Riding the Ferris wheel a hundred times does not prove that the person is brave. Meals that have been in the fridge for more than 24 hours should be thrown away.

You can't eat it for more than two days. Encourage your brother and don't emphasize the concept of "you are timid". First, he is not necessarily timid, it is likely that your conceptual limitations think that he is timid.

Second, don't let children have their own timid fixed thinking.

Timidity is not a disadvantage, it is the performance of a man, but it is necessary to be brave and resourceful. Timid boys are generally very assertive and not the kind of people who don't have ideas. My son is like that, he is very timid, but he is very assertive and measured, and I think this is very good.

I think it's a bad thing for both boys and girls to be timid, no matter what you do, there will be a lot of restrictions, and even a lot of things that should belong to you, work, and because you are timid, you don't dare to fight for the things and things you want.

Some parents always complain that their children are too timid, too dependent, always scared, and even have problems communicating with others. To solve the problem of children's timidity, we must first find the "**". Generally speaking, the problem lies in the following three aspects, first of all, some parents protect their children too much and too carefully, afraid of knocking, afraid of falling, afraid of any discomfort, always take their children with them, inseparable, so that children form a strong sense of dependence and protection.

As the child grows up, the inertia of protection continues, and the child is not properly "released" according to the development of the child's ability, and the result is that the child is afraid when he leaves the adult. Secondly, in order to prevent their children from doing certain things, some parents use wolves, tigers, and ghosts to scare their children; Others, such as some pictures in the mass media, some stories that tell terrible content, or some accidental events in life, such as fires and running water, will also scare children ......These experiences leave a terrible shadow on the child's psyche and cause the child to be timid. Secondly, some children rarely interact with others since they were young, except for their parents and elders, they rarely play with children of the same age, and rarely have the opportunity to visit relatives and friends.

In this way, the child's ability to communicate is atrophied, and he is afraid to meet the living and speak in front of everyone.

Parents should recognize their own impact on their children's problems. Parents can tell their children in advance about possible changes. Immediately caress the frightened child.

You need to talk to him slowly, gently pat him or hug him tightly, and do so will make him feel safe.

Parents should create an environment for their children to "reduce fear": 1. Create a warm and peaceful family atmosphere, so that children can live freely and freely, and let children have room to give full play; 2. Correct the parent's educational attitude, and realize the doting and pampering of the child from the ideological point of view, which will only cause the child's cowardly and willful character. Parents should build up the confidence to correct their children's cowardly character, and realize that only proper education can enable young children to develop healthily; 3. Usually, pay attention to cultivating children's independence, strong perseverance and good living habits, encourage children to do what they can, and let him (she) learn to take care of himself.

When your child encounters difficulties, don't just do it, but let him or her solve it on his own. Of course, at the beginning, parents should give necessary guidance, so that children can slowly learn to deal with various things on their own, and they should not leave them alone all at once and make them feel helpless and more timid; 4. Take children to nature, so that children can open their minds and broaden their horizons, and teach children appropriate skills, such as singing, painting, handicrafts, etc., so that children firmly believe that they are not stupid, so as to increase their self-confidence and dare to participate in the activities of their friends; 5. Encourage children to interact with others. You can take your child to various group occasions more often, and the friendly respect shown by others to your child can make him feel happy, and the child will also pay attention to socializing with others.

The most important thing is to ask the child to have more contact with peers and peers, and consciously invite some children to come to the home and let him be the little master. Always pay attention to helping your child make new friends.

Don't close your harbor for anyone Even if you have experienced it in the past, don't treat it as a burden to experience it as an experience to make your next relationship better Because no one is the same No one is perfect So as long as you think it's good, you have to give it a try Your true love should be fought for by yourself At the same time, I hope you can have your own happiness.

If you're a man, you should have the courage to confess to her! It's not terrible to refuse, it's terrible that you don't have the courage to confess! It's not that no one has been rejected, I've also been rejected, but I haven't given up, if you don't confess to her, how do you know if she likes you or not?

There's nothing to be afraid of.

The more you rub it, the braver you become!

A man must look like a man.

Otherwise, there is nothing that a woman likes.