Am I a person who will never be useful?

The answer is of course and no. Everything has its meaning of existence, no matter how useless you are, you are still a part of this society, this world and even this universe, maybe you don't have enough power to change others or yourself, so you can definitely do it without being changed by this society. If you don't follow through on your beliefs, you can't do anything, so don't look down on yourself, there are some things you just don't want to do, you want to do what you can absolutely do, try to survive.

You think you're useless, probably because your strengths aren't obvious, and your low self-esteem leads you to think this way.

If you feel that you are useless, if you feel that you are not good enough, then it means that you are still self-motivated. If you try to do better in everything, be strict with yourself, set clear goals, and strive for it, I don't think you will say that you are useless so easily. At least, in the eyes of others, you are not a useless person.

Of course not, you have to remember one sentence, I am born to be useful.

It won't be forever A moment of bending over doesn't mean always bowing your head One day, you'll hold your head up and you'll be a great person.

I was born to be useful. It's just that you may not have gotten into that kind of environment that adapts to you.

How so. Thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi, don't bully young people into poverty.

Not necessarily, some things are good if you have a heart.

Living in this world is never smooth sailing, and you will encounter countless problems on the way forward, and when you are unable to solve these problems, you will doubt yourself and lose self-confidence. But please believe that it is not useless for anyone to come into this world, and it is only because you carry too many things that you have negative thoughts. But no matter what kind of problems you encounter, you should not lose hope in life.

You may feel that there is no hope in life, but I want to tell you that your family, your parents, your wife and children are your hope. For them, you are also their hope, you are the man in the family, and if you have lost faith in the future, they have no hope.

Friends, people live a lifetime, everything can be lost, that is, hope, the desire for the future life cannot be lost, because without hope, everything is really over. They are not a burden, and with them by your side on the road of life, you will not feel alone. They will feel happy to have you by their side in life.

The inscription on the Alamein Martyrs Monument says: To the world you are just a soldier, but to your family, you are the whole world.

Friends, think of your lover and children, you are their whole world!

So, for their sake, please don't give up hope for the future, okay?

There is a saying that where I am today is the regretful yesterday that many people have lost, and each of us has something unique, something that others do not have, or is better than others

Family, children, is your hope, this is the foundation and root of everything, but also the source and goal of your struggle. Without these, you can even have a job diploma. Yes, everything has no motivation and meaning, at most it means that you can enjoy a little, in writing, realize the value of your life.

Your relatives are very supportive of you, no complaints. Don't give up, with a strong backing, there is a harbor for home if you fail, and success is the joy and blessing of the whole family. Don't give up on yourself, work hard, even if you don't gain anything, you won't necessarily lose anything, you're still young, why not try to fight hard

The body is the capital of the revolution, and my advice is to try to keep your body in the best condition, and if you can't do it, go to the hospital for more check-ups

It can be said that I am the same as you, even more useless than you, I have no income with my wife until now, and I have to spend two old heads, now I am thirty years old, and I have lived like this for five years, but it has not improved until now, I am the most useless person.

Therefore, if he wants to seek comfort here, it is better to think more about how to make money and improve the quality of life. I have a friend who started a store selling digital products for 5,000 yuan two years ago. There are now three storefronts. If you don't want to be called a waste of firewood, just work hard.

Men can't give up hope Now in the 21st century, you can work and earn the most money to support your family, think about what to do for yourself!

You're too negative - I'm only over two thousand, but it's only temporary, complaining is really no - you should need to be confident and strong!

There is a dead end ahead, hope is around the corner, it is recommended to look at the dialectic, the problem and the contradiction should be divided into two, grasp the main contradiction, and solve it. It has all been said: In this life, people only need to solve the main contradictions.

There are more useless people than you, those who eat, drink, play and gamble all day long. When I came home, I beat my wife. You're so much better than them. Brothers. There is still a long way to go. Think about your family, think about your children. Let's get some spirits

If it's a man, just grit his teeth and hold on, go out to work and find a way, don't feel sorry for himself here.

Hey, work hard, a better day will come, don't lose hope in life.

The key is that I don't have confidence and don't pursue it.

The heart is relaxed, live a life, wake up every morning and open your eyes, and live the day happily.

Everyone has troubles, and it is up to them whether they want to carry it or put it down.

Even if all people look down on you, you have to look down on yourself, which is the minimum self-esteem and self-love of being a person. Under the premise of self-esteem and self-love, you can build self-confidence - "I am born to be useful". Low self-esteem and self-pity will not help, and will only show their "uselessness".

Born, live", this is life, this is life; A person lives both for himself and for those he loves and all who love him. Every human being is destined to endure all kinds of hardships and sufferings from the time they are born into this world. We are destined to rely on labor and work to maintain our own lives, and to taste all kinds of joys and sorrows, bitterness and sorrow in the world with seven emotions and six desires...

In addition to this, a person has to go through competition, failure, success... The real society is a society full of challenges and competition, and where there is competition, there will inevitably be failure; A mentally mature person should face reality, always be full of self-confidence, and even if he fails, he must get up tenaciously in order to have a chance to succeed.

Therefore, people must have goals and pursuits, and experience the hardships of life and the joy of success in the pursuit. A life that has experienced ups and downs is a truly complete life.

If we have worked hard and reflected the value of our life, we are a useful person!

**Yellow, with eye bags, dazzling, nothing like looking, the body will slowly recover, the body will grow flesh, the body will be whiter and whiter, whiter and whiter, the body will be better and better, better and better, everyone is a useful person.

Life is destined to have seven emotions and six desires to taste all kinds of joys and sorrows in the world, and people always have to live in hope! Full of hope in disappointment, life is still long, your ambition, he will return triumphantly

Yesterday a boy said I can't accept myself, what should I do?

Here's my conversation with him:

Me: What can't you accept yourself?

He: He is not in good health, and his hand is a little disabled.

Me: Do you feel that you have a hand disability?

He: I think it's a little inconvenient for me to do anything.

Me: And then?

Him: And then I feel inferior to normal people.

Me: What would happen if you weren't as normal as a normal person?

Him: You will feel that you are lacking.

Me: What happens if you are deficient?

Him: I feel useless.

It turned out to be useless! Many people will have this belief and feel that they are very useless. So I asked him again:

Me: Are you doing worse than normal now?

Him: (justifiably) No, I'm better off than my cousin.

Me: It's all like this and you still say you're useless.

Him: Okay. Me: Think about what is useful to you every day, and think less about what is useless, and it will naturally break.

In fact, useless stalks really hurt a lot of people, just like this boy, he can clearly say what he is very useful about, but I am useless, I am useless. Why?

Because there was an incident in his growth that made him feel this deeply, and since then it has been ingrained and cannot be changed, focusing on his useless places, always thinking about his disabled hand, no matter how good he does other things, he will only look at the disabled hand.

So change your focus, focus on what you can do, take your eyes off your hands, and look at other places where you shine.

Are you just like this guy and keep an eye on your own shortcomings? It's better to look away and look at your own strengths.